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im going crazy
my best friend just recently moved away to N.C. && i miss her. A LOT. we were like sisters, the ones that get along, inseperable. && ever since she left, i've felt kind of....off. i dont feel right. i cant focus anymore either. i honestly couldnt tell you what i learned in class 10 mins ago or what someone was telling/whining about 30 seconds ago. i'm trying to convince my parents to let me go up there to see her for the holidays, but i dont think they want me to go. i also feel like nobody cares about me or my feelings anymore. they just want to talk about them and their problems and i just wanna scream at them I DONT CARE. im also starting to hate myslef and think that i'd be better off if i wasnt here. and everyone seems to act like they would be happier if i wasnt around. i dont think im suicidal just a little depressed. can anyone please, please help me get out of this funk im in? im confused and honestly have no idea what to do anymore. please help.
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You can try what the other person said- find a new best friend. But the problem here is- a lot of people misunderstand this part and think that they are supposed to find a replacement. Just think to yourself- there is no one in the entire world who will replace your best friend.
To get over that whole, "nobody cares about me, they are happier without me near them etc." just do this-
When someone is always talking about them... say "Wait a minute, wait a minute... I hear something... " and they say "what?" and you say "the sound of me not caring!" and turn around a leave.
What helps me get over anger is working out. I know it sounds corny, but whenever I get mad, I go in my garage and start boxing on our boxing bag. Or i'll just lift weights, go biking around the neighborhood or run with my ipod. If you can't handle this... take someone that you are close with and ask them if you can vent out your feeling s in front of them. Then take that person somewhere quiet and just start venting out your feelings. If you feel like you need to cry, go ahead and cry! just let go of your feelings inside and you'll feel better.
Maybe what will help is take everything that reminds you of your best friend and take about an hour and just look through those things. It will help you remember her more and help you not feel so bad.
As for the holiday trip, try to earn your parents trust by doing something nice for them. Clean the house and get them to notice you. Say you can even help pay the price.
I wish you luck!
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well you should make a new friend like some one you dont know very well and you can spend more time with them and some how come out of your depressed stage and you can be bffs pick some one thats not so self-centeredand, can really listen to you, and will be like a new sister.
hopes it helps
Shellaria
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