okay i am like so sick of where i live. the people, the things, the places, EVERYTHING. i just hate it. i want to move farrr away from here. i hate winter. i want to move to like florida or cali or something. what can i do? im only fifteen.
xY0M0MMAx answered Monday December 31 2007, 3:00 pm: Ah.
Felt the same way before. =]
Alot.
Okay, so this is gonna really suck to hear, but there`s nothing you can really do. If you feel this strongly, maybe you can bring it up with your parents. Nothing bad could happen from that, right? Just don`t lose your temper, act serious about it, & try & show them that this is something that`s very important to you. Every parent wants what`s best for their child, don`t they?
Hmm. It sounds like you`re very, very, very, VERY bored. Haha, how about going to the movies? Going bowling? Going to the mall? Go to a spa? Get your nails done? Just pick a day -- saturday probably will work best -- & go out with a group of friends, by yourself, your family, or whoever you want every week & do something like that. Or just go for a walk every other day, cause that reduces stress & it`s at least something to do.
At school, try & find a new group of friends. Just look for a group of people who look like they`d care about you, have fun, & are actually nice, normal people. Trust me, there`s at least one group you can find. You can never have to many friends, & people are always looking for more, so I bet they`d love to have you as their friend. Or you could always join a club at school or something? =]
LiSaxOBaBii answered Monday December 31 2007, 2:46 pm: We all feel this way at some point.
I have lived in Florida for sixteen years and I'm still here, but yea...
realistically you do not know all the people and you're pretty much just bored of what you already know. Find a way to meet new people. Getting a job helps. Good luck, this is only a phase. [ LiSaxOBaBii's advice column | Ask LiSaxOBaBii A Question ]
phatdopelove answered Monday December 31 2007, 12:24 pm: Well I hate to break it to you, but when you're your age and still live with your parents, you're gonna have stay where you are until you hit 18.
Some of these places that you think about living, have you been there to actually say you WANT to live there? I live in Florida, but it's not always that great. I'm 17 wanting to get out of Florida, but I can't do much about that until I turn 18 or go off to college. I want to live in NYC but I haven't been there to actually say I'd love to live there.
For you (and for most kids), unfortunately we have stay where your parent/gaurdian goes. Usually and likely thats where they found a good job and like to stay there for awhile or maybe until they decide to retire and get their (Social Security/ S.S.)
But this maybe an option if your parents approve. If you have an aunt/uncle and they say you can live with them for awhile. Then MAYBE you could go live with them for awhile, if your parents approve.
But for your age, it's unlikely for you to go anyplace without your parents naturally until you hit 18. When you hit 18, your an young adult. And after that you have control of your own life. You've got 3 more years! It won't be long until you hit 18! Your in highschool right? Those years go by fast like flying colors ;) Good luck and I hope this helps, and have a HAPPY NEW YEAR! ;) [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday December 31 2007, 11:20 am: Well, there really isn't anything you can do unless your parents decide to move to someplace warm.
I know it doesn't help now, but one day, you won't hate where you live. I used to hate where I live, too, but it is home. I wouldn't trade it for the world.
You may go off to college in some warm, far away land, but I promise you will miss home and love it when you return.
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