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you answered this eariler, but i added more. im 14/gurl/USA
and tonite we were going to maybee meet each other at a BB game. Well he didn't show up, but I know it wasn't kinda fair, because I asked him in the morning and the game was in the evening that day and he said he had some play practice too. Well I talked to him on aim recently...and he explained why he wasnt there and he said he was hanging out with his two best friends. He told me they were off to play rockband and halo. It made me kind mad...ditching me for his friends? We're not in a relationship, but is that neccessary? Do you think that was mean of him? I'm not really mad, but I am disapointed because I really would like to get to know him better. I guess he cares more about his friends?.
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ok well maybe he was just trying to pay you back for what you did to him. I mean. u ignored him and he wanted to let you know how it feels. That could be one reson why he did that. Or he just did this bbecause he doesn't like you. This is a hard one. i mean, since you asked him taht morning to come, he might have no realized taht he already had plans to. He could have already of planed to hang with his friends but you never know. i personally think it was mean of him to do that just to ditch you, but that is jsut the way boys are. They do stuff like taht but somtimes it is just to make girls jealous and somtimes it isn't. I don't think he really cares more about his freinds to be honest. i think taht really he does like you but he has a hard way of showing it. i know that this makes you made that he ditched you, it would make me mad too, but it is a boy, boys are somtimes rude and inconciderate when it comes to girls. SO let this one slide and ask him if he wants to hang out together another time, and if he says yea then congrats, but if he says yes and stands you up again, no that he isn't worth it. But if he says no, then he might be busy or might not be interested. I mean, i have liked many guys and i always told them how i felt but they never gave me the time of day. So what i am saying is go for it and if it doesn't work out, then it is ok and when you are ready move on. It is a boy, there are many more left in the world. Good luck and i hope i helped you. if you need anymore help then just ask..i am always here. Good luck
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