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ok i really like this girl. i don't know what to do though, since she sometimes acts like she likes me, and yet others she doesn't. i also have trouble asking her out (because i am somewhat shy and/or a coward when it comes to that), but i really want to.

what should i do?

14/m (link)
Ummm. I would just leave her alone. Wait for her to show more interest in you so you wont feel bad if she turns you down.


i was thinking abouts switching from cingular to verizon. my bf & some of my friends have verizon, so overall i thought it would be a good idea so we can be "in" & have free mins including the regular plan & texting. my cingular plan is 2 years, so it's not over until december. the thing is, my cingular bill has been going up & i really think we should switch to verizon so that it wont be as much. is there anyway to break that contract. if so, what are the outcomes & how long does that take?? if we do break it, can i get a verizon phone from the store as soon as i do that?? i want it so that i always have a phone & there isn't a time where i don't have one.

thanks!! (link)
It would be much easier to just wait the contract out. No legal action or anything.


I was wondering if someone could explain to me what modern dance is like. I tried looking online but i never really got much of an explination. I'm thinking its kind of like a lyrical but with alot more of like body moventment kind of things (like kinda yogaish moves).

I would prefer and explanation over just site links please (link)
It is like lyrical but with more earthy-not-so-ballet-and-structured-movements. The music is the same way.


Ok.. Here's the thing.. I'm 15 female & I'm 5'8" also.. Im like 175 pounds.. so yeah.. I'm overweight & it really sucks. I was wondering if anybody out there knew of any good websites with diet plans or exercise guides or anything. I mean, my biggest problem is stress with grades & all & when I'm stressed out I tend to eat. So.. I was just wondering if anyone could give me some advice on a healthy weight loss plan without the use of crash dieting. (link)
weightwatchers.com
WebMD
TeensHealth.org


15 / Female

Every two weeks I like to go one day with out eating, or skipping a meal. I do not do it to lose weight but I have heard it is good for you ( I still drink water ) and it helps to flush out toxins in your body. Is this true? I regularily eat small meals throughout the day that are healthy and I get usually 2-4 hours of exercise a day. After fasting for a day I continue with my normal eating pattern and I do not try to eat a lot to make up for it.

This is beneficial, right? (link)
uh i do not think it is a good idea because you body could go into starvation mode where it thinks you are starving so it holds onto fat and calories much more and burns them more sslowly.


I really want to gain weight, but the right way.
I don't want to sit all day and eat cheeseburgers to gain weight. And I wanna gain 15 pounds by august 26th. Any thing I can eat that is good for me that I could gain weight off of. Or any like things i could do.
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lift weights


okay if i eat breakfast, little lunch and dinner, would that help me lose wieght and also exercise like walking? (link)
I believe so, that sounds like the French Diet. Go to WebMD.com and look up the French diet


Is coffee bad for you?

What if the coffee is decaf? (link)
if you drink it 24/7, then yes but that is with anything. decaf is good. Coffee will stain your teeth:)


so, i recently transfered to an girls school from a coed school. so i'm kinda new to the environment. its been about a month of classes alredy and suddenly, i feel a bit different to this popular lesbian. and it MIGHT because i'm starting to like her!! but this can't be happening! i think a girl having a crush on a girl is gRoSS!!! but then, what can i do about it?? how do i stop myself before i do anything stupid!!?? please help me!!
-Carlotta (link)
avoid that girl. Write down what your issue is and read it over about a dozen times.


my period is really heavy like the first 3 days! well i dont care during the day because i wear tampons but at night i wear pads. i usually have to wear like 4 seriously big pads because its so heavy at night and sometimes that even leaks through! i heard that wearing a tampon for a long time like overnight is bad for you and you are at higher risk for that TSS or whatever! soo is it? or what should i do? im even on birth control lol and im 16/f. and thats why i went on birth control because i thought it would help my heavy flow but it doesnt seem to work. (link)
wear a tampon and a pad at night. It works, i do it. for longer wear of tampons i reccomend the unscented ones.


my best friend just told me shes bi. i always kind of thought that because she always tries stuff with me and our friends. it makes us uncomfortable and we always tell her to stop. but now she told me that me and another one of our friends turned her bi...and its creeping me out. i dont want to be a bad friend and stop talking to her, especially because we have to spend the next week together at camp, but after that i'm probably going to hang out with her less. i'm not trying to be rude and judge her, but that just really freaks me out. please dont tell me i am being a bad friend, because thats not what im asking. i need to no how i can make it seem less weird when im around her for the next week at camp, and how i can not talk to her as much after camp without it being obvious that the reason is because she is bi. and also my whole family thinks shes annoying and i do too, and although she is one of my best friends i have always thought about maybe trying to make more friends in high school next year and not really talking to her that much anymore. so it wouldnt be a big deal if we werent as great of friends i think. sorry if that sounds mean. but please help me!!! thanks. btw im 14/f (link)
Uh if you do not want to lose her as a friend then make it crystal clear you do not like her making moves on you. If she wont stop leave


ok my friend and her boyfriend have on & off for about a year, and they both lost ther verginity to each other. But after they started having sex he only talk to her when he wants to have sex. And when she tells him that she loves him he never say it back. Hdoesn't even call her his girlfriend and everytime she brings up love or anything like that he gets pissed at her. the only time he is not mad at her is when she is not around or when there having sex. I don't have the heart to tell her this but I think he might be useing ehr for sex. What do you think, any help i would really love!
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I think you should stay out of it, not to be mean but your friend has to stand up for herself. If you standup for her now who will stand up for her when you are not around?


anyone know of good excercises or anything that helps lose love handles quickly? thanks!!! (link)
running, crunches/ sit ups, hula hooping (seriously)


My girlfriend and I make a lot of contact without taking the proper precautions and the past month has been the same. She is still a virgin. My concern is when we make contact without the use of a condom and I may pre-ejaculate what is the likelihood of her becoming pregnant? (link)
Sex w/o protection= pregnancy


i have to get into shape.....this guy i loke is so cute and i want him..and i just wanna make sure my belly is flat...cuz i am not fat i just wanna get nice so he will notice me...but i am 115 lbs. and i am like 5 feet 1 inch


but please help me find ways to get him...cuz he likes me and i like him....and if this helps i go to water polo and swim training everday
and i play soccer and cross country

so i am fit!!

thanks
meghan (link)
If he likes you then you do not have to "get him". You already have him. Now excentuate (sp?) that


for the first time i had phone sex. my boyfriend told me what to do but i didnt think it would be so plesent i dont know if know i should have sex with him? anyone please answer i'll give 5's (link)
Umm. If you are not ready for it then dont do it. Explain to him how you ffel about the sex thing


Well my dad died a few years back, and my mom has been depressed and lonely ever since. She tells me all the time that it's hopeless for her to find a single guy her age anymore (45, but she doesn't near look it). Just last night she said to me, 'Honey, I'm lonely,'. And it broke my heart, because she loved my dad, but she hasn't found anyone. She has tried online dating and that wasn't her thing. What are some of your ideas for my mom to meet men? Thank you so much for your help! (link)
What dont you and your mom go shopping together and buy some new clothes. Then you and your mom go out somewhere (the beach, a resturant, a movie, exct) where there is a lot of guys? Or go to church more, there are a lot of good men at church.


i go to this summer day camp every week day and its HELL. oh my god. all we do is sit there in the burning hot sun for 3 hours watching the boys do whatever they want and all the girls are sweating to death. therees like 6 girls and like 15 boys. oh yeah, and the only thing i look forward to is mtv day. every year we do a fun song and a new song and we make a fun dance to it. but guess what? since the boys want to do the hockey pockey, we are performing the hockey pockey for the whole camp. And the camp is unorganzied too. The schedule for my day is sports, sports, (insert boys pick her), (insert boys pick here), practice hockey pockey, go home sweating to death. I WANT TO QUIT SO BADLY, BUT MY PARENTS SAY THE PAID MONEY FOR IT AND I CANT QUIT. There is no way I can change the counselors mind, and the camp is boring anyway. GOD PLEASE TELL ME HOW I CAN GET MY PARENTS TO LET ME QUIT CAMP. (link)
Just participate as little as possible at camp. Heck even hid in the bathroom most of the time.


Ok agian I am a 14/m in a wheelchair and I have this friend lets call her S and she and me talk almost once a week on the phone or online cause she is in minnesota for the summer and she has been asking me advice about this other boy that has a girlfriend but they both lik eachother and well after all of that talking with her I was sitting in my room going through the year book and I kept thinking "Why Can't I be that boy that she likes" and I have been having this crush on her and I am scared to tell her cause I don't want our friendship to go bad and have her mad at me cause I have had that happen before

What should I do? (link)
I would say wait it out. S probably has a temporary crush anyway.


13f well im a disco chic and i love the disco days and dont think disco is dead but anyway does anybody know where i could get some disco clothes from the disco era.i love to be flashy and outgouing and i thought what better way.o yeah i live in north carolina if it helps.much love peace.TWEETY (link)
Try the internet




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