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my friends frustrate me
Okay two best friends (ill try to keep this short)
Best friend one (Liz we'll call her): Liz is a controlling spoiled rotten selfish brat. She is so much fun to be around but puts me down in the process. Dont say find someone new because everytime I've tried I always go back to her no matter how many times I've gotten stepped on in the past. Its something that I cannot help and I dont know what to do
Best friend two (Kim well call her): Kim is smart and nice. She plays soccer with us and we get along. Sometimes she is too into her boyfriend but that isnt even half it. She gets everything too, but by this i mean recognition... we both got nominated for an honors society... I take much harder classes and do more community service and yet she gets in and im rejected. We both play soccer and she gets all the awards and accelades when I know I am equal or better than her (people have literally come up and said that I am and that it isnt fair).. I know we arent competing but how does she get everything.
I am on the point of a breakdown and I dont know what to do please help me I am so frustrated/hurt/done with it
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I know exactly how you feel! Well if I were you I would speak up and tell them how you feel and hopefully they will understand. And if they don't then they really aren't your friend. Hope this helped a bit!
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Well, you can either find new friends, or accept the faults/annoyances they have.
If your friend Liz is rude to you, you need to step up and tell her you don't want to be treated that way.
If Kim excels where you don't, congratulate her and move on from it. Strive to be better next time.
That's really all you can do. All through life you will have friends who are annoying, who do things better, etc.
Stop driving yourself mad about it.
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