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my friend (we'll call her B) really likes this boy (we'll call him C) but he doesn't like her. like at all. B hasn't exactly been the best friend in the world right now (quite frankly she's been a total bitch) and she's backstabbed me before. the other day she used one of her s/n's to try to get C's out of one of his friends. the bad part of this: she said she was ME. without my permission. i, naturally, got totally pissed off && wanted to punch her in the face. now, i kinda sorta like C. so, should i date him if he were to ask me? not as payback at B but b/c i actually like the kid. he's funny, who wouldn't? so, the question is, should i date him and watch B crash && burn (and quite frankly not care at all) or let her go on trying to get him when he doesn't like her && let her find that out for herself. please help! (link)
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If i where you I would defintaly date him and you can see your friend crash and burn and get the guy you want. you get two things at once!
~Shellaria*~
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my best friend just recently moved away to N.C. && i miss her. A LOT. we were like sisters, the ones that get along, inseperable. && ever since she left, i've felt kind of....off. i dont feel right. i cant focus anymore either. i honestly couldnt tell you what i learned in class 10 mins ago or what someone was telling/whining about 30 seconds ago. i'm trying to convince my parents to let me go up there to see her for the holidays, but i dont think they want me to go. i also feel like nobody cares about me or my feelings anymore. they just want to talk about them and their problems and i just wanna scream at them I DONT CARE. im also starting to hate myslef and think that i'd be better off if i wasnt here. and everyone seems to act like they would be happier if i wasnt around. i dont think im suicidal just a little depressed. can anyone please, please help me get out of this funk im in? im confused and honestly have no idea what to do anymore. please help. (link)
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well you should make a new friend like some one you dont know very well and you can spend more time with them and some how come out of your depressed stage and you can be bffs pick some one thats not so self-centeredand, can really listen to you, and will be like a new sister.
hopes it helps
Shellaria
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ive been with my boyfriend for about 9 months and in the beggining i really didnt tell my paretns cause i didnt know how they were going to react to it. Now they found out and give me nothnig but a hard time about it. They like him and all and let me see him when i want but i hate hearing bout it afterwards. I really dont know what to do. i love him but im so sick of hearing it from my parents =\ (link)
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well i would just tell them off. usually when that happens to me its at my dads house and i just go up to my room and that would make my dad feel bad and then he wont do it anymore. So try that. Oh when theyre giving you crap just make it seem like it doesnt even bother you and just dont talk to them.
Hope it helps
luv
~*Shelaria*~
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Yesterday i tryed to pop a pimple and couldnt adn today it has turned purple! How can i get it back to normal color FAST!? like within 3 days! Thank you, any help is appriciated (link)
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well i think you should just leave it alone. Mabey wash your face more often or put some zit remover on. but i dont know if that would help cuz i never heard of them turning purple before.
Hope it helps!
luv
~*Shellaria*~
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I have to get something as a birthday present for my 10 year old cousin, but i have no idea what they like or what they want. (link)
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Well, you can never go wrong with money. But if its a girl mabey get her some clothes on make up or jewelry,something like that.Mabey virtual pets like littlest pet shop or tomagotchi,for guys probably video games or guy stuff like a skateboard. But it really depends on there personality so you know them better than i do, you could always ask there parents.
Hope this helps!
luv
~*Shellaria*~
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ok my friends having a sweet 16 this saterday, and ive never been to one before. im kinda nervous because i dont really like partys, just because i get nervous and cant dance :S but anyway, i have NO idea what to get her!!! some ideas PLEASE!! and what do you wear to a sweet 16? do you have to dress up to all of them? but i really need help with the whole gift thing.
thanks xxx (link)
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well im only 13 but i think you should where what ever you want unless some one tells you differently. Ask some friends of you friend what she/he would want for her birthday and ask your friend what to where(just incase!)
Hope this helps!
luv
~*Shellaria*~
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my parents are giving me the opportunity to take music lessons. my options are guitar (acoustic or electric) or piano. the thing about piano is i took lessons from when i was 7-11. and my brother is studying to be a piano teacher in college, and he really wants me to take piano. when he comes home on the weekends, he gives me random ben folds songs or classical pieces to play. then the next weekend, he expects me to have them memorized.. i don't want to let him down so i try to work on them. so i'm decent at the piano, but i REALLY want to play the guitar. so i'm in between.
PLEASE help mee?
personal experiences,
like you took piano or w/e
thanks in advance
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well, tell your brother that you want to play the piano with him every weekend but you want to start guitar lessons and he needs to take some pressure off you about memorizing them all. But that youll still practice the piano for the next time he comes. since you know how to play the piano i think you should take guitar.
Hope this helps!
luv,
~*Shellaria*~
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hey. i have a bit of an interesting situation going on. i hadn't heard from my boyfriend in a couple of days, so i was a little worried. but, he texted me saying that he was very sorry, it was just that his grandmother was in the hospital and he was having a hard time and kind of went into a coop, which is something he tends to do when he worries, he hides in his shell. but, just yesturday, i was in the hospital, and i had spent the night before there with the IV, and I was feeling so bad because I hadn't heard from him and I didn't want to call him crying about me being there either. but, i don't want to sound greedy by telling him that he has to communicate with me, because he didn't know that I was in the hospital too, and I felt really bad in that hospital, not having heard from him, or him having been there, you know what I mean? but, i feel really bad for the grandmother, because she's so sweet, and I don't want to sound greedy, like I'm the only one who should have his attention. I just feel like I was put to the side, which I know he didn't mean to do, I really don't want a lecture on that right now. but, i know how he gets with this. he doesn't deal with these types of things well. i'm even thinking it's better if he were to find out through someone else about the hospital, instead of me, you know? can anyone give me some advice here? (link)
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I dont think he should hear from someone else.Its better if he hears it from you cuz if he hears it from someone else then he'll get mad at you for not telling him but you dont also want to call him right away. wait tell he calls you so you know he has been feeling better about his grandmother. Then after small talk say "I have to tell you something, but i dont want to put pressure on you or anything" and he'll say something and then you tell him. then tell him to not worry about you. Dont put so much pressure on him. Hope i helped
luv
~*Shellaria*~
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hey.
i have some trouble reading. like, i read, but i don't retain. the only time i retain is when i am in love with the book. when i read, i start thinking about other stuff & i can't concentrate on the book. i try to "picture" it in my head, but it doesn't help much. i really want to start reading more.
i read in a quiet, well-lit comfortable [but not TOO comfortable] area.
do you have any tips, please?
i need advice on how to get the BIG picture. i pick up all the little unnecessary details, but i don't get the big picture. i've tried reading paragraphs, even chapters at a time & asking myself, "what did i just read?" but i just have trouble retaining.
i'm pretty sure i don't have like, a learning deficiency because when i really like a book, i understand it completely. but for the books that are manditory for school, etc. i need help.
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Try reading out loud and jot down some notes, like if its for school. If its for school then read a paragraph and write down the most important thing about it,thats what my teacher tells us to do. It helps us on tests too. soooooo...... yah, just write stuff down that seems important. And if its not for school and its just for fun then pick books that seem exciting to you, cuz if your bored your never gonna get the big picture. hope this helps!
luv
~*Shellaria*~
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okay so lately my confidence has been dropping more and more. and i just feel like people keep saying crap about me and stuff. and like i always feel like people are staring at me when im walking down the street. and i feel really ugly and fat. so now ive ended up being bulimic and i cut and i pop pills. i dont know what to do though cause i cant tell my parents. and i keep looking for a boyfriend and i cant get one so it makes me feel worse cause i feel like no one wants me. so please help me (link)
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I think you shouldnt care what any one thinks cuz if they dont like you then there not for you and some one special will finally come around and youll be happy but until that happens stop abusing yourself and go on a healthy diet or something. Look up on the internet stuff like "How to lose weight fast" and read some articals. Im on a diet too and my cousin told me about a diet that you lose 20 lbs in a week just by making smoothies for every meal made of nothing but fruits and veggies. I am not doing that cuz it doesnt sound healthy but i am doing the hard way and eating when i absolutly have to like usually i just eat when im bored and when its a certain time and that was my problem. You never want to be dangerous with yourself.
luv
~*Shellaria*~
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