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I don't know what to do. my boyfriend is deeply in love with me, obsesses over me, gets jealous really easy, annoys me, talks about beating up guys that I talk to, and cries when we get in the littlest fights. I'm going through so much right now and i just want to break it off with him because my families going through problems and I don't need his problems and commitment on top of it. I just don't know what to do. HELP MEE!
<3amanda
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I hate to break the news but you have to let him go. He is not worth your tears. I mean a real boyfriend respects his girlfriend. Will give her her space. Never annoys her. Doesn't cry. You deserve better. And there are better guys out there. If he is like this, trust me, this is your future. Let him go. Enjoy your life. Life is to short to be tied up with guys like this. With love.
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Haha hmmm...Sounds like someone I know.
But really, family first.
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Family first, friends next, then the guy. If he's not helping you and supporting you and giving you his shoulder to cry on while you're going thourugh all of these family issues he's not worth it. Getting obssesed and jealous is not real boyfriend material. I strongly advise you to dump him; but tell him that you'll still be his very good friend. It will take a lot of weight of your shoulders. =D
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Hey girl!
I know what it is like to have problems in the family. It's so stressful. Your BF should be there to help you get through it, not make the matter worse. If I were you I would give him a chance. Tell him he is crowding you and it is making you really stressed out. Don't let his crying blackmail you into staying with him. If he does not improve then you need to break it off because it is not healthy. Follow your instincts, most of the time they are right. Good Luck, it's hard breaking someones heart. Megz
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You should just tell him how u feel and hopefully he'll understand. maybe you guys can jusy be friends until everything is straightned out with you family and tell him to lay off you for a while.
soo good luck
♥ krystal
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wow, u have the almost identical problem my friend did. I would say that you should break it off with him, but first have a conversation with him about what is wrong. Tell him exactly what you feel. It also sounds like he doesnt trust you, and I must say if there is no trust in a relationship, then there is a problem. With the obsessiveness that is not such agreat thing, it is a little too much, i would definately talk to him!
good luck
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Ok hun, first of all I am so sorry you are going through that....I went through that before for a year and a half...the worst times of my life...
You NEED to get out of that relationship. I didn't for the longest time and it has effected my life so negatively...please hun do yourself a favor and get out.
It is good that you realize that you need to get out of it...that is a really good thing to know...so yes, just break it off and things will be a lot easier for you...
I really hope everything goes well...and that you make the right decision..if you ever need anything drop it in my inbox.
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