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.im a guyhow do you know if someone likes you and if you do know then how do you start a good friendship with this person that could lead to a relationship as in boyfriend and girlfriend.you see this girl likes me but im not sure about going out with here because i dont know alot about here.help pls.tanxs
You would know if someone likes you.
1: If someone likes you,look for subtle hints. Like if they like you, they tend to smile at you alot, and they seem to be much more cheerier when you're around them. They like to be close to you, etc.
If you want a good friendship with this person (and it's always a good start) is just to talk to her more. Ask her questions, but questions that are have a lil more answers to them. Such as, : What do you do for fun? or What did you do last weekend? Those type of questions.
If you want to step up them game a little, you can start by asking her if she'd like to go to the movies or just hang out over the weekend, this is a good way to get to know each other better. But you want to just get to know each other so let her know that it's not a date. Or better yet, ask her to go to the movies with a bunch of your friends, or go bowling. A group thing, so it wouldn't feel as awkward, you know?
Hope I helped. :)
i need some songs about a girl who wants a guy, and he wants her too but they cant have eachother thanks
Ain't it funny- Ja Rule ft. J.LO
My Boo- Usher ft. Alicia Keys
Do you- Ne-yo (it's a guy's version)
I still Believe- Mariah Carey
Cry baby- Mariah Carey ft. Snoop Dogg
And that's all I could think of hope I helped!
;)
okay i am like so sick of where i live. the people, the things, the places, EVERYTHING. i just hate it. i want to move farrr away from here. i hate winter. i want to move to like florida or cali or something. what can i do? im only fifteen.
Well I hate to break it to you, but when you're your age and still live with your parents, you're gonna have stay where you are until you hit 18.
Some of these places that you think about living, have you been there to actually say you WANT to live there? I live in Florida, but it's not always that great. I'm 17 wanting to get out of Florida, but I can't do much about that until I turn 18 or go off to college. I want to live in NYC but I haven't been there to actually say I'd love to live there.
For you (and for most kids), unfortunately we have stay where your parent/gaurdian goes. Usually and likely thats where they found a good job and like to stay there for awhile or maybe until they decide to retire and get their (Social Security/ S.S.)
But this maybe an option if your parents approve. If you have an aunt/uncle and they say you can live with them for awhile. Then MAYBE you could go live with them for awhile, if your parents approve.
But for your age, it's unlikely for you to go anyplace without your parents naturally until you hit 18. When you hit 18, your an young adult. And after that you have control of your own life. You've got 3 more years! It won't be long until you hit 18! Your in highschool right? Those years go by fast like flying colors ;) Good luck and I hope this helps, and have a HAPPY NEW YEAR! ;)
ok so im 14/f and still TERRIFIED of the dark. every night when i go to sleep i imagine murderers breaking in and killing me. I don't watch scary movies anymore, just a few here and there. the old ones still come back to haunt me, i'll remember any scary thought when it's nighttime. the fact that my house is PITCH BLACK at night doesn't help at all either. i really really desperately need help, i'm scared to go to bed at night. i can't even get up to go pee because im scared the killer with "hear me". i want to use a nightlight, but i don't want my parents to think i'm a wuss, i mean i'm 14!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me find a way to be comfortable in my own house at night.
All people experience a fear of the dark, if they haven't yet they will at least one pt. in their life.
1. If you watch scary/suspense movies, try not to watch it at night. Save those movies for early times in a day, like the morning, or afternoon. That way it can help you think less about the scary parts that happened in the movie when you go to sleep at night. Or if you really want to watch scary/suspense movies at night then turn on a light when you watch it, see if that helps. But I really recommend my #1 response for you. That helps better.
If you have to go the bathroom, use it. It's not good to hold it, you could get kidney stones. (Which really hurts) A doctor will tell you that.
Don't be embarrassed of asking your parents for a nightlight, they should understand. Chances are they've been scared of the dark too when they were younger. Even if they don't admit it. They have, (been scared of the dark before) trust me.
It will help you.
Tip 1: So the light won't disturb your parents keep the door to your room closed. This could also help with that thought you have of a "killer" coming after you.
TIP 2: When you go to the bathroom take the nightlight from your room (or buy an extra one) with you and turn it on in the hallway (if you have an outlet where you go to the bathroom). If you don't have a plug-in carry a flashlight with you when you go to the bathroom. Also, I could say you can turn on the light in a room so that you can see where you're going and helps with that fear but it might disturb your parents if there is a whole bright light in a room. So a plug-in or a flashlight is recommended. Turn this on only when you go to the bathroom.
TIP 3: Watch a comedy something really funny before you to bed rather than a horror/suspense movie. It can help you to rid of those bad thoughts. You'll sleep on all the funny parts and candy and sugar plums plus happy faces dance in your head :) So watch a comedy movie before you go to bed, see if that helps.
Well this is all I have left that I can give you, and I hope I really helped. And I hope that you achieve your fear, and you will, it just takes time. Have good luck and a hope you have a HAPPY NEW YEAR! :)
So you've probably all heard about jamie lynn spears being pregnant
But I'm curious to hear every ones opinion on this .
Good or bad what are your opinions on jamie lynn spears being pregnant at 16 do you all think its a bad influence on youngsters? What do you all think ?
Jessica Martinez, - Seventeen Magazine
A little shocked, but it happens. And it's been happening all over the world. So many girls right now who are in their teens, (such as me) are getting pregnant, I have quite a bit of my friends who are too. So the teen pregnancy rate is rising, but I think it is all about taking responsibility for your own actions and acknowledge the possible consequences for your own actions. If your mature enough to know the consequences then you can be considered a responsible person. Do I think its a bad influence? No, because in my opinion, I think that people are entitled to their own actions, they react on their own, and I think that what happened (since this is public & is also the first time I've ever seen a young star pregnant) that maybe kids can actually learn from this. If other people see what kind of mistakes other people make maybe people will take initiative to avoid making the same mistake the other person did. So I think people can actually learn from this. :)
I have a really good guy friend. I like him as more than a friend. He has a girlfriend. Me and him have been hanging out a lot, but the other day I was in a bad mood, and he didn't do anything wrong(actually, he was being amazingly sweet), but I guess I was stressed out about a lot of stuff, and I was tired of watching him be with another girl, so I said some mean things to him, and yet he was still nice, and then I got meaner. Then he kinda ignored me. Now we talked a little, and he says he's nit mad, but he's not talking to me much, and he doesn't seem to care about me like he did. I think he's still mad and I want to make it up to him. A friend thought New Years would be a good time for all of us to get together and have fun again.
Wow. Your story was amazingly ALOT similar to mine, but mine happened a week ago.
I'd say give it some time, he'll come around, yall are still friends, so he's likely to come around when assumingly knows when you're ready to talk to him. Or if he doesn't, go up to him yourself, apologize and explain that you've been just so stressed lately and that you're sorry for taking it out on him and you didn't mean to. Hopefully, he excepts your apology. But if he doesn't still give it some time, he'll come around still.
EXTRA TIP: With your apology maybe, give him a gift. It doesn't have to be expensive at all. Like a food you know he likes lol (I did it) he was so stoked. ALSO: With you liking him and all, maybe you should tell him how you feel. You never know, you know? Don't let words be unspoken. Hope I helped and good luck! & have a Happy New Year :)
heyy ok i really like this boy and he likes me but wants to keep it a secret for now...also he says it might become something more but he doesnt know what he wants yet. since new years is coming up should i give him until then to make up his mind and start frsh or just keep waiting. it hurts soo much to wait but i really really like this boy. please help!
thank you
jess
Ask yourself this question.
If he likes you, why would he want to keep that a secret? Is he hiding something? You may want to check up on this guy first, see if he's hiding something.
If he isn't, then give this guy a while to think it up, if he doesn't come around anytime you want him to, then it'd be safe if leave and just forget him. Girls want a guy who KNOWS what he wants, and will take charge to get what he wants. That's the type of guy I would want. Not someone who isn't sure. A guy who doesn't know what he wants is immature, and obviously not ready for you. You want somebody who is ready.
But, if you really want this kid, wait a while to see what will happen (I'd say a week), and if he doesn't come around move on. Hope I helped.
what is a song about doing something that hurt so bad, and youre soo sorry for hurting the person, but it was the right thing to do for now, but you love them with all your heart and its hurting you too?
is there one?
preferably rock/alternative.
three days grace, seether, linkin park, all time low, etc...
or even like rascal flatts..
and preferably something newer.
thanks.
withlove.
Maroon 5- Won't go home without you
Buckcherry- Sorry
Staind- Everything Changes
Blue October- Hate me
Hinder- Better than me
Dashboard Confessional -Vindicated
Paramore- We are broken
Sugarcult- Say I'm sorry
Akon- Blame it on me
Maroon 5- Sweetest Goodbye
Flyleaf- Sorrow
Hope I helped! ♥
I'm looking for both sad and angry songs about relationships.
either or
please no rap or country.
thank you so much! :]
A fine frenzy- Almost Lover
Your heart is an empty room- Death Cab for cutie
She will be loved/ Sweetest Goodbye- Maroon 5
We are broken- Paramore
The Grace- Neverending White Lights
Everything Changes- Staind
Down toward the healing -Lovedrug
Hate me- Blue OctoberVreathe me- Sia
Hope I helped!
What are some cute, but original names for a girl? I don't want one that is everywhere, I want a unique one. THANK YOU!
Chandler
Maleia
Christine
Bianca
Taylor
Robin
Mariah
Jade
Francesca
Justine
Carmella
Phoebe
Sophie
Hope I helped!
I know you girls love guys and...
I know their has been this myth going around that asian guys can't get white girls..which is not true,since I'm asian and have a white gf,but I want to know what you girls think
Question1: Would you date an asian guy? considering he has good looks and personality
Question2:Have you ever liked an asian guy?
Question3:Would you marry an asian guy?
Question4:Where does the asian guy stand among the whites,latinos and blacks?Your preference?
Example:Black>White>etc.etc
thank you
Question1: I'm half asian so yeah,I don't look at race really, I look at looks and personality. A good personality being the most important.
Question2: Yep. :)
Question3: If I feel he is the right guy for me, and has all good qualities yes.
Question4: This question is particulary hard to answer but it really shouldn't matter what race you date, all that matters is that the person has a good personality , treats you right, and that the attraction is there for the both of you. (leave race out of it) Try to focus on the personality or how that beautiful they are to you, no matter what race. LOVE IS COLOR BLIND.
My prefrence?, I don't discriminate, I like all. All the guys I've liked are ALL kinds of races and types TRUST ME. It doesn't matter. :)
ok first of i am normally the one giving advice not getting it so
Ok I am what you call an ugly fat girl that has no fashion sence at all
but i have more guy friends then girl friends but i have a problem i know that one of them likes me and has a girlfriend that is one of my friends, and i don't like him, but there is another one that idk if he does or not but i like him and what should i do
First off, hun on (which I don't know who you are). Why bash yourself with such negative comments? Everybody is pretty in their own ways. Don't believe in such a comment like that, and try not to live on what other people have to say about you, just ignore it. You're pretty in your own way,you can find it in your inner self. You just have to search for it. Confidence is key.
Anyway, onto the "problem". So how do you know if this guy a.1 likes you if he has a girlfriend that just so happens to be one of your friends? Did you actually heat it from him himself?
If so he does like you, and you don't have the same feelings, tell him straight through. You could only be honest, thats the best thing to tell him. Tell him you don't like him like that, if hes friends with you.
And this other guy, GUY B:
you could only ask him Guy B or one of his closest friends to see if he likes you or not.
That's the only way you'll know for sure. Or if your a little shy just ask him (Guy B) who he likes or if he likes anyone, if you don't want to ask guy B try asking one of his closest friends.
That't the only way to know for sure, if he likes you. You wouldn't want to just pursue a person and then find out he doesnt't like you. You'll get hurt. Know the facts first, ask him what he thinks about you. And if he feels the same way, ahh be damn you got yourself a frog prince!, make a move on him. Only time will tell. You'll NEVER know unless you ask! Hope I helped.
does anyone know if there is a new iphone comming out soon?
Hey if this helps check these out.
http://gizmodo.com/gadgets/macworld2007/rumor-3g-iphone-coming-227850.php
http://www.iphonect.com/apple/iphone-with-3g-coming-out/
Hope I helped, if any. :)
well ive only talked to him twice once was when i asked him to hand me my pencil and the second time was when i had an issue with my EX and he is sort of involved but like sometimes i go and say hi to some of my friends which are also his when he is around so i say hi to my friends and like lets say i didnt say hi to him he looks at me blushing he looks like he is gonna say arent you gonna say hi to me but i guess he is shy and i dont say hi cuz im shy well and sometimes i catch him looking at me DO YOU THINK THERE IS A CHANCE HE LIKES ME?
I'd say if he's blushing, that's a real indication he likes you. Awee :) But talk to him more, and see where it goes, but if you really want to know if he likes you, just ask him, that's only way you know for sure, or maybe you could ask a really good friend of his?. Try asking his guy friend this way: Does he like anyone? Or Do you know he he likes? OR maybe if your brave ask him if he likes you. Who knows? you'll never know unless you ask. :) But to me, there's a 75% chance he likes you, I mean the blushing? Awwwe... Good luck!
Lastnight, I had a dream about my boyfriend KISSING A GIRL.
a girl who I think he's been with before, but I'm not sure, i use to know her real well, and have hung with her before, but I don't speak to her anymore.
Anyway, why did I have this dream? It was so weird? I was crying in my dream, and this guy said "why are you crying, are you okay?" I went to school with him, and I've only talked to him a few times, on Myspace.
That was the weirdest dream ever, I was SO sad when I woke up..and now I just..I feel like crying right now.
Is this normal? Does everyone have weird dreams like this?
Well I'm no dream analyzer but if this helps, I use this as a refrence to what I'm dreaming about.
Yes, sometimes dream are just dreams, like maybe things in your waking life, effect your dreams.
But anyway, heres' what I use for dream interpretations. They have some for every letter. So analyze them bit by bit. Hope this helps :)
http://www.myjellybean.com/astrology/dream/c_dreams.htm
hey. well i keep hearing this song on the raido, but have yet to figure out what it is! it is a guy singing and these are certain things i could pick out. it goes something like "stop and stare, everyone gets scared" and "do you see what i see". please help!! thanks!
One Republic - Stop & Stare ? Hope I helped. ♥
Ok I know long distance relationships never work, but maybe they can?
Should i even get my hopes up? Ok let me tell you the story.
I met him in the summer of 2005 and he fell instantly in "love" with me and we kissed but that was pretty much it. He lives in Connecticut and i live in Florida. We talked a bit after that but not really much. But recently i have gotten back in touch with him, but all he wants to talk about is having sex with me. I am going up there in december so i don't know whether i should or shouldn't do anythign with him...... one he has a g/f but he says he doesn't really love her, he loves me and blah blah blah but he refuses to break up with her. two i really don't want to be this slut and have sex with him when i actually have feeling but he doesn't. but he always says he does....he says he might move down here cause he has family down here but i don't know if that will happen...... so i don't know i think i should stop but i actually have feeling so it is kinda hard
HELP!!!!
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He just wants to keep you on the side.
Ahhh... DON'T get your hopes up on this guy.
Reasons why?
1. All he wants to talk about is having sex with you (If thats all he talks about or most of the time instead of having an actual convo then he's not into you, he's into on what you can GIVE to him.
2.He has a girlfriend. Who he says he doesn't love, but is still with her?
3.He says qoute " He loves you"
4. I've been through this before, and I listened to all his bull shi-. Trust me, its a mess you don't want to get into.
5.He's a cheater, cheat on her, shame on him. Have you ever thought about him cheating on you if you were together. I feel sorry for his girlfriend, she's probably is kept in the dark.
No one likes to be cheated on so think about another person's feelings.
6. And him saying that he'll move to FL.? He's more than likely just saying that.
It's gonna be kind of hard, since you're already swimming in mid- deep water already but its safer to stop yourself now, before you drown yourself in turbulent waters. Stop all communication with him, delete him from you phone or AIM, so you won't get tempted to talk to him again. You don't need this type of guy, he's a user, plus CT. and FL, way tooo far,. Stop yourself before it goes deeper, I wish I would've done it myself, but it was too late for me. And I still have to deal with his g/f and him to this day. You don't want a mess of drama, save yourself from heartache. It'll do you some good. Any girl deserves a guy better than that, it sucks to be second best. Hope I helped. :/
so i use to go out with this guy...he was like my best friend for like 2 years anyways he broke up with me after like 2 weeks cuz he "didnt kno wat to do withhis feelings" after that our friendship hasnt been the same....Theres this other guy who ive liked for 41\2 years and now we are really gettin serious and wanna get together....now my ex decided that he made a mistake and wants me back......I told him that i will always care for him since hes my friend....but i told him i really love this other guy......I think i broke his heart...What should i do?and do i act bitchy towards him....(the ex)
Well don't act bitchy towards him. That will only hurt his feelings even more. But you can talk to him, tell him that he can't just break up with you and then all of the sudden decides he wants you back again. People are not like items in the store. People can't be returned on exchanged.
And also point out when you have a talk with him, those feelings for the other guy, and that now you see him only as a friend. He should've understood when you first told him, but if he still doesn't get the picture the 2nd time around, ignore him or tell him that maybe being friends isn't a good thing for you two since it isn't the same anymore.
But he should just bug off, also pt. out that you just don't like being treated that way, like a rag doll, you can't just throw me out and come back and get it. Tell him, you want what you can't have anymore.
Hope I helped.
okay so one of my friends is always high they smoke all the time its so obvious
but my quesion is "is there anyway to hide the fact that you are high?" if there is a way you would think you would try to hide it right?
15 yrs. brianna
Well when you are "high" people have diffrent behaviors to it, some act crazy some act mellow.
Truth is you can't really hide the fact that you're high. Blood shot eyes and all. Eyedrops, it could help a little.
For the most part, you're either lazy or crazy. But for most people I know, they're lazy, they don't do anything. Some people may people think you're just tired and have a long night. You sleep all day.
You can't really hide your behavior. But you can hide the smell.
Also, it depends on the type of mary j that you're smoking. There's alot, and they all have diffrent effects to your behavior. Marijuana can stay in your body for hours but still depends on the type. Hope I helped.
15/f
my friend, gets picked on by this pink haired goth emo freaks. all the time. their mean to her just because she has blonde hair and blue eyes and she wears abercrombie. she doesnt even know these kids names. & they book her and say mean things to her all the time. i wanna always stand up for her. but i dont. because they all said they wanna kill all the people in school that just look at them the wrong way. so, i dont wanna mess with them.
what should i or my friend do?
These people who are making fun of your friend have a low- self esteem, and they do it probably cause they have been made fun of by other people themselves, so they do it to another person to boost their egos. This really doesn't help that person really, it just shows that they're insecure of themselves or jealous. They're probably intimidated by your friend, maybe really they think she is really pretty but they choose to shoot her down with mean comments.
There is always going to be people in your life and her life as well that is going to be like that. Your best bet, is to ignore it. They'll bug off on due time, try to avoid them. It can be hard at times, but once you do, they'll bug off you.
They said they want to kill ALL the people in the school? that is retarded. But it is a threat, so anonymously tell the teacher or principle. These kind of threats to people can be serious. Even if it is just words, some words mean action. SO tell the principle. Ask them not to tell your name. School should be where kids should be safe and unharmed , not threatened or hurt. Hope I helped :/.