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my engaged girlfriend has not been seen in 2 days
i am a 30 year old white male. and i have not seen my girlfriend in 2days, and we live together, and i think she is seeing her ex boyfriend. how do i handle things when i see her again ?
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umm
you worry too much
she's probably just visiting an old friend or her family
when she comes back don't start freaking out
be like
heyy your back how was your trip
and where'd you go
**DO NOT START YELLING AT HER!!
b/c then she'd proably think yyou don't trust her and she'll probably leave again
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This is not normal. You need to make every effort to contact your finance through family, friends, and the police need to be notified if you and family cannot get in touch with her immediately. What makes you think she is suddenly seeing an ex-boyfriend? Did you two argue or fight the last time you saw her. Please make every effort to make certain that she is found safely...this should be your main concern. If she wants to leave you, then let her. Be honest in sharing your feelings, but know that everyone has a right to their own mind and life.
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uhmmmm lets see your thirty years old coming to advicenators.com to ask a question about not seeing your live-in girlfriend for two days.?.
hmmm, i hope you are not trying to set the stage for an alibi for something you did that might make national news....... because this would be the most feeble attempt i have ever heard about.
"uh officer see i could not have had anything to do with her disappearance becayse i was asking for advise on the internet on how to handle it when she came back, so see i did not think they would find her in the truck of my car.....duh?"
that would be pretty weak dude. ..........
really have you called her parents, her friends, her job, i mean covering all the necessary bases before jumping to conclusions as to her whereabouts.
surely she would not disappear for two days without you having some idea that there are/were problems in the relationship. are there signs that she has been in the house while you are not there?
i do not know why but this whole scenario somehow smells fishy to me.......see you on the news in a couple of days.....
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well dont jump to conclusions...
when she come back ask her:
"why havent you been around for the past to days?
where have you been"
and if she say she was somewhere then say:
"are you sure you werent seeing your ex?"
and then if she really wasnt then you will be abel to tell...
just look for the sincerity in her eyes
good luck!
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Hello there,
If she hasn't contacted you in two full days, AND if you have reason to think that she is seeing someone else; the odds are high that the relationship is over. My advice would be to change the locks... right now.
If you want to give her another chance... just think about how it feels to be abandoned without a word, and know that it is going to happen again in the future if you allow her to stay in your life.
If you don't have a GOOD reason to think she is having sex with someone else, then I suggest you call the local law enforcement agencies and ask about traffic accidents. This should be followed by calls to the local hospitals.
If you don't hear from her by tomorrow, go down and file a missing person report with your local police/sheriff/state police.
I would do the police/hospital/missing person routine even if you think she is with someone, just in case you are wrong about that.
Good luck.
P.S. No matter what you do, don't go against your better judgement in continuing your life with her. If you do, you will pay. Trust me on this one.
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