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i think my friend is getting used for sex
ok my friend and her boyfriend have on & off for about a year, and they both lost ther verginity to each other. But after they started having sex he only talk to her when he wants to have sex. And when she tells him that she loves him he never say it back. Hdoesn't even call her his girlfriend and everytime she brings up love or anything like that he gets pissed at her. the only time he is not mad at her is when she is not around or when there having sex. I don't have the heart to tell her this but I think he might be useing ehr for sex. What do you think, any help i would really love!
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he is only using her for sex if your friend does not realize that you need to help her realize that . if she is under age she could get preagnet and you wouldnt want that to happen because she is your best friend and you obviously care about her or you wouldnt be writing this.she would get into so much troubel and she could do so much better
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If he doesnt consider her his girlfriend then she is definately being used. You need to be brave and let your friend know that you think hes using her. At first she may not believe you, but give her time...she will eventually see that you are right.
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I would definetly say your friend is being used. If he doesn't say he loves her why should she be wasting her time on him. I've heard about relationships where the couple has had sex for the first time and it totally changes the relationship completely. All i can say to your friend is to dump him because by the way you described it it seems like he's using her A LOT. Tell her to find someone that actually will love her for her not her body/sex. Kay hope i helped. :)
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that its so terrible .
you should tell your friend her bf its using her for pleasure but in a calm way or she might get pissed of at you and ruin your friendship
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i think this dude is playing with your freind here he doesnt love her obviously and never even said it.hes totally using her for sex because he KNOWS she loves him and will do anything to please him and this is not making him love her!you need to tell your freind to break up with this guy because hell only get her to a heartbreak
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I think you should let your friend learn herself, because it is they're relationship they and they'll have to learn the hard way... Just let them work it out because you might end up losing your friend, something like that happed to me. You see my friend went with a girl, she was just joking about and they broke up the next day and he stopped being friends with me.
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i bet she knows it and is just too weak to say no. wat can you do is tell her this guys is a prik and what she does is her decision. juss tell her wat u think and if shes too weak to tell this guy off then wat can u do right
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I think you should stay out of it, not to be mean but your friend has to stand up for herself. If you standup for her now who will stand up for her when you are not around?
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I see why your so worried about your friend.This guy is definatly using your friend for sex.The best thing to do would be to tell your friend.Bring up the topic of her "boyfriend",and ask how it's going.Then,tell her that you think the guy is using her,and give reasons why(like,"he doesn't even call you his girlfriend!").That should get her to think about it.I hope she drops this guy.Hope I helped!
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hey,
thats really a tough situation, and i feel really bad for your friend, and this guy is most definitely using her,because he found out that she agreed to do it with him the first couple of times,so he started using her to do it more often.
And although i am sure that if you make any attempt of pointing that out to your friend, she will say that your jealous and she'll get mad and pissed off, and then she'll find out that herself later on, and she'll come and apologize to you. End of chapter. End of story. that is exactly what will happen, and that is exactly what i want you to do, is to ask your friend to sit alone and think about everything thats happening and how he is using her, and he never said i love you or i miss you ,and he doesn't talk except if he wants to do it with her.
So tell her all that, and also tell her that you understand that she loves him, but unfortunately he treats her really bad and is using her,and the fact that he doesn't even call her his girlfriend. Besides, your her best friend, and you should be there for her in such a situation.
so goodluck, and if you need any further help, please be free to contact me.
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