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Here are some things about me.

A lot of people judge me on what they see but never really know whats going on. I'm not close to perfect and I'm not afraid to show it. So many things have happened to me that it seems surreal sometimes. But now I'm finally happy with myself and my life. So haters keep hating because I realized how blessed I truely am.


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now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne?

I don't think negative when I see people with acne. Because I went through a time in my life when I suffered from it also. So it would be really hypocritical of me if I thought of them badly just because of their skin. A person with acne has the same chance of being my friend as a person without acne.

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I want to have a sweet sixteen. I cant have anything big, but i still want a party. What are some good themes? Elaborate please. Btw, my birthday is in novemember.

Thanks for asking me. I tried my best to go into detail but just incase I didn't, I put a website underneath each theme to help you out a little more.

Egyptian Night: Make your house or where ever its going to be at seem like a real egyptian experience. You can buy some egyptian decorations. What would be really cute is if you did an egyptian dance as the grand opening.
http://www.askginka.com/nationality/egyptian.htm

Hollywood Party: Have everything glamorous. What would be really nice is if you could get some of your friends together and you'll could have a fashion show at the party. Have fake money everywhere.
http://partyplansplus.com/partyplans/hollywoodprod.htm

Pretty in Pink: Everything pink. You could make it a rule that everyone must have on some type of pink to get in. If you don't like that just make sure everything else is cute and pink.
http://www.rosemarycompany.com/2433.html
http://parenting.ivillage.com/tp/tcelebrations/0,,nkzp,00.html

Back in Time: You can have a party with a themes of an earlier decade like the 50s, 60s, 70s, or 80s. You can have that decade music, do their dances, and dress the way they use to dress. Here is a website for the 70s.
http://partyplansplus.com/partyplans/hollywoodprod.htm

Night in Paris: Make your house or where ever its going to be held seem like a real paris experience. You can buy a little fake Eiffel Tower. Serve French food. Pass out berets for people to wear.
http://www.theallineed.com/entertainment/05031203.htm

If you don't like my ideas here are some websites that have some more.
http://www.4funparties.com/EVENTS/Birthday/Sweet-16/Favorite-Sweet-16-Themes/index.html
http://entertaining.about.com/cs/kidsparties/a/sweet16part1.htm
http://www.party411.com/sweet16.html
http://www.birthdaypartyideas.com/html/sweet_16_party.html

Feel free to write me back anytime.

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hey...I'm sure someone here watches laguna beach and well will prob. watch the hills on mtv. I was just wondering: "the hills" trailer had lauren open a box from jason(i'm thinkin it's a ring) and then she has a veil...

what's with that is she getting married or just fooling around? I heard some rumours she was engaged to jason wahler but I'm wondering if it's true?

I am like totally obsessed with that show. I'm so excited that The Hills will be premiering tomorrow night! lol

No they aren't engaged. Its just that he is trying to get back with her. So it was probably just a simple present to let her know he was thinking about her or something.

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Well, i ahve a question!
Be honest!
I am a natural blonde, but i think that brunetts are wilder, but what do you thing, i need your advice!

Hev

Honestly I don't think natural hair color plays a role in personality.

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i'm going to a dance tonight. its not formal so i dont wanna go out and get my hair done. so i was thinking of some cute ideas? its medium length and hard to curl so i straighten it usually. if anybody has cute ideas that'd be great!

Here are some websites that have some really cute styles for straight hair.

http://www.beautyriot.com/category.php?id=66
http://www.just-hairstyles.com/straight-haircuts.htm
http://www.2hairstyles.com/

This website shows you step by step what you need to do.
http://beauty.about.com/od/zassortedhairstyles/qt/straighter.htm

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i know this is random but ill rate .. how come in "RESPECT" by aretha franklin, she goes " r - e - s - p - e c - t, take out the t - c - p." why does she say take out the tcp? what does it mean? lol thanks1

She doesn't she says
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Find out what it means to me
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Take care of TCB

(TCB stands for take care of business)

Here's a website with the lyrics.
http://www.lyrics007.com/Aretha%20Franklin%20Lyrics/Respect%20Lyrics.html

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. we're both 15. recently he's told me that he likes other girls, but would never cheat. he says he only likes them based on looks and anytime he sees them, he always compares them to me in the back of his mind and they always lose. but when i found out about this, i was upset. i feel uncomfortable that he likes other girls besides for me. is that selfish? he loves me and i love him but i don't want other girls to be on his mind. it hurts...should i try to be ok with him liking other girls or should i break up with him? i mean, people can't help who they like, right?

It is not good for him to like other girls. So make sure you ask him does he LIKE other girls or is he ATTRACTED to other girls. Those two words can make a big difference.

It's only natural for him to be attracted to other girls. But you are the one that he is attracted to the most. In fact he is so attracted to you that he has a relationship with you and whenever he compares them to you, they always loose. You should also think about it in reverse. I know that you are attracted to other guys. It could be thier looks or their personality. But its only natural for you to not think every guy you see is ugly. So basically what I'm saying is that you aren't going to be the only girl on his mind and he isn't going to be the only guy on your mind but when it comes down to it you all are on each others minds so much that you'll have a relationship built on honesty and trust together. He was honest enough with you to let you know how he feels. And he trusts you enough to let you know this and still know that you'll will be together.

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Do u think its to soon to give my number? I had met this guy at a party and I was attracted to him, I talked to him on myspace for the first time and I invited him to a party and gave him directions.......I also gave him my number incase he needs directions.

No I don't think so. I think that was perfect timing. So you have an excuse to give him your number. And that will soon lead to other conversations.

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I take really advanced classes in school, I have been dealing with a ton of drama lately, and I have been worrying a lot about my prom coming up soon. So I have been REALLY stressed. I want to know does anyone have any type of stress relievers that you don't have to buy? If so it would be greatly appreciated.

I do something to bring humor to my life when I'm stressed.
-I watch shows like Andy Milonakis, Wild N' Out, and Yo Momma. I find all three of these shows hilarious. They come on MTV.
-I think about funny times I had with my friends.
-I read the Embarrasing Moments sections of magazines.

Normally this stuff gives me quite a laugh and relieves my stress.

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ive known this boy for 7 months... we were going out since i met him and we broke up like 3 weeks ago. we argue when we go out and when we arent going out. hes in love with me but everytime i get mad at him it makes me just want to be his friend more and more. he doesnt understand. he always hides stuff from me when he finds stuff out. hes really sneeky too. he found out my password to get on my computer, to get on my email, to get on here, and to get on my buddypic [ x0xkayla ] check me out.. lol ! well since weve been brokin up weve still be hanging out and doing stuff like we would normally do when we are going out. but on my buddypic it said that i was single and i was looking for a boyfriend and blah..blah.. blah . and he was being nosy and saw it and started flipping out. hes not the tyoe of boy i want to be with but unfortually i fell in love with him. im trying to get him to forget about me but we were planning on going to cali on may 23rd and now its canceled because me and him are in a big argument. is there any way i can just get him to be friends with me or to get him to change his ways? i want to be with him but i want him to be a good person not always arguing with me and being nosy

-kay
i rate 5's

I think you are doing good by realizing that its better if you two only be friends since yall do less argueing that way.

The best way to let someone know how you feel is through communication. One day when you see him, take him in private and let him know that yall need to talk. Let him know how you feel about everything that has to do with yall's friendship and past relationship.

I think by acting the same way around him as you did when yall were going out is a big mistake. Doing this will lead him on. And you don't want to lead him on because then he will think you might want to get back together.

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so my prom is in 9 days, saturday april 22nd. i just got a cold sore today, i've been putting carmex on it and its not getting bigger but does anyone know any quick fixes?

thx!

Visit this site. It has a variety of home remedies that will have your cold sore gone. So take your pick.

http://www.health911.com/remedies/rem_coldso.htm

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ok what is the most romantic/creative way to get a girl's attention? and i dont want to do roses or jewelry, i want to do the only kinds of things girls dream about. any ideas? i rate high.

-Cook for her
-Sing to her
-Make her a scrapbook
-Write her a love note

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what are some cute flirty things that cna do with my boyfriend. like mess with him and still have fun and not get him mad. like he likes to mess with my fingers and put them in his mouth and etc. what are somethings i can do .. an ideas would be appericated.

-Touch his butt.
-Stare at him until he notices and when he asks you what you are looking at, say something like "nothing you are just sexy (or hansome)"
-Whisper in his ear
-Place your head on his chest when you all our sitting beside each other like on a date or something.

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14/f
My boyfriend and I have been together for what seems like forever. We love each other very much. I was thinking about doing something very special for him. I just dont know what to do! Does anyone have any ideas? Gifts, outtings, surprises, etc.. I'm up for anything besides sex.

Thank you!

-Send him cute little hand made cards through the mail.
-Plan out a day (preferrably on weekends)of activies you all can do like going to the mall, movies, skating, etc.
-Write him poems.
-Make him a gift basket.
-Let him know how much he means to you.
-Make him a CD of songs that make you think of him.
-Call him just to say hey.

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Hello Friends, thank you for reading this. I have a friend, she was actually one of my first friends here, and I just heard that she was saying things about me behind my back to people that are my friends. Should I confront her about what she is saying?

Yes, you should definitely confront her. What she is doing is wrong and you need to let her know that.

Tell her how you feel and that you wish she would stop.

If she is willing to talk behind your back then I don't think she is a true friend.

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ok well there is there really hot kid in my school and i really like him. hes really nice and we are good friends. the only problem is, is that he doesnt like me... he likes another girl.we like talk on the phone and stuff but he still doesnt get it.i really want him to notice me but in the halls all he does is act stupid around me

please help!!

Unfortunately you can't make someone like you.
If he has his eyes set on another girl then there isn't a way for you to get him until he stops liking her.
But I dont think you should wait around for him. Move on. There are other fish in the sea.
I know it is easier said than done. But with time you will get over him.

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Okay I'm 15 from Chicago Illinois

Okay so after one of my dances the guy I was going with and me had sex. Unprotected. I know it was stupid. But we obviously weren't thinking at the time. Now I am pregnant. My mom doesn't really care because she had me when she was 16. My dad doesn't really have an opinoin either. I was thinking at first about having an abortion but then I thought that's crazy. How could I kill a child! The only problem is that a kid would ruin my life. I'm still in school and I LOVE to party. So I'm obviously going through with the pregnancy. But afterwards I'm not sure what to do. Do I keep the kid, do I put it up for adoption, give it to my parents to take care of until I'm done with schooling. I was just wondering if you had any opionions. Yah know pros and cons..

Thanks so much.

Since you most likely aren't ready for the responsiblity of taking care of a child yet I think you should consider an option where you won't have to be the care taker.
If you put it up for adoption.
Pros...
-financial aid would be taken care of
-the child could have a secure home
Cons...
-won't be able to see the baby grow
-won't know how the child is doing while it is growing up

I don't recommend you giving the child to your parents to take care of because if they don't really care about you getting pregnant then that makes me wonder how good of parents they would be to the child.
Pros...
-you could finish school
-finish your future plans
-won't have as much of a responsibility as if you were to take care of the child
Cons...
-they may not care that much
-you would still have a responsibility for the child since you all would be living in the same house.

I hoped I helped. But if not feel free to write me back ANY time you want to. Know that I am here for you.

I browsed around the web and found some websites that I thought could help you a little bit.
http://www.teenadviceonline.org/gethelp/numbers.html
teenhelp.us
helpmyteen.com
http://www.ability.org.uk/teen_pregnancy.html

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Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do?

Since he is gay and you can't change him I think you should try to move on.
Here are some tips on how to do so...
-think about other hott guys
-keep your mind off of him
-occupy yourself with fun things to do the time you would normally be thinking about him
*know that there will be other guys and he isn't your only hope
-everytime you think about how much you like him, think about him being gay

Hope I helped. I know you will get over him with time. Feel free to write me back if you need anything else.

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What are some things girls like guys to do at scary movies? Like hold their hands or what? We are going ot see the hills have eyes and i don't know if she would like it if i put my arm around her or anything... 13/m

If she gets scared then comfort her by holding her hand, putting your arm around her, or simply saying something like "It's okay."

Anything you do to comfort her when she is scared she will probably love.

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well right now my hair is short and blonde heres the pic: http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/121212.jpg but it has more blodn highlites in it now

would it look bad this color? :http://photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/?action=view¤t=yuvthishaircolor.jpg

with maybe bleach blonde highlites over it or underneath? orrr dark brown underneath? thankss

The second website's hair color was really cute and I think it would look cute on you.

Beach blonde highlights underneath would look great.

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