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What should i do??
so i use to go out with this guy...he was like my best friend for like 2 years anyways he broke up with me after like 2 weeks cuz he "didnt kno wat to do withhis feelings" after that our friendship hasnt been the same....Theres this other guy who ive liked for 41\2 years and now we are really gettin serious and wanna get together....now my ex decided that he made a mistake and wants me back......I told him that i will always care for him since hes my friend....but i told him i really love this other guy......I think i broke his heart...What should i do?and do i act bitchy towards him....(the ex)
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Well I say,
If you really like this "new guy" then go for it.. besides you said that your ex always breaks up with you after two weeks anyways. Plus you wouldn't want to go back out with him cause you feel sorry you broke his heart cause that would just make you unhappy.. just sit down and talk to your ex and tell him that you want to just be friends for a while, and if you break up with the other guy you'll see where it goes from there.
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Well don't act bitchy towards him. That will only hurt his feelings even more. But you can talk to him, tell him that he can't just break up with you and then all of the sudden decides he wants you back again. People are not like items in the store. People can't be returned on exchanged.
And also point out when you have a talk with him, those feelings for the other guy, and that now you see him only as a friend. He should've understood when you first told him, but if he still doesn't get the picture the 2nd time around, ignore him or tell him that maybe being friends isn't a good thing for you two since it isn't the same anymore.
But he should just bug off, also pt. out that you just don't like being treated that way, like a rag doll, you can't just throw me out and come back and get it. Tell him, you want what you can't have anymore.
Hope I helped.
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Duh! act mean to your ex! Go out with the other guy! make your ex mad and jealous ! who cares if you broke your ex's heart ! i know i don't feel sorry for your ex! hahaha LOL any ways please try this and please email me or give me a message or a feedback of how it work! Also, if you have any other question please feel free to ask i really don't care i love answering question from people! from RjRamos :)
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