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bad girlfriend?
ah so i've gone out with this kid for about 2 months, and i feel as though im a bad girlfriend because we rarely hang out because he never has a ride, i ask him occasionally to hang out and he seems to be doing something else or can't hang out, and people are like 'you guys never hang out' but its hard when you go to two different schools, i like him so much though, but on weekends i tend to feel obligated to hang out with him or i feel bad and get this impression that im a bad girlfriend. i've also noticed how much he likes me because everyone tells me what a 'player' he can be, but hes not that way to me at all, and usually his relationships dont last 2 months, its more like 2 weeks if that. i really dont want to lose him or let him down. but i feel terrible all the time about it. i can't even enjoy myself. plus he said he wanted to get me a christmas/bday gift cause there both coming up, should i get him one back? i have no idea what to get him! thanks everyonee! (:
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i don't think you are a bad girlfriend..it is just hard..like you siad. DOnt feel bad for not hanging out with him..i mean..if he really wants to hang out with you..then he would call. IF he likes you a lot..then he will. As for the gift..he is your boyfrind...i say buy him a gift..it doesn't have to be all personal..and stuff..just somthing nice. don't feel bad about it. Just try and do what ever you can and hang out with him when he is free. You can't be a bad girl for jsut asking. If he can't do it then so waht..try a diff day..or try and plan things like a week in advace so you don't have to worry bout not seeing eachother. Hopefully everything goes good between you too. Good luck!!
~sealgirl~
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I guess I don't see how it is you feel you are a bad girlfriend. You can only do what you can do. He doesn't have a ride to come hang out with you, or he is doing other things when he could be hanging out with you.
And since he tends to be doing other things, why should you feel obligated to hang out with him every weekend? I mean, come on, he needs to meet you halfway, here.
Return the favor on the gifts, but don't go all expensive.
ygs-29/f
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