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Member Since: January 24, 2008
Answers: 3
Last Update: January 25, 2008
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Well here it goes ..
This is kinda silly but i found out i really like this guy in my class..
Well everything was going fine until i saw him like constantly with other girls and how he acted around them. Like when he's with me i feel like a princess but hwne he's with the other girls it's like i'm a nobody cuz what he like does/says to me he says to other girls ..
Then he asked me to sit with him i'm like nahh .. cuz i was sitting with my girls and then he just randomly asked someone else like he really didnt care, if i were to sit with him or not. When i'm talking to him this girl "EM" walks by he totallyy freezes. thats made me feel even worse.. So now i'm really mean to him because of how he treats me . And he acts like helikes me trys to talk to me and make eye contact and stuff because he knows i'm mad at him . But i cant tell him why i don't want him to know i like him because he use to like me and i liked his best friend at the time .. and so he stooppeedd .. and i try to be nice but all i can do is act mean because i think in my head be nice and when it comes to flashbacks of how he treated me comes and i act like a b**** .. and the more i see it he cares when i'm mad and he trys to talk now a days . What should i do ?
i want him to like me ?
I don't know what to do ?
and being mad had made him turn to my best friend ..
and she likes him now and he might like her.. oh please answer :) (link)
I agree with what the 1st person said. He sounds like a jerk. I've liked a couple guys who were that type and never worked out for me..but now..I found someone who really cares for me..and you will too..you never know an awesome guy could be by you and you don't even realise it.


im 15/f. and lately i've been having this longing feeling to be close to my best friend. hes sweet, and cute, and my other guyfriend is telling me that he really likes me. and he even said that if i did like him that we could "see where it goes". and at first i thought the idea of us as a pair was stupid. but im rethinking it...and i now no that im MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM. but i dont wanna be! hes just a friend...and thats all i want him to be. idk if i should go for it or ignore my feelings or what...help me? (link)
Yeahh. I always end up falling for my guy-friends..Just follow what your heart says. At least it's not some random jerk who gets on your nerves. haha. Just think on what you really want before you decide.


i like this guy, hes a bit younger, eighth grade.and im in ninth grade. tomorrow im viseting my old school and i always see him in the hallway. He liked me last year but hes looked down upon so i thought going out with him would ruin my rep. But ive changed alot. I like him and i dont care who knows it. I know he'll go out with me, but i dont know how to tell him!
any hints i can give?
ways i can get HIM to ask ME?
i need all this by tomorrow!!!
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The way..I told the guy I like is I gave him my school pic w/ "I like you" on the back. haha. Kinda corny I know. haha. Or compliment him. The guy I liked was kinda blind...no matter how many hints I dropped..he still did'nt notice that I liked him haha. I ignored him for like one week..that did not work..at all. haha. Or just say it out loud. I know not all people are ongoing or have the guts to bring it up..I know..I'm like that myself lol. You never know until you try.




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