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She is talking behind my back
Hello Friends, thank you for reading this. I have a friend, she was actually one of my first friends here, and I just heard that she was saying things about me behind my back to people that are my friends. Should I confront her about what she is saying?
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yes you really should confront her. if she was your true friend she wouldnt be saying things in the first place but since she is.. confront her but dont yell or anything. youre probaly pissed about this but maybe confronting her will make it better.. good luck ;)
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yes.I think you should,but stay calm.
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Yes, but don't scare her by yelling at her. Maybe just make some conversation then ask her (calmly)
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You should definitely confront her. Go to your friend and talk to her. Find a good time when you can talk one-on-one. But do it soon; don't let it slide. Try not to involve others. It puts them in the middle and usually only confuses things.
And if your friend has been bad-mouthing you, find out what's behind it. Was your friend angry? Was there a misunderstanding? You need to find out what she was thinking and what she is willing to do to make things right.
If you deserve an apology, ask for one.
Hope things turn out for you and your friend soon. Good luck!
Later!:)
♥teen13
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Yes confront her.
But don't make a huge public deal over it. Confront her when she is alone and ask her about what you've heard and find out what she says about it. Be very calm about it but yet be very assertive when asking about it. Don't lost anger or go about accusing her. Just tell her what you've heard and ask her about it. Judge for yourself what her answer is.
I hope I helped though, and good luck and I hope this gossiping about you behind your back between your friends isn't true.
-Ryan
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Yes, you should definitely confront her. What she is doing is wrong and you need to let her know that.
Tell her how you feel and that you wish she would stop.
If she is willing to talk behind your back then I don't think she is a true friend.
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yes, you should confront her about it. personally, when ever i find out something liek that, i kinda of hold a grudge without meaning to until i get it off my chest and talk to them about it. if you are good friends, you guys should be able to talk about things like that & it will even make your friendship stronger. just tell her what you know, how you are feeling, and tell her it hurts you when she does those kind of things.<3 good luck!
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