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Question Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 5:10 pm

ok first of i am normally the one giving advice not getting it so

Ok I am what you call an ugly fat girl that has no fashion sence at all

but i have more guy friends then girl friends but i have a problem i know that one of them likes me and has a girlfriend that is one of my friends, and i don't like him, but there is another one that idk if he does or not but i like him and what should i do


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phatdopelove answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:31 pm:
First off, hun on (which I don't know who you are). Why bash yourself with such negative comments? Everybody is pretty in their own ways. Don't believe in such a comment like that, and try not to live on what other people have to say about you, just ignore it. You're pretty in your own way,you can find it in your inner self. You just have to search for it. Confidence is key.

Anyway, onto the "problem". So how do you know if this guy a.1 likes you if he has a girlfriend that just so happens to be one of your friends? Did you actually heat it from him himself?
If so he does like you, and you don't have the same feelings, tell him straight through. You could only be honest, thats the best thing to tell him. Tell him you don't like him like that, if hes friends with you.

And this other guy, GUY B:
you could only ask him Guy B or one of his closest friends to see if he likes you or not.
That's the only way you'll know for sure. Or if your a little shy just ask him (Guy B) who he likes or if he likes anyone, if you don't want to ask guy B try asking one of his closest friends.

That't the only way to know for sure, if he likes you. You wouldn't want to just pursue a person and then find out he doesnt't like you. You'll get hurt. Know the facts first, ask him what he thinks about you. And if he feels the same way, ahh be damn you got yourself a frog prince!, make a move on him. Only time will tell. You'll NEVER know unless you ask! Hope I helped.

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Brandi_S answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:14 pm:
Well, you don't go out with the guy you don't like. That would be pointless.
As for the guy you DO like, take the risk. The risk of rejection is nowhere near as bad as looking back and kicking yourself wondering 'what if'.

ygs-29/f, happily married ugly fat girl with no fashion sense...

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