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Okay, so i went out with this guy a i really really like him and stuff but when we went out we never saw eachother (diff schools) he acted like he didn't really wanna talk to me, we didnt talk on the phone or anything, and yeah it was weird so i dumped him. We have been friends for a while and when we arent going out we go to movies and stuff n talk on the phone all the time and yeah. I really like him, but i dont want to go out with him unless things can change...but i dont really know what to do. hes always like "i wish you would go out with me" and that he really likes me and stuff. But now hes mad about it and he told me he might just go out with this other girl because it doesn't matter and i was like crying (it was over the internet) because i still really like him! and i guess it seemed like he was trying to make me mad by saying stuff about the other girl or whatever but yeah i dont know what to do..should i go out with him again? or just forget him? or what?? (link)
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well it seems to me that you two are better off being friends and not bf's. You know what i mean. well if he really likes you and you like him and he is asking you out than you should go for it and not let that opportunity go by. Maybe you should try and change things abit, Like having more things in common or just showing him that you like him.
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ive been going out with this boy since last friday (6 days) i like him so much and firday im going to a dance with him should i makeout with him or is it too soon (link)
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No i think its the right time and for sure the best place that way you can show him that you really care for him.
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im a 21yr old single parent, amd am in love with a married man with two kids, we have been together for 4yrs this would be the 5th now, he tells me he loves me we always argue about our relationship for weeks but eventually amke up and all he teells me he is having major problems with he wife and wants to divorce her i dnt know how true this is or whether he just says so to get what he wants and it has worked for all these years, he doesn t not agree for me to see anyone else but he is married, i love him but im not sure whether it is worth waiting for he says he also wants to have a baby wiht me but what ifheruns away denies it my parents dont know about this relationship but my mum has emphasied never to go out with a married man what do i do, he also expects me to do all the contacting callin smsin and if i dont its a big story does he really love me is heworth the while???? (link)
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Well first of all you shouldnt do anything with him yet until he is divorced and if he really loves you the way he says than you shouldn't be the only one contacting him. It's also not right that he doesnt let you see anyone else but him while he is still a married man. Tell him that your willing to wate on him for awhile until he gets divorced but if that takes forever and he doesnt hurry up than he is not worth it which means that he only wants to have a good time with you and still stay with his wife.
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I am 15 and I just cannot get any guys to notice me. Sure, I have plenty of guy friends, but I find it very difficult for guys to look at me as more then a friend. I'm not exactly skinny, but I guess i wouldn't callk myself extremely huge. I am just overweight. I work really hard to lose weight and it usually works, but I always get so depressed when I see all my friends who weigh like 115 pounds and how they always get the guys to notice them. How can i get guys to notice me and really see the real me, not just what is on the outside? How can I make them see the real me? How can I deal with the stress I have, and how can i lose enough weight to make guys want to be with me? PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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Honey you dont need to look good for guys to notice you, you just have to be yourself and not anybody else.You should show your real emotions and yourself. Also you can start a balanced diet and try to excersice at least 3 times a week.
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here it goes, my friend has always been nice to me, but after she she got this new group of friends... every time i come ova her house it's "Wanta invite my friend ova".when eva her friends are ova she's not herself anymore. i tryed to talk her about it but,now she thinks i hate her friends(which I do). anyway how can i keep my friendship and stil get time alone with my friend?!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well first of all there are a lot of people who get new groups. What i think that you should do is just go up to her and tell her that you want your old friend back and that you really miss her.
But hey you can always meet new peolple and not just limit your self to one person.
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what are some cute names that like Gurlfriend's callthere boyfreinds... lik example like him calling her babe or something, what are some different names tht are cute to Call eachother! (link)
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sweety
babe
darling
honey
sugar
cupcake
sugarpie
Or other names that come from your heart but first make sure that your partner is okay with it.
*poopie pant girly
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is there any way i can convinve my REALLY overprottective mom into letting me go to bording school?! lol everytime i ask she puts on this sad face (like to make me feel bad) and says "you really wanna leave your mom?!" and i always say "no but i really wnat a change"....and i just think it's time for me to be able to be a little more independant! but i guess my mom thinks im gonna be a baby forever..anways do any of you know a way to convinve my mom to let me go!? and also i know this is totaly irrelevant to the subject (lol) but how can i convince my mom to let me date already when ALL my firneds have been allowed for a while now!...thanx i RATE HIGH! lol xox Ari (link)
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I think that you should tell your mom that your not a baby anymore and that you want to make your own decisons. You need to show her that you are more responsible than she thinks and maybe she will give you abit more confidence than the one she already has for you. I mean show her that you can take care of yourself.
poopiepantsgirly
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I am a 16 year old female. I've been dating this guy, Jared for the past 2 years on and off. While me and Jared were broken up I started dating this other guy, Seth whom I dated for like 6 months. Its been like 8 or 9 months since me and seth were together. We had a really serious, deep conversation about us (this happened like 2 months ago.) and he told me that he loved me. He really meant it. I could tell. But at the time I was still with Jared. And I knew, deep down that I still had feelings for Seth, but I didn't want to admit it. I wanted to stay completely loyal to Jared, and that I did. But just recently I started feeling neglected by Jared. Like, he barely calls anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. And I've started thinking about Seth a lot. Seth is a really great guy. And I know that I love him. I've always loved him. But I'm still with Jared, and I know I'd regret leaving Jared, if I decided to. What should I do about the whole situation? Seth doesn't know how I feel about him. Should I tell him? What should I do??????????????????? (link)
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Girl you need to move on cause if that jared guy isnt giving you much attention than I think that you should leave him. And if Seth really likes you than I think that you shouldnt miss an opportunity like that. yes you should tell him that way he will have another reason to love you even more..Well hope I was able to help.
*poopie pants girly
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okay in school every one calls me a slut and im not one i never had sex,or gave anyone head!! what should i do when they call me it? please help!!
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I think that you should tell your principle or your council as soon as possible because this can really ruin your reputation.
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hey. im going to ask my dad if he will take me to a dermatologist. im not scared about asking him though. what i really want to no before i do ask him is what they do when i go? (i have acne) and can they put me on pills or some lotion that will clear my face up? (link)
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I think that you should just ask him because you need to keep you face clean. They will give you some kind of treatment, but i resantly heard about this product that is called proactive and it works really good because it clears away the acne without drying your skin. You should ask the dermatologist about the product and how you can get it.
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Okay well i guess this isn't a diet, but all I eat pretty much is like junk food and im kinda overweight..i think anyways..so i want to try and stop eating that and eat healthy. The thing is, since thats like all thats in my house is things that are bad for you its hard and thats what i crave all the time-sugar or something so its really hard to stick with it..what should i do to keep with the healthy food and stuff and not eat sugary things or junk food?? (link)
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Its not easy to just get on a diet from one day to another. What you should do is ask the person that buys groceries if they could take it easy on the junk food and buy healthy nutritous food for your body and theres. Also you should at least do one hour of exersice every day to raise your metablism and keep your mind from thinking about food. You should also try to join some sports.
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i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.
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You should have days were like you can spend time with him and other days with your girlies. Well if that doesnt work than you can just tell him that you need time to be with your friends.
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My friend and i have been friends for about a yr. I dont know if shes always been like this but shes gotten really really boring. I was talking about it to my other friend, and she agreed and said that she cant continue a conversation. Also..she hates *all* of my other friends and its annoying me. At the beggining of the school yr we were really good friends but lately shes gotten on my last nerve. Theres this one dude i like and he doesnt like me back and shes all mean about it and says..well ur mean to him and you annoy him. Shes SO friggin negative about everything and i dont know what to do, i dont want to stop being her friend completely...i just need a lot of space from her. I have other friends too and when im with them she comes up and just stands there. When i was walking with a guy she ran up to me and started walking along. She always comes out at break to see me. Its ANNOYING and i feel like i have no space. I dont know what to do or what i should say.
Anyways, the point of that whole explaination was that today at lunch i didnt want to sit in a certain spot cause the guy i like/d was there..so i walked away and she was all frustrated and like acting annoyed so i said ok if you wanna go to that spot then go , i'll just go find something else to do and i left..and i havnt seen her since then.
So..what should i do? im sorry if that was long but thats what happened.
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I think that you should tell her how you feel and that you just need some space for yourself. About her being boring well just try to find some things in common like music, sports, or fashion.
hope i was able to help.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
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just go along with what he does and the thing about the kissing you cant really mess up on that.
It will only feel special if you want it to happen, but if you dont than you might want to wait and tell him that your still not ready. Although you might want to start the kissing that way he will know that you want something serious with him.
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Is it bad if your boyfriends "belongings" smell a little bit wierd/mildewy...my boyfriend Chad wants me to give him oral sex well when he pushes my head down there**i start to gag a little bit....but i dont want to be rude or ne thing but it makes me gag a lot and its a tad bit undigesting!HELP i rate so high that it touches the sky!teehee (link)
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well if i were you i would probably tell him about it because it could be something serious.
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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!! (link)
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Gurl if you dont want to do it than just wait awile and try to convince him that your just not ready for that. If he really loves you than he will respect you and wait until your ready. But if you really want to than go for it and just think of how much he loves you.
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is something wrong with me if i never had a boyfriend before? i never had my first kiss or nothing. i flirt a lot, but i never get any further. some guys have asked me out, but i say no and i dont know why. i guess im kind of sacred. what do i do? (link)
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No theres nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend or ever being kissed. Your just not ready. Just take some time to find yourself and then you can give it a try. Its ok alot of people are scared there first time when they about dating. Hope I was able to help.
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i love seeing my room clean i truely do but i hate cleanin it when its messie and i know put it away after you take something out but sometimes i forget and it can be super hard and tips on how i can keep in check on how to keep my room somewhat clean....keep in mind at the age of 13 it can be hard. (link)
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1.Your not the only one who doesnt like to clean.
2.you should always keep a trash can around in case you make a mess.
3.You should enjoy cleaning cause its good excersice.
4.Throw away things that you really dont need anymore.
5.Use like storage boxes to keep things in that way you wont have everything crowded in the same space.
Hope my advice helped.
-poopiepantsgirly
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Alright.... there is this guy that I wouldnt have sex with.. so now he is mad at me and is always calling me names... but I'm not going to stop going over to where he lives because that is my friends house.... the other night his cousin came up to me and got in my face so I pushed him on the ground.... he got back up in my face so I hit him.. now this guy thinks that he can nag at me whenever he wants and get aways with it because they told there mom and she got mad at me for it... and I forgot this guy grabbed my wrists and shoved me up against these bars.... but now I'm not allowed over at my friends house unless there mom is there.... well please help thanks ~ monkey girl~ (link)
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To tell you the truth I think that the only reason that he and his friends(or brothers)are treating you this way is because you dindt want to have sex with him. You should not let them push you around like that and tell their mom the truth about them. Also if you want to see your friend than just tell her to come over your house that way you wont have to see those guys. Hope I was able to help.
-poopiepantsgirly
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i have the abilty to get good grades and i already know that. the problem is that i can't seem to always do my homework and focus on my classwork. i need ways to help me focus and do my homework right when i get home. (link)
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I think that you should go to your room and review over what you learned in class that day and then maybe try to concentrate. By doing this you should take out all the negative things and other stuff that dont let you concentrate. Hope the advice help.
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