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why do you have to be so mean?
15/f
my friend, gets picked on by this pink haired goth emo freaks. all the time. their mean to her just because she has blonde hair and blue eyes and she wears abercrombie. she doesnt even know these kids names. & they book her and say mean things to her all the time. i wanna always stand up for her. but i dont. because they all said they wanna kill all the people in school that just look at them the wrong way. so, i dont wanna mess with them.
what should i or my friend do?
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Tell i mean Tell your parents and your friends parents what those goth girls are doing to your friend!!!!! hope this works so please always ask RjRamos!!
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These people who are making fun of your friend have a low- self esteem, and they do it probably cause they have been made fun of by other people themselves, so they do it to another person to boost their egos. This really doesn't help that person really, it just shows that they're insecure of themselves or jealous. They're probably intimidated by your friend, maybe really they think she is really pretty but they choose to shoot her down with mean comments.
There is always going to be people in your life and her life as well that is going to be like that. Your best bet, is to ignore it. They'll bug off on due time, try to avoid them. It can be hard at times, but once you do, they'll bug off you.
They said they want to kill ALL the people in the school? that is retarded. But it is a threat, so anonymously tell the teacher or principle. These kind of threats to people can be serious. Even if it is just words, some words mean action. SO tell the principle. Ask them not to tell your name. School should be where kids should be safe and unharmed , not threatened or hurt. Hope I helped :/.
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It's one thing to bully people, but it's another to threaten people's lives. There isn't anything you can your friend can do, as far as dealing with them personally - you and your friend need to go to the principal's office and let he/she know what's going on. If you're worried that the principal will tell you and your friends' names, then all you have to do is tell he/she to keep your names anonymous, and the principal will do that.
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hey. Thanks for posting.
If these pink haired kids are threatening to kill people, then the situation is way out of your hands. In school you or your friends shouldn't feel scared or thretened. School is supposted to be a safe place for everyone. I know that in high school, (assuming that you are from your age) "snitching" is not considered cool. I'm not telling you that you should tattle tale, but you really do need to get a parent or teacher's help. You don't want to get yourself hurt and you seem to be a true friend. If you want to help your frined, help her tell her parents and get something settled out.
good luck!
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