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Regret
I have a really good guy friend. I like him as more than a friend. He has a girlfriend. Me and him have been hanging out a lot, but the other day I was in a bad mood, and he didn't do anything wrong(actually, he was being amazingly sweet), but I guess I was stressed out about a lot of stuff, and I was tired of watching him be with another girl, so I said some mean things to him, and yet he was still nice, and then I got meaner. Then he kinda ignored me. Now we talked a little, and he says he's nit mad, but he's not talking to me much, and he doesn't seem to care about me like he did. I think he's still mad and I want to make it up to him. A friend thought New Years would be a good time for all of us to get together and have fun again.
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yeah new years would be a good time. but next time think about what you say before you say it because it can make a huge diffrence =] hope this helps
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Wow. Your story was amazingly ALOT similar to mine, but mine happened a week ago.
I'd say give it some time, he'll come around, yall are still friends, so he's likely to come around when assumingly knows when you're ready to talk to him. Or if he doesn't, go up to him yourself, apologize and explain that you've been just so stressed lately and that you're sorry for taking it out on him and you didn't mean to. Hopefully, he excepts your apology. But if he doesn't still give it some time, he'll come around still.
EXTRA TIP: With your apology maybe, give him a gift. It doesn't have to be expensive at all. Like a food you know he likes lol (I did it) he was so stoked. ALSO: With you liking him and all, maybe you should tell him how you feel. You never know, you know? Don't let words be unspoken. Hope I helped and good luck! & have a Happy New Year :)
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I think that's a great idea. You should take him aside and just say that you've been stressed out a lot lately and you did not mean to take it out on him at all. Tell him you've been going through a stressfull patch in your life but you had no intentions to take it out on him. If he excepts your apology then great, if it takes him a bit of time to think things through, than let him, give him all the time he needs. Show him that you care by just apologizing and giving a good explanation behind it.
Always here,
<Guidance Girl>
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I've been in this situation before and it's not nice. I told the guy how i really felt and that i couldn't live knowing that he had someone else other than me ( i know, stupid right?). But, i think you need to be good friends again for it to work (tell him how you feel), so just generally be nice, chatty etc. And i agree with your friend, DEFINATLY GET TOGETHER AND BECOME FRIENDS AGAIN AT NEW YEARS.
Hope i helped. :) x
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