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2 great guys...one broken heart


Question Posted Thursday January 24 2008, 4:13 pm

So i am 14, girl, and i like two guys. Well, the first one, lets say Chris, is sweet, nice, and a gentleman. I really like him because he always looks at me and smiles, and whenever someone mentions my name, he smiles. This makes me soo happy! Well, guy two, lets say...Rob, hes so funny! Whenever im around him he makes me laugh, but sometimes when i talk to him...idk, he just softens, and smiles more, and is so sweet...idk its like he really likes me, but so does "Chris". I dont know what to do. I need to tell one of them how i feel, because i cant keep them bottled up and let them both slip through my fingers and i have to choose one, i cant tell them both how i feel. My friends dont even know i like them, but have told me that they both like me. I dont know what to do. I have thought long and hard about this, and my heart is torn. I dont want to break a heart, but i dont want mine to get broken. Who would you choose? Btw, they are both so cute, and i think i might be falling in love with two guys. :\

(btw, Chris has a lot of experience, and rob doesnt. I am inbetween. Never hooked up like chris, but i have kissed many guys, unlike rob.)


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sealgirl07 answered Thursday January 24 2008, 6:17 pm:
i say that you should go with the guy who makes you feel more comfortable. Makes you not need to worry so much. they both sound wonderful but just go whereever your heart tells you. If you have to, kinda stupid idea but make a chart saying what you like about each person and then pick the one that sounds better. that has more things on it or the things taht you are more interested in. Just have fun with it. Pick the guy who you have the most fun around pick the person who likes you for you and not who you are inside. Pick the guy who has a better personality, somone you can imagine yourself with, someone who is reliable and sweet and respects you. Someone who is the way you ahve always pictured he would be, or pretty close to the way you pictred it. Go with the guy who you as a person like to be around the most. Good luck picking but don't push it, don't pick someone if you know that you aren't sure about it yet. make sure you are confident in your decison so you don't make a mistake. Good luck!
~sealgirl~

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