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and tonite we were going to maybee meet each other at a BB game. Well he didn't show up, but I know it wasn't kinda fair, because I asked him in the morning and the game was in the evening that day and he said he had some play practice too. Well I talked to him on aim recently...and he explained why he wasnt there and he said he was hanging out with his two best friends. He told me they were off to play rockband and halo. It made me kind mad...ditching me for his friends? We're not in a relationship, but is that neccessary? Do you think that was mean of him? I'm not really mad, but I am disapointed because I really would like to get to know him better. I guess he cares more about his friends?.
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ok well maybe he was just trying to pay you back for what you did to him. I mean. u ignored him and he wanted to let you know how it feels. That could be one reson why he did that. Or he just did this bbecause he doesn't like you. This is a hard one. i mean, since you asked him taht morning to come, he might have no realized taht he already had plans to. He could have already of planed to hang with his friends but you never know. i personally think it was mean of him to do that just to ditch you, but that is jsut the way boys are. They do stuff like taht but somtimes it is just to make girls jealous and somtimes it isn't. I don't think he really cares more about his freinds to be honest. i think taht really he does like you but he has a hard way of showing it. i know that this makes you made that he ditched you, it would make me mad too, but it is a boy, boys are somtimes rude and inconciderate when it comes to girls. SO let this one slide and ask him if he wants to hang out together another time, and if he says yea then congrats, but if he says yes and stands you up again, no that he isn't worth it. But if he says no, then he might be busy or might not be interested. I mean, i have liked many guys and i always told them how i felt but they never gave me the time of day. So what i am saying is go for it and if it doesn't work out, then it is ok and when you are ready move on. It is a boy, there are many more left in the world. Good luck and i hope i helped you. if you need anymore help then just ask..i am always here. Good luck
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so today i went to the ymca with my older brother [hes a junior] and like all his friends. i like his friend chas and he was there too. i was kinda mad at chas today because the day before he made a comment about my outfit and kinda implied he didnt like it..so i didnt really have any patience with him today at the ymca. i was talking to all of my brothers friends for awhile and then chas came..we were all just playin bball and shooting around.. chas was like trying to say hi to me and hold a conversation but i was just ignoring him..a few times when he attempted to talk to me i kinda just walked away and talked to one of the other guys..he definitely knows something is up because sometimes he would tease me when we were playing and i would just immediately snap at him or tell him to shut up.and i know its cause i was angry.and i talked to like all of the guys except for him.
welll i came to the conclusion tonight that im the biggest idiot on the face of the planet.i like this kid and i totally blew him off today and gave him the wrong impression.i see him in school like 4 times a day so now things are going to be weird if he thinks i dont like him.. i dont know what to do because if i act like nothing happened that will seem totally sketchy. but if i talk to him about it,i would probably end up telling him i like him..which would make things awkward if he didnt like me back. help.. any advice would be great (link)
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well if he was wanting to to talk to you then he probally likes you too. IF he cared bout you by trying to talk to you then he probally still really likes you. No matter waht you do, he will still like you. i mean... you still like him. Even tho you might have made him confused, just talk to him in school and tell him you were sorry. Don't get worried bout it. and he is just a boy!!! Good luck!!
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14yrs/gurl/USA
I rele like this guy and I think he likes me back. He is a junior and I'm a freshman. And we both want to hang out with each other. But we aren't that "close" we rele just want to hang out and get to know each other. Have any ideas or fun things to do? Something tht we can do, just hang out, etc. but i need suggestions, because we still need to get to know each other more.
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bowling is always fun...i think it is a nice way to hang out with people and even if you stink at it..it is stilll fun...you could also go out to dinner. talk over a nice dinner is always fun too!!! hope you have fun and i hope it works out..Good luck
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okay well .. im 17/f and ive been these guy for atleast a year. weve been on and off and everything else. right now were back together and ive noticed i was on his top 8. like i never noticed before because i never really checked since we were always off and on so much. but like we've been doing good and i think when ur boyfriend and girlfriend with someone shouldnt they be on ur top 8 instead of other random girls etc. so i said something to him about it and like he said he'd put me on it and its been 2 days and he hasnt and its not like he hasnt been on myspace cause he has. im starting to think he just doesnt want to so like im not going to bed but its really bothering me and i dont know what to do. should i just not say anything about it and let it go and next time he asks to me on mine ( if he does ) just do the same thing to him . please help me :( (link)
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i think you shouldn't worry bout it. i mean, my friend puts me and her other friends before her boyfriend. it is ok that you aren't on the top 8 because it really isn't taht important. It isn't like it is where you stand in his life, it is a website. Just don't worry bout it, but if it is really bugging you, then just tell him, or ask him, what is goign on..am i really not important to you anymore or do you just keep forgetting to change my #. Don't be mean about it though. boys are forgetful. you have to give them a break somtimes. and remember, it is myspace, it isn't your life order or where you stand. Good luck with the realationship!
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So i am 14, girl, and i like two guys. Well, the first one, lets say Chris, is sweet, nice, and a gentleman. I really like him because he always looks at me and smiles, and whenever someone mentions my name, he smiles. This makes me soo happy! Well, guy two, lets say...Rob, hes so funny! Whenever im around him he makes me laugh, but sometimes when i talk to him...idk, he just softens, and smiles more, and is so sweet...idk its like he really likes me, but so does "Chris". I dont know what to do. I need to tell one of them how i feel, because i cant keep them bottled up and let them both slip through my fingers and i have to choose one, i cant tell them both how i feel. My friends dont even know i like them, but have told me that they both like me. I dont know what to do. I have thought long and hard about this, and my heart is torn. I dont want to break a heart, but i dont want mine to get broken. Who would you choose? Btw, they are both so cute, and i think i might be falling in love with two guys. :\
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i say that you should go with the guy who makes you feel more comfortable. Makes you not need to worry so much. they both sound wonderful but just go whereever your heart tells you. If you have to, kinda stupid idea but make a chart saying what you like about each person and then pick the one that sounds better. that has more things on it or the things taht you are more interested in. Just have fun with it. Pick the guy who you have the most fun around pick the person who likes you for you and not who you are inside. Pick the guy who has a better personality, somone you can imagine yourself with, someone who is reliable and sweet and respects you. Someone who is the way you ahve always pictured he would be, or pretty close to the way you pictred it. Go with the guy who you as a person like to be around the most. Good luck picking but don't push it, don't pick someone if you know that you aren't sure about it yet. make sure you are confident in your decison so you don't make a mistake. Good luck!
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Well..I'm 17 and my parents still won't let me date and there's this guy I want to go out with..He likes me back but he works all the time and I only see him on sundays. That's not the issue though. How do I get my parents to understand that I'm old enough and should be allowed to date already? Or get around it without getting grounded? My parents are strict.. (link)
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just show them that you are a responsible person and that you respect them so they will respect you in return. Or you could jsut ask them, and say, mom dad, i am 17 and i really like this guy, is there any possible way i can go out with him, tell them that they can meet him first or somthing just so they know who he is. THey probally just aren't comforable with the idea. so give them a heads up but don't push it. just show them how resposible you are by doing your homework right when you get home and not talking with your friends, jsut do somthing that will make them think that you have grown up and you don't need them as much anymore! Good luck and i hope they understand
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im 15/f. and lately i've been having this longing feeling to be close to my best friend. hes sweet, and cute, and my other guyfriend is telling me that he really likes me. and he even said that if i did like him that we could "see where it goes". and at first i thought the idea of us as a pair was stupid. but im rethinking it...and i now no that im MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM. but i dont wanna be! hes just a friend...and thats all i want him to be. idk if i should go for it or ignore my feelings or what...help me? (link)
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i say you should go for it. i mean, if he already said that you can give it a shot then give it a shot jsut tell him from teh begining that if anything happens i still always want ot be your freind so if at anytime you think it will ruin your friendship then tell him and he will understand. But him being one of your best friends, you know a lot about him so it won't be hard for you to get a conversation going and stuff. i say you should go for it, really, even if you know you like him but you jsut don't wnat to admit it, i stil say taht go for it, but if your heart isn't ready then don't. Just listen to waht it is telling you and go from there. Good luck and if it works out then congrats
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15/f
I have a 'semi' guy friend. What I mean by semi, is that we talk a lot in the halls and laugh a lot and like each others company. However, I don't have his number, only his screenname [he rarely gets on]. I have a crush on him, and really like him a lot. Recently, he transferred out of the one class that I had with him because he didnt like it. There's this cheerleader, and when she saw him in the hall, she goes "OMG [his name]! It's SO GOOD TO SEE YOU! OMG CLASS IS SOOO boring without you! You should switch to my art class" and he goes "yeah I know, [class name] sucks". I was right there, and I was about to go and talk to him. She's always making flirtatious remarks when she's around him, and quite frankly, I think she's obnoxious and a sl*t [she's been with 4 other guys, hooked up with them, gotten drunk, had pics up on facebook semi naked and her in her thong]. I recently found out that this OTHER girl has a crush on him as well. I was a little depressed when I found out that he had transferred classes. We still see each other during passing period, and my best friends locker is right next to his.
I talked to my mom about this and she said that if he's a good guy, he'll realize that I was right there to begin with. The Sweetheart Dance is coming up in early February. I'm a little scared because I think that he will ask the cheerleader to go with him. My mom said that again, he's not a little kid, and will know who the right girl is. He's not like most guys who only try to get in a girls pants. He's not a major flirt, and he's really nice [not to mention cute]. I know that I should probably get over him, but I'm not desperate or anything like that. I want to hang out with him and just be around him more. He only talks to me and occasionally the cheerleader when she approaches him. I want to be the one to make the first move, but my mom said that I should let him do what he wants, and if he truly likes me, he'll go after me instead of me going after him.
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next time the cheerleader goes up to him and talks to him...you go up to him to..not being rude to her..but include yourself in the conversation and just try and tell ehr that he is mine..kinda thing. If you wnat him to relize that you is who he wants, then you need to be more noticed by him so next time you see him in the halls just go up and start a conversation. and next time you talk to him, ask if he wants to go out with you and a whole bunch of friends and arrange a group of pople to go somewhere so you can hang out with him. it is just teh little things taht could make the difference..so just try it..and i wish you good luck..have fun
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two years ago i went out with a guy and 4 months later we broke up. he was my first love and although he had had other girlfriends before, he said i was his first love. he was about 2 years older than me. he still has the girlfriend that he had after we broke up but recently he texted me. i didn't know he still had my number because when we were together he didn't have a cell phone. anyway we've been chatting for about 2 weeks now. not anything important. just talking about the weather and lame things like that but the other night i had a dream that we were still together. i don't like him but im really worried that if we keep talking that im going to fall for him again. but i still want to stay friends and talk.
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i say that you should talk to him. i mean, if he talked to you in the first place then that means that he has moved on and wants to be your friend again. i mean, if you fall for him, o well. just don't think about it like that. just think of you meeting up with a old friend. dreams don't mean that much. i have dreams in ways like that but nothing ever really comes out of them. i say that you should talk to him and dno't worry bout falling for him, if you do, you know that you have already had your chance with him, and if it is ment to be, then he would come back to you without a girlfriend. But i don't think that is somthing that you should think about. It is a old friend who wants to be apart of your life again. some friend ships are ment to last forever and maybe this is one of them!!! Good luck and i hope i helped you make up your mind!
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I have this friend, let's call her L and I met L just this year, [I am 15/f freshman in high school] and she comes from a different school, is really nice but driving me up an insanely high wall. In the beginning of our friendship, she was shy and I did most of the talking because I hate awkward silences and then she started talking more and we had only known eachother for a couple of days and became oddly very trusting with me, expecting the same from me, but I've been burned and backstabbed badly in past friendships and I'm not as trusting as her. But this was sooo wierd, she like just told me all of her secrets and life story in like 3 days of knowing one another. And now like, 5 months later she is driving me insane. I will be on AIM and L will IM me, but I'm not there and she will get mad at me like..."are you mad at me??" constantly IMing me and I can't take it. THEN in school she will be like, "Are you mad at me? What did I do?" and it pisses me off soo badly. And then she will text me, and if I don't text her back she thinks that I'm macd at her!! So then I just get fed up with her immaturity and the complaining about how her best friends are like avoiding her now and I CAN RELATE BECAUSE I WANT TO IGNORE HER. Like in the hallway, I pretend I dn't see her ebcause I just need SPACE.
I'm sory this is sooo long, but I don't know what to do. How do I deal with someone like this? We are in 2 of the smae classes and she like clings to me for dear life because she doesnt think she has any friends, but I do and I want to branch out with other people. She annoys me, and I want to be friends with her, but then again I don't.
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well i think that you should just talk to her about it. i mean, that is what i would do. i would just tell her that i am not always online when you talk or able to get to my phone or able to say hi when you say hi. i Have other friends that i need to hang with not just you. i don't ever get mad at you so don't think i do. I'm sry if this sounds mean. but you got to do waht you got to do. Just try and be nice her your friend but get to the point to. My best advice for this is to just talk it out..and tell her the truth, i mean..friends should be understanding with whatever you say and if they are not, then you don't need them as a friend. Good luck and i hope everything goes well between you guys and hopefully you stay friends!!
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**THIS IS LONG! I APOLOGIZE!**
Eek! I don't know what to do. I met this boy, we'll call Joe, when I was in 10th grade. He was in 11th. Over the next 2 years we became best friends. I could talk to him forever, we always hung out. We were inseparable.
He graduated a year before I did, and then went off to the Navy. I didn't talk to him much the next year , with me being a senior and him busy with basic training and everything. My senior year ended and he called to tell me that he was done with basic and he was coming back home. I was so excited! So that summer, we hung out for the few months that he was home and everything was amazing. I told him that I really liked him and he didn't really say if he liked me, but it was obvious.
A few weeks later he went back to San Diego and I was sad. I really wanted to ask him out, but I was so scared. So I called him a few days later and a girl answered his phone.. IT WAS HIS WIFE. He'd been married for awhile and he never told me. She said that he didn't want to ever talk to me again. I WAS DEVASTATED!
Fast forward to the past 3 months.. he's since divorced and he hangs out with me all the time. He wants to date me, but I'm still hurt over what he did years ago. He says he's sorry. But it's weird. I could see myself dating him.. but at the same time I'm scared that if anything bad happened, we wouldn't be best friends anymore. Gah. I'm just so confused. I don't know what to do. Stay friends? Or date and see what happens? (link)
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i say you should date and see what happens. i know that it is a big step but you never know what could happen. if you have been best friends for so long then you know eachother so well. and you neverknow how well your relationship is going to work. But as for not wanting to lose the friendship if it goes wrong. don't worry bout that.i mean, if you are as good of friends as you say you are, then you probally would end up still being friends if the relationship didn't work. Just think about what is happening now and not what might happen later, so i say go for it and live your life to have fun, not to worry about what is going to happen in the future. Good luck and i hope everything goes good between the two of you!!!
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Hi everyone! Thanks in advance for your help :>).
Here's the deal...I used to have a huge crush on this kid, way back in the day...about 6 years ago. Yes, that'd be when I was in 3rd grade! We knew eachother from a summer camp, but he's two years older and I think he always thought I was kind of annoying...I was a little kid, gimme a break. :-P
Aaaanyway...I found him on facebook! and he added me as a friend. So, I've been talking to him on there and he seems really awesome! He's very smart, likes all the same music I like and then some (and someone with my taste in music is hard to come by), and he's really into the outdoors like I am! We have a lot of the same interests. He really seems like the perfect guy for me ... although I don't think he even thinks of me as a friend, because we haven't exactly spoken to eachother in person since ... well... 6 years ago, basically. But he's changed so much! We muttered a few words, nervously, at a cross country meet this fall. And we've talked a little on facebook.
But, I saw him at a track meet....and all my friends were there, and I know he would think they're really annoying (they are, haha), and I didn't take the ample opportunity to go talk to him! (stupid stupid stupid) I mean, how do you talk to someone who you haven't seen in 6 years!!?! Plus, he's a junior and I'm just a freshman...so he might think I'm annoying, although I think and have been told I'm very mature for my age.
So basically, my problem is that I can't talk to him. I'm not usually like this at all! I'm so outgoing usually. But, I think the thing is, he's so much different now, and he told me I was too. I just wanna be his friend, trust me; i'm not asking for a relationship right now with this guy I haven't even talked to yet!
How should I approach talking to him? All my friends tease me about him all the time...and it's quite annoying. I just want to have a normal friendly relationship with him, not all glossed over because of some dumb things my friends say. :-P
Thank you so much for the help - I realllly appreciate it. :>)
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Well it is a guy...and sometimes they are hard to talk to. Just tink of hiim as one of your best friends. How ever you start a conversation with them, start the same way with him. See if there is other ways to keep in contact with him. Just message him more and try and get a good coversation going by talking bout little stuff like....how have you been...have you ever gone back to that camp. or what is your fav color..and things like that. Just try and be normal, it is ok if you are nervous, everyone is at one point. If you want to, you can tell him that you miss being apart of his life and that you want to be friends again, like the old days. that sounds kinda chessy but it might work. Just try and talk to him like he is your best friend and forget he is a guy, and that you haven't seen or talked in forever, just catch up and maybe something might evolve out of it. and it is ok of the age difference..no big deal. Good luck
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Ok guys i need help ! im really confused. First ill just let you know that i have a problem with staying in a relationship...i always get bored! I always end up finishing with the boy because im just bored :\ My longest relationship has been around 7 week! Then i just move on..
Rite well i have this bf, i'll call him tyler. He is really sweet and great and evrything but i really dont know wether i want to be with him. sometimes i feel as though i am bored with him .. and other times i will want to stay with him :S we argue a few times but apart from that he's great.
Also.. i met this lad one night whilst i was out called jamie. He is hot ! and i would really like to get to know him better ;) but i cant because of my bf :S We always text each other and he's really sweet. soo again i cannot choose!
and finally.. the other dat my ex bf asked me to get back with him ! that was all i needed! i enjoy going out with him and everything but i really dont know what i want anymore!
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ok..so if you got bored with your last boyfriend then you don't want to go back out with him..or else you are going to feel the same and create the same problem...so that cancels that one out. Now this jamie kid, i say that you should get to knwo him better but just as friends. You shouldn't rush into things. Just tell jamie that you have a boyfriend and you just wnat to be friends with him. And as for your boyfriend, even though sometimes you get bored, i say, stay together. You never knwo what is going ot happen. If sometimes you still have fun and aren't bored then keep it going. Don't ruin somthing like that over stupid things. Your boyfriend, if you get bored, try and do somthing different that you usually don't do. Just try new hings with him and try to keep your mind off of boredom and just pay attension to him. Hopefully this helps, Good Luck
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Hi there. =)
Okay, my ex had told his friends that I was a bad kisser, and one of is friends relayed that back to me. He was my first boyfriend, so I'm convinced I could have been bad at it...so any help, advice, or experiences would be very much appreciated!
Thanks a bunch!
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He could have just told that about you to just spread rumors about it. I mean, after people break up...they tend to do that. So don't get totally convinced that you are a bad kisser. Just be calm about it. It could jsut be that person who is out to get you if somthing bad happened in the relationship. Don't let it get to you. and don't listen to what other people think. The more you kiss the better you will get..from practice. so don't put yourself down about it..just keep thinking positive and try and move on away from what this kid said.
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19/f, as short as I can make it, we aren't in an official relationship, but we act like we are.
He's not too prone to gift-giving, he says because he doesn't know what to get me, but we've been (not)together for over 2 years, he's my best friend, he knows me better than anyone else. I dunno, though - it wasn't 'til this year that I really figured out what he likes present-wise, so maybe he's telling the truth (not to mention he can't lie worth sh*t, lol).
Anyway. This may seem like kind of a picky thing, but his face is always stubbly and rough, and he's cuddly, so I get scratched up. Lol - he hates to shave 'cause he has sensitive skin and really needs a good electric razor. His parents were going to get him one for Christmas, but they bought his textbooks for next semester instead.
I was thinking of getting him one for a late Christmas present.
Only thing is any good electric razor is pretty expensive, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't spend that much on me.
When I complained that his face was scratchy at one point, saying "I'd buy you a shaver, but those are expensive, and you probably wouldn't spend that much on me," he cut me off, saying "I might." So I don't know if that was him trying to get me to spend money on him, or just saying that I'm worth more to him than I think (moneywise).
I'm thinking the latter, since he always tries to get me to not buy him presents...
I don't know.
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i say that you should jsut buy him the razor. Even if he won't spend the money on you, you should still spend the money on him. it isn't waht you get, it is waht you give. i mean, if you like him then you should spend the money wehre it is useful, and if he is just trying to get a better present out of you then that isn't being a very good friend. So if you guys are good friends i think that he would spend the money on you even though it isn't obvous.Just remmeber, it isn't as important waht he give you just waht you give him. If he realizes how much you spend on him..he might realize how much mmore important he is to you then. So good luck..and i say go for it!!!
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i really like this boy but he asked out my sister she said no but i dont know if he has changed his mind about her what do you think i should do i really like him alot (link)
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i say..you should wait a little bit. i mean if he asked your sister out..maybe your sister might like him..but jsut turned him down..and you do'nt wnat to do anything to harm your sister.And if he just asked her out you might just want to wait and give him time to think bout stuff. i mean..the guy might need some time to for getting regected..you don'tn want to get him on the rebound. I say..you should talk to your sister and ask her waht she thinks bout him... and if she is fine about it then i say go for it. You just don't want to hurt your sister. Good luck..
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okay, this is going to be kind of a stupid question, but i've been wondering..
does the nintendo sports games for the nintendo wii work as excersise? i mean, the boxing?
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i say it works for exercing..it makes me tired..and when i work hard and get tired...i think it will count..i don't think it is as good as running and stuff but it still works..and it gains musclees in your arms!!
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ah so i've gone out with this kid for about 2 months, and i feel as though im a bad girlfriend because we rarely hang out because he never has a ride, i ask him occasionally to hang out and he seems to be doing something else or can't hang out, and people are like 'you guys never hang out' but its hard when you go to two different schools, i like him so much though, but on weekends i tend to feel obligated to hang out with him or i feel bad and get this impression that im a bad girlfriend. i've also noticed how much he likes me because everyone tells me what a 'player' he can be, but hes not that way to me at all, and usually his relationships dont last 2 months, its more like 2 weeks if that. i really dont want to lose him or let him down. but i feel terrible all the time about it. i can't even enjoy myself. plus he said he wanted to get me a christmas/bday gift cause there both coming up, should i get him one back? i have no idea what to get him! thanks everyonee! (: (link)
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i don't think you are a bad girlfriend..it is just hard..like you siad. DOnt feel bad for not hanging out with him..i mean..if he really wants to hang out with you..then he would call. IF he likes you a lot..then he will. As for the gift..he is your boyfrind...i say buy him a gift..it doesn't have to be all personal..and stuff..just somthing nice. don't feel bad about it. Just try and do what ever you can and hang out with him when he is free. You can't be a bad girl for jsut asking. If he can't do it then so waht..try a diff day..or try and plan things like a week in advace so you don't have to worry bout not seeing eachother. Hopefully everything goes good between you too. Good luck!!
~sealgirl~
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if you could say just one thing to that one guy you've though about for years, who meant alot but you meant nothing to what would it be.just one short sentence (link)
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i would say...you are the most important person in the world to me and i don't know waht i would do without you, because if you weren't here, i think i would die!
that is just what i would say. Good Luck with whatever you are up to...
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I just realized something. I have a really crappy social life. I dont have any close friends, and Im not even talking about best friends. I used to have a best friend but she changed a lot so we dont talk as much anymore.
I have friends, dont get me wrong, but theyre just friends, and we never hang out outside of ___. We dont talk on the phone, just talk and stuff at ___.
Ive been really lonely lately, and Ive been going through some tough times and I really need someone I can talk to, and someone who will listen to me and CARE. I need someone I can depend on, but I just dont know who. I dont see any of my friends becoming a best friend, and believe me I tried to get closer to some of them, but it didnt work, I guess they have enough close friends and dont need me.
How can I find a best friend? I am already really busy, and I do a sport, and I take classes at this charter school (but most of the kids are really wierd). I dont have time to join more clubs and stuff, so please dont say that. Im homeschooled, Ill be graduating this year and it would be really nice to have a best friend that will be there for me all through college.
Any advice? Please dont say "youll find a best friend in college" because I want one now. (link)
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well you just have to be more friendly around people. I mean, in sports try and talk to knew people on your team or try and find someone in your neighborhood. Or maybe go out one time and just talk to people and get to know them and just make new friends. I know it is hard because you somtimes are shy adn odn't like to talk to people but this is a challenge. Everyone faces challeneges in life andthis is just one of them for you. So just try and be more outgoing and everything will hopefully work out. Good luck
~sealgirl~
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