19/f, as short as I can make it, we aren't in an official relationship, but we act like we are.
He's not too prone to gift-giving, he says because he doesn't know what to get me, but we've been (not)together for over 2 years, he's my best friend, he knows me better than anyone else. I dunno, though - it wasn't 'til this year that I really figured out what he likes present-wise, so maybe he's telling the truth (not to mention he can't lie worth sh*t, lol).
Anyway. This may seem like kind of a picky thing, but his face is always stubbly and rough, and he's cuddly, so I get scratched up. Lol - he hates to shave 'cause he has sensitive skin and really needs a good electric razor. His parents were going to get him one for Christmas, but they bought his textbooks for next semester instead.
I was thinking of getting him one for a late Christmas present.
Only thing is any good electric razor is pretty expensive, and I'm pretty sure he wouldn't spend that much on me.
When I complained that his face was scratchy at one point, saying "I'd buy you a shaver, but those are expensive, and you probably wouldn't spend that much on me," he cut me off, saying "I might." So I don't know if that was him trying to get me to spend money on him, or just saying that I'm worth more to him than I think (moneywise).
I'm thinking the latter, since he always tries to get me to not buy him presents...
I don't know.
What do you guys think I should do?
sealgirl07 answered Friday December 28 2007, 10:17 pm: i say that you should jsut buy him the razor. Even if he won't spend the money on you, you should still spend the money on him. it isn't waht you get, it is waht you give. i mean, if you like him then you should spend the money wehre it is useful, and if he is just trying to get a better present out of you then that isn't being a very good friend. So if you guys are good friends i think that he would spend the money on you even though it isn't obvous.Just remmeber, it isn't as important waht he give you just waht you give him. If he realizes how much you spend on him..he might realize how much mmore important he is to you then. So good luck..and i say go for it!!!
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