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when should a kid have sex (link)
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well really i dont think there is an age limit its when there ready nobody can make that decioson for them but they should just keep in mind that once they do things will never be the same exspceially if your a gurl so think before you act
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I hate my life my mom is mean my sister is a snot my b/f is a jerk and very selfcentered and i want to die......tonight (link)
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wow honey dont even think about it beleive me ive tried to do the same thing countless times but i can assure of 1 thing nobodys life is perfect and everything happens for a reason rember theres always tomaorrow so please dont
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my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me. (link)
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honey what you need to do is get out of thatv relationship because you deserve better much hes not for you honey
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Ok well i came on a trip to my cuzins house and i met his friend Robie well Robie is very cute and now i am going out wit him.Well that is all good and all for while i am here but ten again i live in California and he lives in Oklahoma. I am afraid that this is not going to work out but i want it to sooooo bad because i hella like him but what should i do i am considering moving back here but idk if i can so please help me!!! (link)
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well i would say your to young but i go for older to and well since your only 13 dont make any rash desions you have your whole life and well i hate to be the bearer of bad news but most long distance relalonships dont work out but hey whats the harm in trying you can be the few whole acually stay together
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There is this guy that I have been friends with for a little while at school. We went to a frat party together and were dancing and having fun. Yes we were both slighty inebriated but thats besides the point. I kind of like him and when we were dancing he kissed me and we made out for a little bit. I don't know what to think of it because I kind of have feelings for him. We have been hanging out and flirting but haven't kissed again. He did make some comments like, you looked really good tonight but only on AIM. Is he just really shy or do you think it was just a random drunk thing? (link)
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well thats a toughy b/c people do some crazy things when there drunk but i dout that your drunk everyday so if you have feelings for him than let him know b/c like you said he flirts w/you and all so go for it
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One of my very close friends believes he was born gay. I just don't understand his belief in that. Why is it that some people can be 'born gay' and others not? I just don't understand that concept in life. Can anyone explain to me why some can be born gay and others not? (link)
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well if i were you i would be very happy for your friend because at least he admitts that he is gay most people stay in the closet witch is uncool and very unhealthy but if you ask me i think gay people are the coolest b/c usally they treat you better than your other freinds
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i'm 13 and a girl.i really need help.in 7 grade i went out with this boy named russ we liked each other since 6 grade but in 7 he asked me out. we fell in love with each other after 5 months we went out for 6 months. when summer vacation came we broke up. we did't talk for the whole summer untill in august he called. then when we went back to school we went back to talking like the best friends we were.then we both went out with different people. and he would come to my house to hang out but on day we kissed(we both were with somone).then he broke up with his girlfrined and i broke up with my man.then we went back out we promised each other that nothing was going to happen and we would be the best couple.so then i felt like i did't want to be in a nother relationship with him so i broke up with him. he never saw it comming and he felt soooo bad. then couple months later he went out with this other girl and he said he loved her after 2 months but i know he did't because the way he acted. i think he said that because he was missing me.then he cheated on her with me . he said he would do anything for me.and he still see me in his life for ever.now him and his girlfriend are not together. this boy named jay is talking to me now we have been talking for 3 weeks now and he wants us to go out. but i'm scared he might hurt me just like russ did.and jay and i are really close and i think i might fell in love with him.jay and i are going though changing . he gonna stop being a player. he just got of a relationship 3 months ago and he loved the girl. so i need your help please. (link)
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well it seems that you broke up with russ b/c you didnt care for him any more but i wouldnt hold myself back from begin in a better relationship just remeber the thing that where afrid of most could be the thing that are worth the while
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hi i just recently discovered some suspicious actions coming from my boyfriend. on myspace in his inbox i discovered a lot of letters that he wrote to girls saying stuff like, "wow, you're beautiful". or "i could spend all night gazing in your eyes."
i started crying cuz in a way i think he's cheating on me in a sense by flirting with other girls. i confronted him about it, and he denies all of it saying that he was just bored and on myspace a lot of people ask to rate their picture. i still didn't believe him cuz his answer was unreasonable, and he kept telling me things like he specified that he was in a relationship (which is true) and he was just bored and i shouldn't take it personally. even some of the girls he commented on had boyfriends so he said i was overreacting. he also said that if he were to be cheating on me, why is he not going out to act upon his actions?
right now i really don't know whether to believe him or not.
i never talk to guys let alone look at them because i keep my boyfriend's feelings into consideration. what i told him was that if he was allowed to talk to girls (he talks to guys also, he's outgoing like that), then i should be allowed the same priveliges without having to feel guilty about it. do you think i made the right decision on telling him that?
i really don't know what to think. there's more to this story and i apologize if i made him seem like the evil antagonist here, but we've been together a log time and he's never cheated on me...i want to believe him, i really do. but why would he call other girls beautiful? why the word "beautiful" of all words?
any help is appreciated... (link)
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honey dont blame yourself or even feel bad because you have every righ to be angry with your boyfriend and well how do you know hes not cheating so do yoursel a favor an keep a close eye on him and let him know that your not stupid and let him know that you can play hard ball too
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Ok now well i have been with this kid whom we'll call john and my ex we'll call jack.Ok me and john have been together for about 3-4 weeks and i was with my ex for 5 months then we broke up in january but lately i have begun to get old feelings back for jack but we are BOTH in a relationship so i wrote him a letter after john left for florida basically asking him out and i am waiting for right now but the prob is if it doesn't work out should i tell john when he comes back about what i was secretley doing?? plz help i only have a couple of days left!!!
~~ME~~ (link)
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well it seems to me that you never really got over ex and i think that you should end it with you current boyfriend. but if your willing try it again then let him know what you did but really the truth is that you cant help who you fall in love with and somebody always gets hurts in the end so my advice is if you love somebody and you think they feel the same do every thing to get and keep it b/c love is rare love you always sweet apples
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17/m Last weekend a very close friend of mine told me that she liked me. I said that I liked her too and that we should go out sometime. The reason that I said that I liked her is because everything deserves a chance. Well we have been on two dates and it is clear to me that she likes me way more than I like her. How do I let her know that I want to be just friends with out ruining a good friendship? I rate high. (link)
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well theres no way to say it with out really hurting here a little but its better to tell here how you feel now because if you keep leading her to beleive that you like her as much as she thinks you do its gonna hurt more when she finds out the truth good luck
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well like this boy a lot and ive known him 4 like 8 years and hes like a brother to me so its kinda weird that i like him.......i had something in my profile saying that i liked some one and my B.F.F. saw it and was like who do you like and i wouldnt tell her cause she dosnt like him and she would think i was weird and i dont want that but she keeps bugging me about it and it really annoying she keeps saying i should tell her because shes my bff..... but i dont want to tell anybody... including her even tho shes my bff......how can i tell her its not her bisness wothout being to harsh and coming off mean?? (link)
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what you should tell her is that its none of her bussness but if you dont want to be harsh just tell her that your tell her whenthe time is write and when your ready and if she cant accept that then the hell with her good luck
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Well here is my problem ..
I went out with this guy for like 2 months .. We broke up .. It was b/c of me .. :-( I got so nervous around him .. He'd try to hold my hand and i would shake .. I felt so stupid .. That was almost 7 months ago ..Well I still like him SO much .. But he doesn't know that i still like him .. I think that he has a clue but i haven't confirmed it .. Well one of his friends likes me and i kinda like him .. But i don't get nervous around him .. I want to go out with him but i don't want it to look like i am "using" him to get to the other guy that i still like ALOT .. Any advice would be good !!
Thanks so much .. (link)
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well like you said you think he has a clue that you still like him and well he hasnt acted upon it and well if you dont get nervous around his friend that likes you than go with him and see how it works out and since you never really told him that you still care there would be no reason to think that yor using him you know or just follow your heart and do what you think is best if you need anymore advice please write me and put it in my inbox
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there is this boy and we went out over the summer, but a day before shcool started abck we broke up. We havent talked in almost 6 months and i still like him. He has a girlfriend, but he stares at me and all sometimes. I want to write him a note and tell him that i still like him, but i dont know what all to say. Anyone got any ideas? i rate high!! (link)
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well i cant give the kind of advive that would he;p but what i would is write him a letter i mean what the worst he can do turn you down but before i write him i would make sure he stares at me and maybe even say hi to make sure he knows that you still exsit you know sorry couldnt be more help write back if you need more advice good luck love sweet apples
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yesterday, after school, was the beginning of my spring break and when i came home, i decided to play around because it was the first day of spring break and i was happy! so when my mom got home and saw me talking on the phone, chatting, and listening to my ipod, she got all mad, screaming why i wasn't doing my project! well i have 2 really important history projects to do over spring break, but the thing is both of them are due like 5 weeks after spring break! she forced me to work on it all night and i was workng and working and she kept on screaming and screamign! i wanted so badly to tell her to SHUT THE HELL UP I'M WORKING!!! but she has a bad temper and i do too (i inherited it from her) and i don't want to start one of our horrible fights. so i kept calm and did my work. so after like 2 hours i decided to take a break and play minesweeper, and then my mom came in and totally freaked out, saying i was wasting my time! i told her i was just taking a break and she won't believe me!!! she started screaming about how i just wasted her entire night because the lazy, worthless child i am (she didn't exactly say that but she was SO thinking that!). then my grandma came and asked if she should wake me up again (because once she didn't and i woke up at 12 and i got mad, long story) and then i was like sure. my grandma said "ok how about i wake you up at 10:30?" and i was going to say NO WAY and then my mom cried "10:30!? she should be woken up at 8:30!!" I CAN'T STAND MY MOM!! HOW CAN I STOP HER!! SHE'S FORCING ME TO FINISH THE ROUGH DRAFT OF BOTH MY PROJECTS TODAY AND DOES SHE KNOW HOW MUCH WORK AND TIME THAT IS GOING TO TAKE!? AND SHE'S ALWAYS SAYING THAT WHEN SHE WAS A CHILD, HER MOTHER WOULDN'T HAVE TO DO THIS TO HER BECAUSE SHE WAS THE PERFECT STUDENT AND DID ALL HER WORK!! AND YES I BELIEVE HER BECAUSE SHE ENDED UP GOING TO MIT AND BECAME A DOCTOR AND ALL. BUT PLEASE HOW CAN I CONTROL HER! SHE'S OVERWELMING ME! JUST BECAUSE SHE COULD STAND TO DO ALL THIS WORK WHEN SHE WAS MY AGE, DOESN'T MEAN I CAN!!! HELP ME PLEASE THIS IS SERIOUSLY AN EMERGENCY!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well my moms the same way you should really tell her to get of your back and tell her that your projects arent due intill much later and tell her that alot of things have changed since she was a kid and tell her that you dont like her yelling at you and shes putting way to much pressure thanks for talking to me
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Does anyone know if it's possible it increase the size of your breasts without gaining weight? I know that if you gain weight your breasts will grow larger (considering it's all fat tissue anyway). But I'd like to increase the size of my breasts without gaining weight. Is this possible? Thanks, I rate. (link)
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well theres nothing really you can do if your young your grow and well if your older than sorry oh you can ask your docter for breast inhancers and if not than just rock the size you have
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okay my guy friend and i were suppose to spend yesterday together but we didn't cuz he didn't call me. he is not a dependable person. so today in the hall he said hi and i ignored him. was that the right thing to do? and does anyone have any ideas on what i should say to him or what should i do? (link)
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well come on we all kno when guys say there going to call they never do you do have a right to be mad and well since he ingored you do the same let him know whos boss please you dont even need him but if can this game im sure you can play it better
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Okay now I dont want to sound too sluty but yesterday I went some where with my friend and when we got there it was this really cute boy there. Now he was flirting with me(rubbing my leg and holding my hand) but the bad part of all this is he was doin gthe same to my friend, when we went outside, we actually made out. When we got back to my friends house she told me that they made out! Now I don't know if that is true or not because they were never really alone together bu twhat if it is true? I have to see this boy every thursday, and I think we both like him, but who does he like??? PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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honey it seems to me that hes playing you and your friend you know turning friend against friend you dont need a guy like because it sounds to me that hes trying to get both of you so discourge him and keep your friendship
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i like 2 girls right now, GIRL-A goes to my school and lives REALLY close, but GIRL-B goes to a dif school but still lives kind of close to me. im good friends with GIRL-A but i dont think i have a chance with her(atleast not right now cuz she just broke up with her bf and she still likes him). i know GIRL-B likes me and shes perfect for me but we barely ever see each other(atleast not now). do you think that a relationship w/ GIRL-B would work out or should i just wait a while and see what happens?
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well thats a tough one because mostley long distance relationships dont last its a proven fact but if your willing to take a risk and dont mind a challenge than go for gurl be and well as for gurl-a it dosent seems like she 's ready and like you said she still likes her bf and well you dont want to be rebound
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hi, remember me? I talked to you guys about this guy I like and I wasnt sure if he liked me back.
Anyway. I went to a party last night and I was shocked. I felt like I was shot twice : he smoked and he dirty-danced with a girl, you know with her butt all over him. I really thought he was different, that's why I liked him in the first place.She's not his gf cause she danced with other guys.
I really need some help...Should I ignore all this and try to get to know his personality better? Or should I move on and forget all about him?
Please don't delete this question, the answers are very important to me. (link)
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well your judging form what you saw i think maybe you should try to get to him a little better if you like as much as you say you do i mean the worst that you could find out is that you shouldent have liked him in the first place
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my guy friend lies so much i don't whether to believe him or not. he lies about his age and other stupid stuff and i don't know whether to believe him or not. i confronted him yesterday but he denies that he lies. what should i do? (link)
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honey than you dont need someone like that he is called a convulsive lier and its not good to be friends with someone like that. because people like that will lie and get you in trouble
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