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Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing. I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.
We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.
We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.
This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".
I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.
I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.
I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.
I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.
If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.
My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.
I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]
My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.
I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]
I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.
And that's about all you need to know about me.
I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]
advice
What does it mean when someone asks " did you guys bone yet?" thanks
Hey.
They are basically asking if you have had sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend yet.
im 13/f
i recently discovered a lumpy thing inside my brest,from my nipple.Im very flat and undeveloped so at first i thought i was finally growing,what age does brest cancer start?do u think i have it?plz help,thnx srry this is kinda grose
Hey.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was 12. I was pretty flat myself. But that is that. It is possable to get it at your age.
I personally don't think you do. My twin sister, gets lumps all the time, and its nothing but her growing. Most of the time when you are growing, it comes out as a lump, but it will go down after a while.
If you are really worried about it then just talk to your mom, but I don't think you have anything to worry about.
what does it exactly mean wen a woman i guess says the man popped their cherry??
Hey.
It basically means that the guy broke her hymen.
It doesn't always happens the first time, but usually it does.
two quick question.
1) If i guy says '' oh, i got such blue balls! " what does it mean? cuz i thought i knew what it meant but i guess i was thinking the wrong thing???
Secondly, Ive had sex before.. but in a guys opinion.. whose supposed to be on top.. like what do they prefer? just wondering.
Thanks a bunch!
Hey.
When I guy says he was blue balled. It pretty much means he was about to cum and somehow got unwillingly cut off. I personally think its fun/funny, but guys don't.
And, personally I think a guy should be on top. It varies from guy to guy. Being on top feels realy good, but I'm just too lazy for all that work. Ha.
Could someone explain what Wicca's about?I've done a lot of research on it,but everyone's interpretation seems to be different.
Hey.
Ugh, my fiance has Wicca friends.
Anyways, from what I've learned from him and them.
They worship plants. ie: Mother Nature.
They practice witchcraft, and can, and will put spells on you. They believe in no God, and only worship Mother Nature.
I know thats not a lot, but its basically all that they've told me in the past 3 years.
I read that you have over 2O piercings,& I was wondering do you have your tragus pierced? It's the little flap in your ear, I want to get mine done but I want to know if it hurts& how much it costs, I live in niles,ohio if that helps. :)
Hey.
I do have my tragus pierced. :]
I've had it around 6 months actually.
I have really super low pain tolerance, but the pain wasn't all that bad. Do you have your lobes done? If you do, then I'd say it hurts just a little more than that. I got mine done for free, because my best guy friend owns a tattoo shop. But he charges $40 for it.
Most places I've heard of charges around $20-45.
You're best bet is just give your local shop a call.
Good Luck. :]
IN REPLY TO YOUR FEEDBACK------
THAT IS TRUE. IT IS ALSO TRUE THAT IT CAN BREAK YOUR JAW.
my ex boyfriend is telling
people that im a bad kisser,
and that i dont know "how" to make out .
i've made out with more then one person already,
and no one has ever said anything about the way i make out.
is it just him, or do i really suck at life ?!
Hey.
Just because you are a bad kisser doesn't mean you suck at life.
Since its your ex saying everything, he is probably just making it up because he is an immature dumbass. Don't worry about it.
If anything get another guy you made out with to tell everybody you are good.
does anyone know where i can get the code to the default myspace layout but the 'skinny' kind? thanks!
Hey.
I don't have a myspace anymore but when I did, whateverlife.com had a bunch of skinny layouts. Also try createblog.com, I've seen a few there also.
welll, i'm dating this guy who is 17& a junior& i'm 14& in the 8th grade, next year in novemeber he will be 18& a senior& I will be 15& a freshman.
Do you think this age difference is wrong?
& so i'm allowed to see him I told my mom he was 16 turning 17. I really like him alot, i'm just afriad of getting hurt.
like last night I was with him& we went to a playground& we layed in this tree house& looked at the stars then I fell asleep on his cheast and he didn't kiss me, he'd only kiss my forehead or my hand because he didn't want to rush anything, then he mentioned that his favorite movie was spiderman, so as I was leaving to go back home and he was laying down on the floor and I went over his head& kissed him like they do in the movie, the upside down kiss.
do you think I should have done that?
I really liked last night, alot.
Hey.
I'm 14 and my fiance (yes fiance) is 21.
Remember AGE IS ONLY A NUMBER.
I think the whole upside down kiss was really sweet. If you liked it, and he liked it then there was absolutly nothing wrong with it.
He seems like a great guy.
Don't worry about it.
please only this if you have it done.
does it hurt? i know pain tolerance varies, but in your opinion. i know its a 14 or 16 gauge bar, but i heard its usually pierced with a 12 or 14 gauge needle and then smaller jewelry is put in. is this true?
if it helps, i have both of my cartilages pierced. i did one myself at home with a needle. one is an 18 gauge and one is a 14. would it hurt alot compared to those?
and does it hurt to sleep on it? i didnt find that mine hurt much when i slept other than the back of the stud poking my head.
just any info and opinions on it would be great, thanks =]
Hey.
I have over 20 piercings. And I have to say that my industrial was the most painful. The industrials are known to bring a man to tears.
Most are done with 14 gauge. And a 14 gauge bar or CBR is put it.
Yes, it hurts to sleep on. Especially if you get a bar.
I've had mine 2 years, and it still hurts to touch it sometims, and it never got infected and is fully healed. That is what most people say that get them.
If you want/need info on them just go to bmezine.com. You will find a ton of info.
Good Luck.
I have this project in one of my classes, and we need to do a survey with 100 people. me and my group already have about 20, and i thought it would help if I could just ask people online too for answers. only answer for one candy, and for "other" dont say what candy it is, just say "other".
Nerds
Skittles
M&Ms
Gum
Hershey's
Snickers
Twix
Reeses
THANKS! :]
Reeses. :]
haha. my fiance brings me some everyday when he gets off work. :]
good luck with your project.
i need a new aim s/n what could it be im randomgrl777 but i dont want to do that. im punk goth~im 13~fav #s are 7 and 666~i love evanescence and the used and eyeliner and eyes and penguins and gore and death and dark stuff~im lost on a screan name help me.
Hey.
SmokeyEyes666
BlackGore666
& thats all I can think of...
Sorry.
what goes on in you gothic peoples heads? like do get songs in your head and what are your thoughts and do you love people or not and what do you goths think about?
Hey.
First, We are not from outer-space. We are humans, just like you. You make use sound like fucking aliens.
Now. We NOT DON'T think about killing ourselves. Emo and Goths are two totally different things. & all we think about isn't wearing black.
There is really two stages to goth.
There is style portrayed as "goth".
And the people who are actually gothic.
Goths are very stereotypical. Goths no not worship Satan, and are actually very nice people.
What goes on in our heads are basically normal shit. Same thing that goes through yours probably. We get songs stuck in our heads. We love some people, we hate some. WE ARE JUST LIKE YOU. We don't hate everybody.
So point in case- Goths think just like you.
Everybody thinks different. If you get 100 different people to answer this question. You will get 100 different answers.
Hey. I just wanted to tell you that you're really pretty.
I know that's pretty random/weird, but oh well. I just recently read your old column and I think you are so great for dealing with so much. Good luck with life. (:
Aww, Thank you so much!
ok, so drinking water helps you lose water weight? technically, how does water help you lose weight? what effect does it have on your body?
Hey.
It is because water is very pure and natural. It has absolutely no calories or sodium. Its actually the most healthiest thing you can drink.
how do i " pack " a pack of ciggerettes ?
Hey.
Take the box in one hand, turn it upside down while its still wrapped in plastic. Hit against palm of opposite hand. Viola. Packed Cigarettes.
Sorry I'm not sure how you spell it but either Hodgkinsons or Hodgkins disease. Can someone tell me what that is and what the symptoms are?
I have a sore lump in my armpit which has been there for 3 days now. I'm absolutely petrified of telling someone coz I don't want to go to the doctors.
thanks
Hey.
The most common symptoms of Hodgkin’s disease resemble flu. Lymph nodes get swollen, a person may suffer from fever, fatigue and night sweats and then a tumor forms. Other indicators could be unexplained weight loss, loss of appetite and itching. Lymph nodes usually swell in the neck, underarm, or groins. Diagnosis is made by performing a biopsy and searching for the presence of Reed-Sternberg cells that are specific for this kind of disease. Doctors may order additional blood tests, CT scans or MRI scans. The treatment and prognosis depend on the several factors like age, symptoms, stage of the disease, sex (males are more prone to the disease), and overall health condition. The treatment is indicated for destroying malignant cells and for bringing the disease into remission. A person would fall into the risk group for developing Hodgkin’s disease if they had a family history of the disease, if they were infected with Epstein-Barr virus like infectious mononucleosis, and if their immune systems were compromised.
As for the prognosis, it is said that Hodgkin’s disease is the most curable of blood cancers. Like with any other disease, the earlier discover, the better survival rate.
are you more likely to get acid reflux disease if you have bulimia?
Hey.
I suffered from Bulimia and Anorexia, for a while, and have been hospitalized several times.
I can tell you from experience, yes. You are more likely. You are also more likely for a lot of throat and stomach problems.
I am currently on a liquid only diet for the next 2 years of my life. Why? Bulimia. I have little to no stomach acid, and when I do eat, my stomach can not break the food down so I end up throwing it up. Its the most painful thing I have ever experienced. So, my doctor put me on this nice liquid diet. I have a feeding tube in my stomach because my throat is so messed up. I have to have 5 cans of a nutrition supplement just to have at least half of what I need a day.
And thats only half of what my eating disorders have caused.
So we're selling our house.. and i have stickers on my door, and i need to know how to get them all off so my door looks normal again. please help.
Hey.
Get a Mr. Clean Magic Eraser. Those babys work miracles as far as stickers go. Just pull what you can off, and use your nifty eraser and viola, normal door. :]
I know, I've used it.
i'm a little confused. i know that soda isn't good for you, but what's so bad about diet soda? is it because of all of the chemicals in it? so if i were to drink a 'fruit' juice tropicana peach papaya or something, that's around 250 calories in a bottle. i basically consider that sugar water since there's not too much real fruit juice in it, and out of the ingredients the first few are sugar. so, what i'm asking- which is worse to drink .. the artificial fruit juice, or diet soda. i know that it's okay to drink them both every one in awhile, but i'm asking what's just plain old WORSE for you.
and why is diet soda so bad?
Hey.
The reason diet drinks are so bad for you are because of all the carbohydrates in them. Not all that great for your health. Sure they have zero calories, but that doesn't make them healthy, just less fattening.
Now, that juice probably isn't all that much juice. Juice is better for you and is more healthy. If it is 100% fruit juice, not that fancy crap you are talking about.
Now, Whats worse for you? I'd say its about the same. With the "juice" you are getting over-sugared. With the soda you are getting way to much caffeine and carbohydrates. Don't get me wrong if you have 100% juice over there and the first few ingredients are juice and/or juice related, the yes, it is better than soda.