two years ago i went out with a guy and 4 months later we broke up. he was my first love and although he had had other girlfriends before, he said i was his first love. he was about 2 years older than me. he still has the girlfriend that he had after we broke up but recently he texted me. i didn't know he still had my number because when we were together he didn't have a cell phone. anyway we've been chatting for about 2 weeks now. not anything important. just talking about the weather and lame things like that but the other night i had a dream that we were still together. i don't like him but im really worried that if we keep talking that im going to fall for him again. but i still want to stay friends and talk.
to talk or not to talk....that is the question
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sealgirl07 answered Thursday January 17 2008, 8:44 pm: i say that you should talk to him. i mean, if he talked to you in the first place then that means that he has moved on and wants to be your friend again. i mean, if you fall for him, o well. just don't think about it like that. just think of you meeting up with a old friend. dreams don't mean that much. i have dreams in ways like that but nothing ever really comes out of them. i say that you should talk to him and dno't worry bout falling for him, if you do, you know that you have already had your chance with him, and if it is ment to be, then he would come back to you without a girlfriend. But i don't think that is somthing that you should think about. It is a old friend who wants to be apart of your life again. some friend ships are ment to last forever and maybe this is one of them!!! Good luck and i hope i helped you make up your mind!
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for3v3r_his answered Thursday January 17 2008, 5:40 pm: Talking to his ex while with someone is wrong to his gf and wrong to you. He must have feelings for you if he is wanting to talk to you after all this time has passed. Now that you are getting the memories back, next is your feelings and that is not right for him to get you mixed up in the fact that you guys are no longer together. He is with someone and you dont want to like him. You need to stop talking to him before you get hurt. [ for3v3r_his's advice column | Ask for3v3r_his A Question ]
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