My boyfriend and I are in a rut about this summer. We live about 30 min away from each other but my parents work and neither of us drive. We are desperately in need of ideas on how to see each other and what we can do to make it last. Any good idea will get a 5. Please respond
operation_waffle answered Monday March 27 2006, 3:53 pm: Depends how old you are. If you're like 13 go to a camp together. If you're older go to camp say you'll pay for it and meet up somewhere and stay in a hotel.
gentlegiant answered Monday March 27 2006, 11:07 am: If neither of you drive and you have no other ride, my suggestion is provided you both have a bike, is meet half way. Then spend a few hours going for a walk or just enjoying eachothers company. If a friend of yours drives pay him a tip to drive you. Want to really show romance, call cab and get to his house by cab. take care [ gentlegiant's advice column | Ask gentlegiant A Question ]
Nevaeh314 answered Sunday March 26 2006, 9:54 pm: 30 minutes isn't too bad. Make it a plan to email/call/IM eachother when you can't see eachother, that will help. Do you have friends that drive? Maybe you can pitch in a bit for their gas money and see if you could set up a day, say once a week, where you, your boyfriend, a friend, and a date could all go somewhere together and have fun.
I realize it's important to have some alone time, without friends, too. If your parents don't work weekends, maybe they could drop you off there on a weekend day, and pick you up at the end, or vice versa with your boyfriend's parents.
It might be tough to only see eachother a few times a month, but it's only for the summer, and if you're both determined you should be able to make it last. Hope this helps!
Love,
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karenR answered Sunday March 26 2006, 9:27 pm: Well hopefully you can IM each other. Web cams might be a thought if you can afford them.
If your parents are off weekends maybe you could take turns spending a Saturday or Sunday at each others house. Your parents could pick you up and come get you and his do the same for him.
If you could get them each to agree to at least one day a month, you would see each other at least twice a month. I know that isn't much but its better than not at all!
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