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so my boyfriend is coming over later and i have a feeling he is going to wanna kiss me, french kiss me. the only problem is that i have never french kissed before and he has so i don't want it to seem like i am unexperienced, so i need some tips on how to french kiss him well. i rate 5's for good answers! thanx!
just let it happen youll be fine , just try not to shove your tongue down his throat too much,
we've been daten on and off lately. im 15 and he is 19 i know its illegal but we feel strong feelings for each other. and i owe him the chance of being with him since he is putting everything on the line for me. so my question is should i be with him or avoid a relationship?
ahh its not if you hvae sex, its if you get caught having sex hes in trouble. but if the legal issue is the only thing hodling you back, then go for it.
There is a guy I really like (who also has the slight potential of liking me back). He's very funny and actually very polite and nice. However, he doesn't seem to be a very devout Christian, because he cusses. Even though I cuss sometimes, I feel like he may have a bad influence on me in that way, and I know from Bible study that I'm supposed to surround myself with people who share my beliefs and are going to be a good influence. But there seems to be something wrong with that, because if I cuss now and then, I may be a kind of bad influence on others too, and they wouldn't want to be around ME either. I guess what I'm trying to ask is...would it be okay to continue to flirt with this guy and (if it works out right) date him? Sorry, this was kind of long and confusing... btw, I'm almost 16, if that helps any.
ok either you like him or you dont. If you dont , dont lead him on. If you do does the fact that he "cuses" or isnt a "devout chrsitain" really that much of an issue? if your goin to like aperson like them for who they are, be open to beng with people of other religions or ways of thinking. In the end it helps make yourself a better person. Religion isnt everything, and it shouldnt be a factor of who you do and dont hang out with.
i'm 17, and i like this guy who is 27. usually i like guys who are within my age range.. but i suppose you can't help who you fall for. he's very quiet and seems very lonely.. hes doing law so he spends a lot of time studying and doesn't go out too much. he always jumps at the opportunity to speak to me when we see each other. well, i'm not sure what to do about this. 17 is legal for consent and all where i live (so its not a legality thing) but i guess it does sound kinda bad that hes 10 years older than me. i'm wondering whether i should just try and forget about him or whether i should try for this. i don't really care about age, but he might feel differently, and society always views these kind of things as unacceptable. so just curious what everyone thinks of the age gap, and whether it's worth pursuing or not.....?
thanks.
go for it. Its not society that you want to date its this guy. So why let thatage thing stop you?
what do girls look for in a guy, i think i know but i wanna know more! rate high!
ok every girl is goin to be different, personality is a big thing. and apearance deosnt hurt. Its really important that you respect her and your not a totaly dick. a good sense fo humor, considerate confident adn a few tattoos wouldnt hurt ;)
does birth control make you fat..? because they're is a possibility that my doctor may put my on it cause im having female problems.and i heard that it does
thanks for the help ill rate all 5's!!!
it affects everyone differntly. for smoe people it clears up acne, you do gain a bit of weight but alot of it is in teh boobs so thats fine. lo, ya might go up a cup but nothin too bad. talk to your docotr too choose the best kind tho
I'm making banana bread. I calls for 1/2 cup of Buttermilk. what is that?
it the milk left over from makin butter i think.. or thats what i learned it was when i was in gr 6 lol. you can buy it at a dtore adn you canreplace it with normal milk in your recipe
My boyfriend and I are in a rut about this summer. We live about 30 min away from each other but my parents work and neither of us drive. We are desperately in need of ideas on how to see each other and what we can do to make it last. Any good idea will get a 5. Please respond
30 mins is nothin. im sure there is buses or cabs or mett up some where. you dont need mommy and daddy to drive you. be creative
Ok. I'm a Christian, but I do not know the Bible cover to cover like some people do. I have 3 friends, who I love dearly, but they are just totally lost and I really want to save them but I have no clue as of how to do that. Like.. Ok.. here's their stories.
Billy 16-years-old: He's a terrible alcoholic who parties all the time and sometimes gets high but he is surely damned to hell because he has committed sexual immortality several times. He is one of those people who doesnt care about the Bible or God and makes jokes about religion at times. So I do not know how to talk to the guy.
Jessica 15-years-old: She's like my best friend but she's like never been to church. I've invited her before several times, but she always comes up with a reason not to go. And here lately we've lost friendship & she has lost herself to starting to drink because of peer pressure and she's became sexually active, so to say. And she's similiar to Billy, doesnt care.
Brittany 15-years-old: She's bisexual and she parties like every weekend and gets soo drunk & she cusses all the time but everytime I mention church or something of the sort, she cracks a joke & says something like, "Gosh you're such a goodie-goodie". And even though she's never had sex, she's did other stuff with girls and guys, so. I really want to help her & even though she goes to church often, she doesnt act Christian-like at all.
I really care for these people because they are like 3 of my best friends, but I have no clue has to how to help them. They are sooo young and if they were to die tomorrow or even today, they would go straight to hell & I really want to share my eternity with them in Heaven. So anyone with any advice, please help.
ok. This is YOUR belief. dont force it on your friends. talk to them about what there doing because its not healthy, not because of religion. It sounds like your friends arent christian and that their choice. not every one believes in god or heaven and hell. Some people have sex before marriage and thats fine, as long as both people are fine with it and safe there is nothing wrong with it. As for drinking yea every weekend isnt a big thing but its their personal choice. "jessica" probaply isnt goin to church with you because she doesnt want to, some people like my self do feel uncomfortable in churches. and people can believe in god and not "act" like it. the best advice i can give you is dont try to bring your friends into your beliefs, they will believe what they want and you should respect that. I am an athesit and i think that there isnothing worse than some one pushing a religion on me. just because you choose to believe in god doesnt mean i hvae to. keep your religion to yourself
These past few days I've hardly eaten anything. I mean I'll be hungry then when the food is put infront of my I'll eat like 4 bites then I'll be really full! Usually I can eat a full meal but now I can bearly eat anything. I'm currently active in a competative sport so I need the food but I can't make myself eat it because I get so full so quickly I begin to feel sick, is something wrong with me?
ok. its only a few days thats not too bad.try eating small things through out the day andeat as healthy as you can. I have had the same problem for 4 months now, so i definetly know what your talkin about. if this keeps up then definetly go see a doctor.
Okay, I really really really want to have sex with him (a.k.a. my boyfriend) but everytime we are about to "do it", I chicken out.
I don't know why, I guess that it's because I'm a virgin.
But I wish I weren't so scared. And I can never figure
out why I back out.
What should I do? Wait to have sex? Or just hold my
tongue and get it over with?
[p.s.] i'm a female, 16 years old
if you dont trust him enough to tell him that your a vrign you probaply shouldnt be sleeping with him.
What does it mean "to make woopie"
I was reading a poem my mom wrote after her baby shower. Is this some old expression about sex?
making "whoopie: is the act of sex
Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal?
im not sure whether that would be considered abnromal or not, but it is probaply just maternal. I understadn when you say you dont feel loved, im sure that there are people who do love you. but if you feel that you need love from some one or something maybe get a bf or go get a pet, not a fish or anythin but like a cat or dog or even a guinea pig. something that stills needs you and will lvoe you, but dont bring another human into the world for such a selfish reason
Do you believe that "God" has already planned out our destiny, or do you believe we make our own destiny?
And do you believe everything happens for a reason, or do you feel that's just some clever line a thinker thought up to try to reduce the amount of stress and anger in our lives?
you determine your own desinty, things happen becuase you make them happen. Not because some supreme being is navigating your life. if all of our destinies were predetermined life would be pointless. the whole course of earth would be predecided. thats whats i believe.
In your opinion (meaning that if you tell me what you think you'll get a 5), do you think that people should miss out on church in order to do yardwork, study for an exam, play in a soccer tournament, etc? I just want to know what qualifies as an acceptable excuse for not going to church. What other good reasons are there for missing church? -no I'm not trying to avoid going to church-
Thanks!
you go to church to worship, not every sunday of your life needs to be devoted to "god" you are not being forced to go to church, you dont need an excuse not to go.
We don't need religion. Hear me out. If Jesus were to come down from Hevan and say "I am the son of God" and showed us all of is water to wine stuff, scientist could test it and then Christianity would become a science and all other religions would be be proven wrong and therefore not be religions.
That was my little prologue, here is my question Is it possible that our societies have reached a point in which we can admit there is no need for religion and have good morals without a book or God(s) to tell us what they are?
ok religion in my opinion is still needed in a way, most of our societies moral guidelines are baed on religions and thier moral code, luckily these things have changed with the time for the most part,but religion isnt not really nessisary, it is just another option, if soem one is in a rough spot in thier life or loses a loved one religion is often a very good place for support nad re-assurance. Science will one day pove most things that religion tries to explian.
my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused
sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =]
leave him, he could be doin this to get you to dump him, or he could just be a bastard. regardless you shouldnt let anyone who supposedly "loves" you talk to you like that. thats not love.
im kind of embaressed...but like, i masturbate and i think its gross and i know everyone says its not gross and its compltely natural and everyone does it and its not a big deal, but i cant help how i feel you know? but im trying to do it less like only once a week or something and (this sounds dumb) i told god that i would only once a week but it seems like i cant and i've done t like three times already and im worried im going to go to hell for lying to god...and i feel really stupid but i just wanted to ask someone...
Ok i cant give you advice on the goin to hell part, thats not what i believe so i wont say anything regarding religion, but as for masturbation, dont get too stressed out, it prefectly normal and nothing wrong with it. So just do what seems good.
Is breaking up over the phone okay? Or should I make an effort to do it in person?
get some balls and do it in person.
Am I justified in being upset with my bf? Since he moved to another state back in November for a job he hasnt contacted me ONCE. I phoned him on Xmas Day and he said that he'd phone me on New Years. I was waiting up all night for his call, and never got one. I've decided to give him one last chance, on Valentines Day. If he doenst phone me then it's over. Life is just too lonely having my life put on hold. My feelings are deeply hurt that he would treat me this way. My question is if he doesnt contact me on V-day, should I phone him up and tell him that it's over between us?
yea pretty sure you should tell him its over, there is no need to waste your time with someone who doesnt even bother to talk to you, if he was a decent bf then he would call or email or something, he clearly dont respect you ro your feelings