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Question Posted Monday November 19 2007, 1:07 pm

my friend (we'll call her B) really likes this boy (we'll call him C) but he doesn't like her. like at all. B hasn't exactly been the best friend in the world right now (quite frankly she's been a total bitch) and she's backstabbed me before. the other day she used one of her s/n's to try to get C's out of one of his friends. the bad part of this: she said she was ME. without my permission. i, naturally, got totally pissed off && wanted to punch her in the face. now, i kinda sorta like C. so, should i date him if he were to ask me? not as payback at B but b/c i actually like the kid. he's funny, who wouldn't? so, the question is, should i date him and watch B crash && burn (and quite frankly not care at all) or let her go on trying to get him when he doesn't like her && let her find that out for herself. please help!

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Professor_Kaos answered Tuesday November 20 2007, 1:32 pm:
Is the friendship you have with the girl worth keeping? If you really want to keep it then you can't go after the boy. Otherwise, sure go for it. Do keep this in mind though. Since she is/was your friend, she can make your life a living hell. She already knows your s/n's. She probably knows things about you that you don't want to get out. You can expect these things to be known if you go out with him. There is a cost to going out with him. You don't really seem to have any emotional ties to the girl though. Which in that case, I say sure go out with him.

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Shellaria answered Tuesday November 20 2007, 12:05 pm:
If i where you I would defintaly date him and you can see your friend crash and burn and get the guy you want. you get two things at once!

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