im 15/f. and lately i've been having this longing feeling to be close to my best friend. hes sweet, and cute, and my other guyfriend is telling me that he really likes me. and he even said that if i did like him that we could "see where it goes". and at first i thought the idea of us as a pair was stupid. but im rethinking it...and i now no that im MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM. but i dont wanna be! hes just a friend...and thats all i want him to be. idk if i should go for it or ignore my feelings or what...help me?
sealgirl07 answered Thursday January 24 2008, 6:06 pm: i say you should go for it. i mean, if he already said that you can give it a shot then give it a shot jsut tell him from teh begining that if anything happens i still always want ot be your freind so if at anytime you think it will ruin your friendship then tell him and he will understand. But him being one of your best friends, you know a lot about him so it won't be hard for you to get a conversation going and stuff. i say you should go for it, really, even if you know you like him but you jsut don't wnat to admit it, i stil say taht go for it, but if your heart isn't ready then don't. Just listen to waht it is telling you and go from there. Good luck and if it works out then congrats
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Valaina answered Thursday January 24 2008, 6:03 pm: Yeahh. I always end up falling for my guy-friends..Just follow what your heart says. At least it's not some random jerk who gets on your nerves. haha. Just think on what you really want before you decide. [ Valaina's advice column | Ask Valaina A Question ]
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