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no best friend =(
I just realized something. I have a really crappy social life. I dont have any close friends, and Im not even talking about best friends. I used to have a best friend but she changed a lot so we dont talk as much anymore.
I have friends, dont get me wrong, but theyre just friends, and we never hang out outside of ___. We dont talk on the phone, just talk and stuff at ___.
Ive been really lonely lately, and Ive been going through some tough times and I really need someone I can talk to, and someone who will listen to me and CARE. I need someone I can depend on, but I just dont know who. I dont see any of my friends becoming a best friend, and believe me I tried to get closer to some of them, but it didnt work, I guess they have enough close friends and dont need me.
How can I find a best friend? I am already really busy, and I do a sport, and I take classes at this charter school (but most of the kids are really wierd). I dont have time to join more clubs and stuff, so please dont say that. Im homeschooled, Ill be graduating this year and it would be really nice to have a best friend that will be there for me all through college.
Any advice? Please dont say "youll find a best friend in college" because I want one now.
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i know this sounds stupid but.. myspace is the best way for meeting new friends :)
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well you just have to be more friendly around people. I mean, in sports try and talk to knew people on your team or try and find someone in your neighborhood. Or maybe go out one time and just talk to people and get to know them and just make new friends. I know it is hard because you somtimes are shy adn odn't like to talk to people but this is a challenge. Everyone faces challeneges in life andthis is just one of them for you. So just try and be more outgoing and everything will hopefully work out. Good luck
~sealgirl~
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