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My name is Lisa and I have blonde hair, green eyes and i am like 5'2.My advise can be interesting depending on my mood hehe. Um i like giveing advice but i dont like taking it. + advice is something we already know but wish we didn't... muha, Lisa

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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy

thanks!

you shouldnt be buying the condems he should and trojan is good i supose
muha
Lisa

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Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
Help, i rate.

oh dear dont tell me you are looking ford to such a thing when i was 12 /13 all i thouhg about was staying such an age. let me tell you periods are no fun for so0o manny reasions + you get cramps and they are so painfull. the first time i got cramps i thought i was dieing. but yeah most likely. around the time i got pimples was around the time i got my period. boobs have nothing to do with it i started maturing when i was in 5th grade adn didnt get my period till the end of 7th grade

muha lisa

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Im 15 and I cant get it up. What should I do?

uhh www.89.com have fun

\m/Lisa

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Hey. What are crunches? I was thinking crunches were sit-ups, but they must be something different. Thanks =)

they are like sit-ups but you only go 1/2 way up...they are said to be better then sit ups

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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?

thanks

ask him for his screen name or phone number adn talk to him but say its for home work or somethign and then ask him how he likes the class you two have together then go from there

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my friend richard is really cute but has a girlfriend well we went to a kickback and he got me drunk aswell as his self well when he was drunk he tried to take advantage of me he didnt get to but he did finger me and stuff lets just say we did 3rd base he doesnt remember what happened and my friend told me he keeps asking me if i remember what should i tell him? should i be mad? should i 4 get it?

wow that seems all to fimilar... ok yeah tell them if they ask... if your friend means anything to you then dont gt drunk with him again...you dont want drama do ya??

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ok i like this guy that all my friends think is a dork and they dont know i have a crush on him. you see i've started going to this school a couple of monthes ago and well i am sorta dignosed with paranoia. I have a real hard time opening up to people cuz my experience at my one other school and when i was there people that i thought were my friends told the whole grade who i liked and when it happened to them they didn't care to much but i did and now i'm afraid of telling my new friends about my crush and what they'll say. PLEASE HELP!

P.S. i'm really shy 2 so that might play into all this but i dont know ;)and i'm a 14 yr old female

thats so cute, unless they know him and could hook you two up then dont tell them, unless you want to play the i will trust you untill you give me reasion not to(but that game is risky for a shy one like urself)...

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im a 14 year old guy and i weigh like 150 pounds..im 5'6 or 7 and over the summer i lost like 20 pounds, but instead of it being gone, it turned to more muscle even though i naturally have a lot of muscle (it runs in my family) even though everyone tells me i dont look fat or anything, and actually some say i look so muscular and everything i dont think its true..i think im fat and i dont like it and im afraid to take my shirt of in front of my friends..although i know that my weight turned into muscle, i still look almost the same in the mirror. people tell me i look like superman because i have big calf muscles and shit like that (i have big calf muscles because i skateboard) why do i still think im fat and see myself as fat although everyone tells me im not?

well try the sporty look it might work and try doing cardio

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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!

nothing is wrong ur just tight and probly shouldnt be having sex but that is only an openion

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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you.

well just say your cat did it

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14/m my parents are always talkin about how bad life used to be for them. They keep telling me how they used to get beaten for everything they did wrong. I know i'm not perfect and i deserve punishment sometimes, but this is torture! I made it known that im not interested in hearing these depressing stories and its like they don't hear me because they keep telling the stories. and its not even like they change it up, cuz they don't. I just got in trouble for saying i didn't want to hear it again about 2 hrs ago. How can i let them know that i don't want to hear the stories anymore? What should i do? plz help. thx

say you understand that their experences made them who they are and that their life must of had its downs but you want to make your own mistakes and you would rather not hear about theirs and when you say something to them dont act annoyed or mad ...

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The girl who hooked me up with my boyfriend now is obsessed with him. She flirts with him, she hugs him, and she talks to him on the phone. I can tell he doesn't like it that much, but I just don't want to lose him because of my so-called "friend". What should I do so I won't lose my boyfriend?

comfrount her and tell her that what she is doing is making you feel uncomfertable and if she likes him then she should tell you and if it turns out that she does then tell her that you have feelings for him two and then tell her that if she was ur friend then she would understand and BACK OFF...

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Hey, im 5'4" and 130ish, I'd like to loose some weight. Any special excersize that works really well?
thanks

run or handcuff urself to a tredmill and turn it on the highest speed : ) its also what you eat...

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usual story, im a freshman in high school, girl i like, she is a friend, i really like her, we went out before, but she broke it up, i like her and she likes me, just as pathetic as this is, ive never made out with a girl, hell the only time ive ever gone out with one was with her, i really do like her, just i admit, i dont know how to kiss, and i dont want to go out with her again, being afraid to kiss, so far, i can probably go out with like 5 other girls, one is hotter than her and everything, just i dont know, i like her alot. any ideas on what to do? because ive been in this situation for a LONG time, ever since about 3 weeks before school started, please anone answer because this sitiation really SUCKS

kissing isnt something you study and read about it should come natural, everything you do should flow, just hold her really close to you and she will be focusing on ur touch rather then your toung.as for the girls well if a girlfriend is what you want then pik the girl that is girlfriend material not the hottest one

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A friend of mine needs a roommate, and I really want to move in with her because she's got a cool place and I'm sick of living on my own. The problem is that she's got a cat and I'm allergic to cats. The duplex has all hardwood floors and I'd have my own cat-free room, but I'm really nervous about moving in because cats really make me sick. Should I risk it?

probly not if you want to avoid discomfert

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i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:

1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?!

1. morning after pill,condems,birthcontrol pills
2. im sure he is more nervus then you are if not the same
3. if its your first time then when he pops ur chery then blood might be an issue
4. dont have sex if you think that you have to saying no can be hard but its better then regreting it till forever

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is it alright to date a guy that is 3 to 4 year younger than you?

age is but an answer, if you two are comfertable then why not...?

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hey im a female im 14 years old ok so there is this guy in my school who im like in love with and he liked me back so we went out 4 a week maybe then he dumped me and i was in schock cuz i really liked him so i called him and i talked to him about it and he says that he still likes me and everything but he dumped me cuz he didnt think i really liked him and he thought i was ganna dump him cuz i liked other guy and he said he will get to know me a lil more and then he might ask me out but i made a huge mistake while i was telling him how i like him i was telling another guy that i like him too so he figer out about it and he got all piassed at me and everything but i called him and i told him that i only did it cuz he hurt me and so i was just so deseparate so i went 4 someone who liked me well then he belived me and he said that he does like me but he wont ask me out cuz he doesnt know me and thats just piases me off really bad cuz like i really dont wanna be friends with him and if he likes me y wouldnt he go out with me like he already went out with me so i say it doesnt make any sense
please tell me what should i do or what should i say to get him back cuz i dont think i could go on with out him!
love ya lots!

try being his friend... try to put your feelings aside and he will get a better feel as to who you are then he might be more intersted in the idea of dating you or you might find out that hes not all that great and you dont value the same things...

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well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!!

tell him that he really means alot to you and that his need to call you at 4 am is a little too much and that you need some space. but remind him how you appreciate it...wow ok i have it where they dont care enough and you have it where they care too much.Lucky you

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Ok... There is this big ordeal in my family. My mom is incarirated and my dad is dead because of her. I live with my Uncle now. i used to live with my aunt till my uncle b died and my mother said my aunt couldnt handle me. Well I have been living here and I hate it. My mother wont listen to me about where i want to live or what i want to do she is only thinking of herself. How can i talk to her with out her getting all pissed??

tell her how living where you are is affecting you adn how you are most unhappy and try to find a compermise. when you talk to her start out with i really love you or something...

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