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Okay, so i went out with this guy a i really really like him and stuff but when we went out we never saw eachother (diff schools) he acted like he didn't really wanna talk to me, we didnt talk on the phone or anything, and yeah it was weird so i dumped him. We have been friends for a while and when we arent going out we go to movies and stuff n talk on the phone all the time and yeah. I really like him, but i dont want to go out with him unless things can change...but i dont really know what to do. hes always like "i wish you would go out with me" and that he really likes me and stuff. But now hes mad about it and he told me he might just go out with this other girl because it doesn't matter and i was like crying (it was over the internet) because i still really like him! and i guess it seemed like he was trying to make me mad by saying stuff about the other girl or whatever but yeah i dont know what to do..should i go out with him again? or just forget him? or what??
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Maybe, you guys are scared to talk when yall know you two are a couple. But when you two are just being friends, yall dont think about the boyfriend/girlfriend situation, theres ways to solve it but you have to not let that odd feeling get between you two when yall are goin out. Just go out with him. If it dont work, then yall are prolly just comfortable around each other as friends. And the "hes thinking bout goin out with another girl" hes just tryin to get you to say I wanna go back out with you. Go for it girl !!
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try dating around a bit, explore your options. but don't go and rub it in his face. also, try talking to him about how he feels about you dating other people for a while, don't jus tdo it behind his back.
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You definitely need to talk to your ex-boyfriend and tell him that you like him and that you will go out with him again, only if things in your relationship can change. Explain to him about the things that need to be changed and if he really likes you and wants to go out with you again, then he will listen and will try to make things change and such. I think he was just trying to get you mad when he said that he will go out with this girl because he specifically told you that he liked you and wanted to go out with you again. Don't forget about your ex-boyfriend because everyone deserves second chances and you just need to tell him how you feel and he will make things change.
-Karen
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well it seems to me that you two are better off being friends and not bf's. You know what i mean. well if he really likes you and you like him and he is asking you out than you should go for it and not let that opportunity go by. Maybe you should try and change things abit, Like having more things in common or just showing him that you like him.
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I think you should let the guy make the first move, that way you know that both of you are ready. Don't rush into things.
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My advice on this (being that kind of man) is to just tell him how you feel. After that, explain how your relationship didn't work and what would HAVE to change for it to work again. As for the talking about other girls, my best guess would be jealosy tactics. If that is the case, he really does like you and he doesnt know how else to express it. remember, guys were taught as children to supress all emotions except anger.
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i think you should tell him wut you feel because if you dont tell him then he will go out with that other girl and that will make you mad and possibly jealous so if you tell him mayb he will turn to you and ask you out i honesty think you should go out you sound like you already are so i hope this helped if not im really sorry and ill try again!!!1
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My boyfriend was the same way with me...bit he lived in the next couple towns over and i never saw him -- You should tell him you want this to change, that you want him to treat you like his g.f when your his g.f -- Tell him straight up you dont wanan get urt but your feelings are stronge for him, He probably only said things about that other girl so you would get jealous and take him back right away...Talk to him -- See how he feels i bet he still likes you
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