xo.Name.ox Kirby
I answer ANYTHING and EVERYTHING. I don't care what it's about, I will try to help. I've got a lot of good advice up my sleeve and I LOVE to help. :)
I really try not to be mean, but just to give some people a wake-up call. Sometimes people need it. Sometimes I need it. lol. Well, ask questions and you'll get answers.
~K~
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I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!! (link)
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How can you honestly be with a married man who has TWO CHILDREN? How can you possibly do that to his family? You are wasting your time and you are very very stupid and so is he. His wife does not deserve something as stupid and nasty as him. She deserves so much better. You two do deserve each other. You are both horrible, mean, selfish, just all around bad people.
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My friend IMed this to me.. i asked him what it meant.. and he told me to look it up.. except, it doesnt make sense.. He said its latin..
soo here it is:
Amor vincit omnia
Odi et amo
Thank you so much to anyone that can help!! (link)
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Ok. Here it goes.
Amor vincit omnia - Love conquers all
Odi et amo - I hate her and I love her
I looked it up on google. They were two different phrases.
~Hope that helps~
~K~
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hey im reese and i weigh 130 and im 15. well ive been a lil "chubby" over the years and it never seems to get any better. i see everyone at my age with different builds but their skinny. but im 5'5 or so and my stomach just never seems to flatten out. and i come from a family whos really skinny. please help. is it because i havent lost my baby fat yet? i would think im sorta underdeveloped at my age but i need others to help! thanks so much! *rEeSe* :) (link)
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I'm sorry that you think your chubby. You probably aren't. If you really want to change your weight you need to work out every night just by doing simple crunches and sit-ups. EVERY night. You can't depend on genetics to be skinny. You've got to eat healthy, too. I know people think that eating an apple a day is healthy, but eating healthy is a lot more than that. You've got to eat healthy every meal. For breakfast, try to find a low calorie cereal with less sugar, like Fruitloops. Bring your lunch to school and make sure you have a simple sandwich, but always pack a vegetable and/or fruit. At dinner, make sure there is always a vegetable to eat. Trust me, it makes all the difference.
~Need any more health help, just leave a question in my inbox.~
~Hope that helps you out!~
~K~
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hey all this may sound stupid but does anybody know of an easy way to learn how to jump rope by yourself. i will rate high for reasonable answers.
just by myself. (link)
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Ok. An easy way. I'm NOT being sarcastic. First, you hold both ends of the ropes and make sure the rope is behind you. Then turn it and right as it hits the ground near your feet, jump. Then just continue.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Can anyone tell me about the new expansion pack for the sims 2??
thanks! (link)
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It's called The Sims 2: University. I haven't played it, but you can create sorrorities and franternities and all that great stuff. Your Sims go to college and can be a party animal or a work-a-holic. It sounds pretty cool, my birthday is this weekend so I'm hoping to get it. Sorry I couldn't tell you more.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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is there anyway to get more than one person to studio town at a time on the sims superstar? (link)
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Yes, but they have to be in the Superstar business and they have to be in your family and they have to be home at the time that the cab thing comes to pick them up. At least, I think so. Been a long time since I played The Sims.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Help guys,
ok, i like my neighbor alot..but he has a girl friend. I have started talkin to him and hes taken me on his 4wheeler before and i really thought he liked me cause monday over spring break(when it rained)and he took me down to the landing in our town and we just sat and talked lookin at the water and then he taught me how to drive his 4wheeler and it was really really nice. haha and i really thought he was into me cause he kept looking at me evrytime i looked at him. but the thing is, ive told his sis i like him and like he has never made and effort to contact me, im doin all the givin, i havnt talked to him in about two weeks and when ive seen him, i act like hes not there. but i dont know what to do now, i really want to talk to him but....its so complicated. can anyone help?*
14 female:.
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Well, ignoring him for two weeks is just going to make him think you don't like him, but he's probably 16-17, right? Like Dover said, he is probably 16,17,or 18 and what I think is he was just being nice to you. I think he believes that you are just friends and that's what you are, just friends. You can't try to make him break up with his girlfriend, that shouldn't happen because he could really like her and what if he dumps her and goes with you just to make himself feel better? Not cool, eh? So maybe you need to just be friends, when him and his girlfriend break up, have at it, but not if he's 18. 18 is a little old for a fourteen year old. Just take it slow as friends for now and talk to him.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I went to a dance last night and had a BLAST! My friends went up to the kid (Ive admired from a distance lets say for like 2 years! lol) and they asked him (Logan) if he would dance with me and I guess he said yes (I wasnt there though.) So, the next slow song came on and he asked me to dance. =) Yay! And we both seemed to really like it and I could tell he was nervous which happens when you like someone right? But, then I kept trying to get his attention on the FAST dances. He would be right next to me and not even look over @ me! I mean, all these other guys told me I looked hot nd stuff byt Logan didnt even care! I was so mad. I was dancing with all my friends and we were dancing really dirty ..lol but obviously it didnt get his attention. ANyways, he didnt ask me to dance at all again the whole dance! So I danced with other people but he didnt dance with any other girls so thats a good sign?? At the end of the dance, my friends dad picked me and my friend up because I was sleeping over her house. And, we were stuck in traffic for like 3 seconds, and i saw mike with a few friends and he looked at me and i looked at him from the car and i smiled and he smiled back! We used to flirt all last year, but then he got really popular and wasnt in any of my classes. DO you think he likes me?! i hate boys ..what would you do NEXT if you were me? I dont know what the next step is for logan and me ..or if there is one at all . SOrry its long! (link)
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Yes. I think he likes you. If he didn't dance with any other girls, that's always good. Even though he didn't want to dance dirty, that's also a good sign. He might have his head in other places other than the Land of the Perverts. Or it could just simply mean he was too scared or didn't know how. Just talk to him and stuff. You can't be shy if you want your relationship(as friends and move on to more than that) to work. You need to talk to him the next time you see him and talk about the dance and stuff. Just talk and hang out.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok well i have this boyfriend i love him him soo much and he loves me too and he wants a kid reallie badd and i do too and we kinda said we want one but im afraid of my parents reaction if i did end up getting pregnant. and i mean im scared becuz my da tends to have a very bad temper problem like one time i juss wanted to go to my room and so he grabbed the bak of my head and literally threw me into my room and made my head hit the wall and i cut it open on a tack thing and so i tried to walk past him to get a wet rag and he wouldnt let me! and so im not afraid of my moms reaction becuz all she would do is give me andvice and help me raise it and tell me i was stupid and kik me out of the house cuz they said if i mess up reallie badly one more time im out of the house its my dads reaction im afraid of becuz when he gets madd he juss like blacks out and doesnt kno wat hes doing until its done and my boyfriend says that if my dad tried to hurt me that he would defend me and hit my dad and all but i dont want anyone to get hurt you know? but you have no idea how badd i want a baby!!!! and if i did get pregnant i'd want it to be my boyfriends baby. im juss afraid of my dad he scares me more than anyone i have ever known in my life
answer as fast as you can plz!! (link)
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Well, first, you do understand that a baby is a lifetime commitment, right? You can't just have the baby and then say "I've changed my mind, I don't want one anymore,". As HyperactiveMiss said, you do sound very young.
You also don't have a JOB or a HOUSE or MONEY or even a HUSBAND. Those are the key things to a successful family. Your boyfriend could leave at any second he wanted to.
I also agree with HyperactiveMiss when she said that you need to wait until you are ready.
I really don't mean to be mean, but you really don't sound like you are ready. You really need to think about this thoroughly and make sure you really want to go through with this. You can't giv the baby back.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok... my best friends and i were sitting at lunch and we had to move because other ppl were sitting there. so when sarah got her lunch she went and sat at her old table. so i said " hey, sarah why aren't you sitting by us? she said in a attitude idk i just don't want to sit by you guys. so i assumed maybe she was mad at one of us . i said SORRY I ASKED! she said what did i do wrong .? i was so mad right then! so i turned around and started talking to my other friends. then in an attitude she said don't flip your hair at me! i was about to scream. ! i was so confuused and mad. is she mad or not? Please help
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confused (link)
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Well, sometimes people need a break. She's not really mad, but probably just wanted to look cool in front of whoever she was sitting with. And even though you don't think you may have said what "why aren't you sitting with us?" with attitude, you may have. My mom tells me all the time not to have attitude when I didn't, so it could have just slipped in. Just talk to her about it.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I think I love this guy but I really don't know anymore. I'm confused. I just moved a little while ago and we never see eachother. It seems like he likes other girls to me but I think it is just because I'm so far away and I barely ever get to see him. We live almost half an hour away and I'm scared to get hurt. I don't know what to do... We've been through a lot together and I know I love him but I feel like he's pushing me away. HELP! 14/F (link)
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Well, if you feel like he's pushing you away, then maybe you should talk to him about it instead of worrying yourself sick. Distance is really a factor in a relationship so maybe you should just move on and let him do his thing. I'm sorry that I just had to say that, but you really just need to move on and let him do his thing because if you think he likes other girls then he probably does. I'm sorry.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I need help... well i am going out wit someone lets call him Jason! well anyways I really like Jason but I really love my old boyfreind lets call him Jon.. well me and Jon talk alot on the phone.. i loved him since we started goin out heck, ive liked him since i first saw him! lol .. well what I am asking is should i break up with "Jason" or stay with him.. I mean i like him and dont want to hurt him but I love Jon! I cant not think about him.. i dont kno I am so confused (link)
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This is always a confusing situtation. Are you absolutely positively sure that Jon still likes you? You could really mess things up if you dump Jason for Jon but Jon doesn't like you and Jason won't take you back. You are hurting Jason by liking Jon, but I think that if you are really sure about dumping Jason and know for a fact that Jon likes you, that you need to dump Jason. There is no sense in hurting Jason.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok i know im really skinny, but i cant help it! i eat like a fucking dinosour and i still weigh only 70 pounds at 13! i was wasndering if there is ANYTHING for me to get guys to like me. i think that im to skinny and thats why guys dont like me, but i do like guys and not a single one is interested in me! i think im pretty all but my weight, i have white strieght teeth, blonde hair, no pimples and i have big green eyes, but what the hell is with my weight? i mean is that why guys show no interest?!?! please help me. people who give me nice answers i rate 5s! (link)
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Ok. I'm going to lay it out for you. Yes, you're weight is why they don't like you. I assume you're not anorexic, but guys really don't find girls who are crazy skinny attractive. I have a friend and she is 85 pounds and she is wickedly skinny. You might not be able to gain weight because of some medication you're taking, or maybe the foods you eat are not high enough in fat and I highly doubt this but your metabolism is insanely fast. You weigh only 70 pounds so there is not an ounce of fat on you which is good, but guys don't like it when girls are that skinny. I suggest going to a doctor and asking him/her about what you can do to switch up your diet so you can gain weight. I bet that you are very pretty but what I know from my guy friends, they do like you to be healthy and just the right size. You should probably weigh at least 100 pounds.
~Good luck!~
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok well my bf and i have been going out for about 2 mounths. well a couple days ago i found out that about a day after we were going out he made out w/ my best friend(brigitte) at my other friends house(austin). well b4 i knew this my bf and i were at a party and we made out and stuff and it made my friend(brigitte) that had madeout w/ him a couple weeks b4 really mad at me and i had no clue wut was going on! and so i found out wut had happened and i was mad too for a while but i got over it but my other freind kinda hasnt and she is like my best friend!!!!! i dont kno wut to do... dump my boyfriend or dump my best freind? HELP! (link)
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So let me get this straight...your best friend made out with your boyfriend? Maybe I'm just in a bad mood today but you best friend doesn't really seem like a best friend. I mean seriously. I find that to be wrong. VERY wrong. How can you seriously think it's ok for her to be making out with your boyfriend? I still find that wrong.
I think you should talk to them both about it and work it out. Just tell them how you feel and work something out!
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Hi, let me start by saying I'm young. 13f and my best friend died. Her brother was hurt really bad and i feel like it was my fault, cuz they were on their way to pic me up when a drunk driver ran into them. My friend died instantly and her brother is expected to die in the next seven-twelve days. I want to say something to him, but I don't know what and if I don't hurry, it might be too late. You can e-mail me at prettymoonbug@hotmail.com (link)
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It's not your fault. It is the drunk driver's fault and in no possible way your fault. How could you have known there was a drunk driver? You can't blame yourself.
I don't know what to tell you to say to him. I'm sorry that I can't help you there. Just say what you really mean in your heart.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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what in the world are we going to use point slope, slope intercet, x and y intercepts, and ANYTHING else along those lines for in real life? That's what we are doing in math and it seems so pointless. Ill rate 5's for ANY decent answer. (link)
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I asked my teacher that a few weeks ago and she kind of looked at me funny and said we really wouldn't use it in the real world. SO WHY ARE THEY TEACHING IT?!?!?!?!? Well, basically it's just math and all that horrible stuff we learn is the basis for all other math that you would have to do in a math based job. Why they teach it NOW, I don't know. Maybe they can't just teach us addition and subtraction every year. I don't know. I just thought it was funny that I had just recently asked my teacher this.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I recently found out that one of my guy friends that I'm pretty close to likes me. He's a really cool guy but I don't feel the same way about him. And honestly, I'm quite uncomfortable around him now. It's gotten to the point to where I have to sign of my screen name if he signs on. He hasn't tried anything (I don't know if he will) but it's extremely weird. I know I should be more mature about the situation but I just can't help it. I have no idea what to do. I feel as if our friendship is ruined. Any advice?
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You said you HEARD that he likes you so it may not be true. Did you hear it from him? Out of his mouth? If you didn't, then breathe. If you don't like him and he tries something, just tell him the truth. That's so much better than leading him on. Don't freak out to know he likes you, if you tell him that you don't feel the same way, he will eventually get over you and move on. Trust me.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Theres this guy he creeps me out every time I sign on he's on and he IMs me saying he's gonna rape me and crap and I'm scared...What should I do I'm 14 years old I need your help Allison please!!!!
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Hon. BLOCK HIM!!! How did you get his screen name? He's one of those guys who don't get any. You need to call the police or something. He probably doesn't know any of your personal info, but if he does, you should probably call the police because he could and might come after you!
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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14/f ok ive liked one guy and only one in my whole life.. we went out before but barely talked it was pretty stupid and now he has a g/f.. guys have asked me out and theres nothing really wrong with them.. i just cant because i always want to be open for him.. i dont want to be this way forever, always wanting him.. how am i supposed to get over it? (link)
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I've done that before. You really don't want to be in this position. Your turning down perfectly good guys for someone who doesn't like you. If he did, then he would have already asked you out again. You need to find out if he really likes you and you really need to move on with your life. You know I'm not trying to be mean, but you've got to start liking other guys.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help! (link)
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That was a totally mean thing to say about your friend! How would you feel if she said the same thing about you? And maybe you should take a look at what you just wrote and then see why guys don't like you. Your personality isn't the greatest. Despite what some of the most shallow guys in the world say, guys do like a girl with a good personality, too. Someday you'll have a boyfriend, you just have to wait. Some of the best things in life are worth waiting for so slow it down.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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