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Help guys,
ok, i like my neighbor alot..but he has a girl friend. I have started talkin to him and hes taken me on his 4wheeler before and i really thought he liked me cause monday over spring break(when it rained)and he took me down to the landing in our town and we just sat and talked lookin at the water and then he taught me how to drive his 4wheeler and it was really really nice. haha and i really thought he was into me cause he kept looking at me evrytime i looked at him. but the thing is, ive told his sis i like him and like he has never made and effort to contact me, im doin all the givin, i havnt talked to him in about two weeks and when ive seen him, i act like hes not there. but i dont know what to do now, i really want to talk to him but....its so complicated. can anyone help?*
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He may think you don't like him if you've been ignoring him at school. Boy's do have feeling too! He does have a girlfriend at the moment but that doesn't mean you two can't be friends. You probably need to talk to him at least so he doesn't think you're mad at him or something. Who knows what may happen!
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I really think he was just trying to be friends with you. There's nothing bad about being friends with a great guy right? You say he has not contacted you. This is probably because he has a girlfriend of his own and he probably loves her very much. Don't try to break inbetween him and his girlfriend. You've only started talking to him, and you're not even sure if he has feelings for you. If you had a great boyfriend I'm sure you wouldn't want another girl to break you two up right? You'll find someone else, someone who's perfect for YOU, so don't worry about it. Be happy and relax!
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Dont give him the impression you dont like him..keep hangin out with him and eventually he will be into you and break up wih his gf. This is a tricky situation because he does have a gf..dont try to break them up..but you can definately hope for it lol. I would hint around by asking questions like "so, do you love your gf?..hows the relationship going.." But i wouldnt focus on her because t might freak him out. for now, just continue to hang out with him and flirt...
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ook, i know what one of the things your doing wrong! first of all, you like him right? ill answer that and its yes, so when you act like he isnt there your giving him the signal your not interested in him! bad thing! so its up to you to give him the right signal and not the wrong one! ~JoElen <33
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Well, ignoring him for two weeks is just going to make him think you don't like him, but he's probably 16-17, right? Like Dover said, he is probably 16,17,or 18 and what I think is he was just being nice to you. I think he believes that you are just friends and that's what you are, just friends. You can't try to make him break up with his girlfriend, that shouldn't happen because he could really like her and what if he dumps her and goes with you just to make himself feel better? Not cool, eh? So maybe you need to just be friends, when him and his girlfriend break up, have at it, but not if he's 18. 18 is a little old for a fourteen year old. Just take it slow as friends for now and talk to him.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Why dont you just talk to him then?
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well ignoring him isn't all ways the answer say he does like you but since your ignoring him he might not think you like him sohes not gonna do anything about it and who says s cant make the forst move heck im a and i have and even if he has a friend it doesn't mean there gonna be together forever!! best of wishes to you!!!
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