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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!!
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of course its gonna hurt dumbass...it always does the first time....
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hi sounds to me like he is going around having sex with every one and to me DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM AND KEEP YOUR VIRGINATY ITS YOURS YOU DONT HAVE TO SHARE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SIGNED lil'helper
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dont worry... trust me you will be like ok, the mosre u stress over it the more your going to get yourself worked up... im sure you will be fine just stop like thinking every part out.. let things go natrual and unplanned and it will be alot more bettrer then if ure all like stuff and scared.. you have been with him for a really long time and thats aswome you guys havent had sex yet. he probrly really cares about you. so im sure he woodnt do anything to hurt you
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well you shouldn't be scared, if he fingers you and stuff you shouldn't be super tight down there, plus guys like it when your tight. but sometimes the first time is the worst because it might hurt but by the third time you should be good. so all i'm sayin is that it shouldnt' hurt and dont get so worked up about it either. xox
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I'vE Got A hInT...BECOME A CATHOLIC!! and STAY A VIRGIN TILL YOUR MARRIED!!! then you wont have to worry about it fitting!!!!!!!
GoSh ThEsE bAd PeOpLe!
sara!
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If you're scared then you definitely shouldn't do it. Don't be pressured to do something you don't want to. And think about it..he's had sex three times, and you're a virgin why did his other sexual relationships end? And it probably is going to hurt.
"When climbing the ladder of success, don't let the boys look up your dress. They will say you're cute and say you're fine but in 9 months they'll say its not mine."
-Hope I helped!-
<*>bUtTeRfLiEs<*>
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well it won't be tight if you finger yourself, but if you don't then it will hurt, but just try and face it. he will understand since it is your first time. (use pertection)
<3 airhead <3
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give it a shot, see how it is. if it sux dont do it.
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Geezus I feel your pain. Wel I'm sorry to say this but if you really scared about your Thang being tight. Im afraid you gunna hav to "find a way" to hmm i dunno i feel weird saying this but "open it up" lol. Ne ways! If you do get the chance to just let it flow. Most of all use protection!! lol. Hope I helped!
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I would talk to him about it. Especially if you're that nervous. Say something like "Can we take it slow, you know this is something new to me." Or if your not ready yet, tell him. I think that if you've made it together this long, that he doesn't just want to have sex with you, so use that to your advantage and be honest with him. Good luck!
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first of all, don't do anything that you don't want to. but if you do decide you want to, there is a good possibility it will hurt, but if you're ever going to have sex this is a risk you must take because no matter when you do it, it will still hurt if it's going to.
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Gurl if you dont want to do it than just wait awile and try to convince him that your just not ready for that. If he really loves you than he will respect you and wait until your ready. But if you really want to than go for it and just think of how much he loves you.
-poopiepantsgirly*
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Well first off Happy One Year and Congradulations! Next, make sure you`re ready - i know you may hear it a lot but its true, it`s something you can never take back. But if you`re afriad it wont fit, you guys might want to start off with "fourplay" ( having him finger you or you "pleasure" him by jacking him off and what-not ) first to "loosin" it up lol. Sex is a thing a lot of girls fear as a first time thing and it comes a long with a lot of questions. Just relax and play it by ear. I highly doubt it "wont fit", it may take a while being your first time but it usually doesnt take too long. Be confident and make the best of it. Good luck! USE A CONDOM!!!!!
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Krissyxx9 answered:
"It's normal to be scared your frist time"
No! It's not normal. If you are scared, you are not ready! And no sex should not hurt, if he is gentle and takes his time. Please don't let him pressure you into something you are scared to do.
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okay girl first calm down.. hun well its your first time and yes its goin to hurt a little bit.. and um trust me it will fit.. i think if sooner or later a baby's head can come out of there a penis can fit.. but its not like goin to kill you the first time.. it will probably hurt a little bit the first few times but not like the first time.. and trust me even tho you might not like it too well the first time dont me you wont like it at all..Jus enjoy being with him and you will be nervous til its over with.. but if you love him and have been with him that long then everything should go okay..and get him to go slow for your first time also..much luv dez
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It's normal to be scared your frist time, try not to think about it too much. Maybe to losen you up down there, he can finger you before you actually have sex. Just tell him to go easy on you. I'm sure he won't go hard on you because he knows your a virgin, just take it slow. If it does hurt you can tell him to stop, there's nothing wrong with that. But just try to calm down a bit because everythings going to be perfect!
♥ Krissy
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