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okay well .. im 17/f and ive been these guy for atleast a year. weve been on and off and everything else. right now were back together and ive noticed i was on his top 8. like i never noticed before because i never really checked since we were always off and on so much. but like we've been doing good and i think when ur boyfriend and girlfriend with someone shouldnt they be on ur top 8 instead of other random girls etc. so i said something to him about it and like he said he'd put me on it and its been 2 days and he hasnt and its not like he hasnt been on myspace cause he has. im starting to think he just doesnt want to so like im not going to bed but its really bothering me and i dont know what to do. should i just not say anything about it and let it go and next time he asks to me on mine ( if he does ) just do the same thing to him . please help me :(
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Honestly, I was in the same position as you were. I was going out with a guy [who turned out to be quite the idiot], and I was surprised that I wasn't on his top friends at all since we had been dating for a decent amount of time. I interrogated him and he simply told me that it wasn't 'a big deal'. I came to realize that he was right. It's just the Internet. Maybe it's a big deal to him, and maybe it's not. Sometimes, it truly does depend on the person.
Don't get yourself worked up over it.
Move on.
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i think you shouldn't worry bout it. i mean, my friend puts me and her other friends before her boyfriend. it is ok that you aren't on the top 8 because it really isn't taht important. It isn't like it is where you stand in his life, it is a website. Just don't worry bout it, but if it is really bugging you, then just tell him, or ask him, what is goign on..am i really not important to you anymore or do you just keep forgetting to change my #. Don't be mean about it though. boys are forgetful. you have to give them a break somtimes. and remember, it is myspace, it isn't your life order or where you stand. Good luck with the realationship!
~sealgirl~
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