Question Posted Wednesday November 10 2004, 10:33 pm
usual story, im a freshman in high school, girl i like, she is a friend, i really like her, we went out before, but she broke it up, i like her and she likes me, just as pathetic as this is, ive never made out with a girl, hell the only time ive ever gone out with one was with her, i really do like her, just i admit, i dont know how to kiss, and i dont want to go out with her again, being afraid to kiss, so far, i can probably go out with like 5 other girls, one is hotter than her and everything, just i dont know, i like her alot. any ideas on what to do? because ive been in this situation for a LONG time, ever since about 3 weeks before school started, please anone answer because this sitiation really SUCKS
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? vickiooos answered Thursday November 11 2004, 7:12 pm: ok.. you two were freinds so don't worry about it. if she makes a big deal over kissing then she's not worth it.. and how would you feel if she just suddenly outta the blue started going out with guys when she knew you two liked each oher? it would break her! so think beofre you decide to go a party and start making out with someone or go out with the "hotter" chick.. you've got to think about how you'd feel if you found out that she was doing that. the physical part, yes is a big part of a relatinoship but it's not the only part of it. talking and being able to just laugh and feel comfortable with each other and plenty of other things make up a good relationship. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
BotheredAndBroken13 answered Thursday November 11 2004, 9:05 am: First off, the way you feel about a girl shouldn't be based on looks. If you like her- be straight out with your feelings. Don't mess with her mind and tell her about the other girls. Choose, and make your decision before someone gets hurt. As for kissing. Everyone's nervous their first time. Just go with it. Remember, confidence is attractive. You'll get the hang of it. Hope I was somewhat of a help. Good luck. [ BotheredAndBroken13's advice column | Ask BotheredAndBroken13 A Question ]
dinoold answered Thursday November 11 2004, 8:13 am: ok..if you asked her out again..what would she say..no..if so..date the hot girl..make out wiht her..get some experience..and then i am betting that girl..will want to date you.
Sometimes a little jealousy will ehlp a girl..find her real feelings..if not..hey you got to have fun with a hot girl..to me..it is a win win situation. [ dinoold's advice column | Ask dinoold A Question ]
socalblondie0202 answered Thursday November 11 2004, 1:32 am: kissing isnt something you study and read about it should come natural, everything you do should flow, just hold her really close to you and she will be focusing on ur touch rather then your toung.as for the girls well if a girlfriend is what you want then pik the girl that is girlfriend material not the hottest one [ socalblondie0202's advice column | Ask socalblondie0202 A Question ]
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