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give up or no?
heyy ok i really like this boy and he likes me but wants to keep it a secret for now...also he says it might become something more but he doesnt know what he wants yet. since new years is coming up should i give him until then to make up his mind and start frsh or just keep waiting. it hurts soo much to wait but i really really like this boy. please help!
thank you
jess
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No girl should ever have to wait around for a guy like that. Vice versa.
If he likes you and has every intention of being with you but just needs a LITTLE bit of time, fair enough - give him that time.
but the worrying thing here is he wants to keep it a secret. Why? There's more to this than you think.
If I were you, I'd give him an ultimatum. Tell him you're willing to wait until new year, or whenever you feel comfortable with. After that if he hasn't come up with a decision, yes it's obviously going to be hard, but you need to do the decent thing and move on, because it sounds like he has no idea what he wants. You shouldn't be stuck in the middle because of that.
I hope things work out how you want them to, though.
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i was put into almost the same situation
but if he truely does like you then he would want to tell the world...
and he wouldnt make you wait a long time...
it took me 6 months to relize that and i feel in love but then i got my heart broken and it still hasnt been repaired after all this time...
soo what im saying is that if your willing to deal with all the pain in the end then wait for him but if you know you to wont have a future together and you know you can find someone else then tell him that its now or never...
i know its hard to decide but its a decision you have to make
i wish you the best
good luck !
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Ask yourself this question.
If he likes you, why would he want to keep that a secret? Is he hiding something? You may want to check up on this guy first, see if he's hiding something.
If he isn't, then give this guy a while to think it up, if he doesn't come around anytime you want him to, then it'd be safe if leave and just forget him. Girls want a guy who KNOWS what he wants, and will take charge to get what he wants. That's the type of guy I would want. Not someone who isn't sure. A guy who doesn't know what he wants is immature, and obviously not ready for you. You want somebody who is ready.
But, if you really want this kid, wait a while to see what will happen (I'd say a week), and if he doesn't come around move on. Hope I helped.
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You can't wait on someone forever. Any respectable guy won't expect you to, either.
Tell him that he has until New Year's to figure out what he wants.
ygs-29/f
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dont just wait till new years what longer than that but if another boy asks you out you can say yes because its just a date its nothin serius its just a date so i would wait a little longer than just new years good luck with this boy hope i helped
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