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ok i think im kind of bi but im not really sure and to afraid to say anything to anyone, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that gay people are gross and if i was ever gay that he wouldnt like it because he wouldnt want me to leave him for a girl but i told him i wouldnt if i was gay but he said it would still be gross....and on top of that almost all people i hang around with are gay,but i cant even tell them or anything because they consider me there "straight" friend...and they would all think its probably weird also if i said anything...what should i do??? (link)
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Don't tell anyone if you don't want to. Wait until you feel comfortable, which I don't see why you can't tell your already gay friends.
-Brianna
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Hi guyz, i was just wondering if it was true that if you have some kindof weird shape mole that means you have cancer, cuz thats what my friend told me and she is really afraid cuz she says she has a weird shaped mole.
Is it true?
~Steph~ (link)
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Yea and if it is like two different colors and if it hurts when you touch it!
-Brianna
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my friend "Tori" found out that the boy I have a crush on Liked me back but now everyone is saying he lik-ed me. But she found out recntly that he thinks I am cute. if he thinks I am cute and liked me does that mean he stil likes me?
if I guy thinks ur cute and states it to a bunch of other guys does that mean he thinks she is cute or he likes her (link)
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It could mean both. Ask him if he just thinks your cute or if he likes you. People could just be lieing and he may like you!
-Brianna
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The inside corner of my left eye is very red and bloodshot looking. Its itchy and sometimes it hurts. There is this white colored puss that shows up on the corner of my eye and I really don't know what's wrong. I wear contacts and I change them regularly. I don't know what the problem could be. Does anyone know what is wrong with my eye? It's not pink eye because I've had that before and I know what it's like. (link)
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You could have an infection because of your contacts. Or, you may have popped a blood vessel or something. Try putting eyedrops in. If that doesn't work, go to a doctor!
-Brianna
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Hi im Jess i love soccer very much and i enjoy it until my coaches ruin it. If i make one little mistake they yell alot. I hate when they do that because im having a great time until they come along and ruin it what can i do to avoid their annoyance to me. thx i rate high
love Jess (link)
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When they yell, take it as an experience to learn. Obviously you are making a mistake if they are yelling, so take it as a learning experience. Don't take it like they are trying to ruin your fun!
-Brianna
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hi im Jess for some may know but when i run i get tired very easily and i get a cramp fast how can i avoid these problems thx i rate high.
Love Jess (link)
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Start out small. Don't run too fast and too much. Your body isn't used to it. Start off slow! Also, be sure not to eat like prior to running, that can give you cramps too!
-Brianna
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I'm trying out for the JV Cheerleading team for my freshman year on Monday. I'm really nervous and I wanted to know if theres anything you should really know. I was just wondering if there was anything specific. Good advice means a good rating. :) (link)
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Remember to be loud, smile BIG the WHOLE time, make sure your movements are precise (not flopping around like jelly, lol), and make sure you aren't that nervous for tryouts. You will be more likely to mess up if you are nervous! GOod luck.
-Brianna
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Hey1 I've been with my boyfriend for a bout 4 months now and his birthday is coming up. I don't have much cash, but I want to get him a gift he'll love. Does anyone have ideas of gifts or nice plances to get a boyfriend a gift? (link)
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Get him cologne (if he wears cologne), a watch, a chain necklace thing. That's all I can think of, sorry! GOod luck.
-Brianna
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ok. so i go to lake bluff central school and i really like this boy. he knows from AIM but i can't seem to find out if he likes me or not. i mean in gym he always looks at me but when i turn he always looks away. we talk a lot on AIM about a ton of stuff like school, sports...ect. I just can't seem to talk to him on a regular basis. I mean the only thing i can say to him when he's around his friends is hi. the other day on a school trip my best friend and i had to sit with him because there were no more seeats on the bus. My bf made me sit next to him. we talked a lot on the bus ride home and that was really the first time i had ever really talked to him. Now i always say hi to him. but i still can't find out who he likes. i mean everyone asks him but he never tells. I guess my question is how can i start talking to him more when he's around his friends and do you have any idea how to find out who he likes without torturing him?
from please help me
P.S.can you teach me some ways of flirting without tallking to him? I rate high for good advice! (link)
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Hey, you can always tell him that you like him. Maybe he is just one of those guys that are afraid of being rejected so won't tell a girl he likes her until she tells him first. Just talk to him like his friends aren't there. Now, for flirting with him without talking - make eye contact with him. Smile alot. Twirl your hair. That's all I can think of. Hope I have helped and good luck!
-Brianna
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I like this guy named patrick, but im not shure if he likes me. we talk a lot though, like at school and stuff. what should i do? (link)
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Flirt with him, be nice to him. Just let him know you like him. Tell him you like him. Maybe he feels the same way and is just shy to tell you first. Good luck!
-Brianna
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okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you
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Wow! If it scares you that much, tell your mom. Maybe you can get a restraint order. That is harassment. He could just be like in love with you, but that can get out of hand and he could get possessive. Just give it some time, and if he gets worse (like acting more creepy) deff. tell your mom or someone! Good luck and stay safe!
-Brianna
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ok so heres my problem- i went out with this guy a couple of months ago and we only went out for like 2 months but i'm still not over him! im so in love with him! but i also think i'm in love with my best friend(hes a guy). we are soo close but i really think i love him. but my other best friend(whos a girl) also likes him a TON! but he deosn't like her.she doesn't know i like him but i'm just so confused with what to do. cause a lot of people say he likes me but i dont wanna be mean and go out with him. so i really have no idea what to do! help me PLEASE! (link)
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Okay, you are in a sticky situation. You like two guys, and you like the guy that your best friend likes. Go for who you like more. YOu will just have to explain to your friend that you can't help who you like and you aren't suppose to. I am sure she will get over the fact that you like the other guy.
-Brianna
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Well, my B-day is exactly one month from now(may 21st) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of kinds of (inexpensive) guy-girl parties. I was thinkin of a kind of message thing with the clues where you have to find them and then they lead you somewhere, but i dunno. I live right next door to a school where there is a soccer/baseball/hardtop. Any suggestions? I rate HIGH! Thanks!
xoxo (link)
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If you have a pool, have a pool party. Scavenger hunts, you can play soccer, or even make up your own games. Have fun.
-Brianna
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how do you become out goin? i mean im really out going and funny when i get to kno someone really well. but its realy hard for me to just meet someone and hit it off right away. what are some things you say to like a cute boy you see at the mall or someone you see that looks like alot of fun and want to talk to? (link)
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Just be yourself. Be confident when you are talking to them. But deff. don't go over board and talk to much and tell to much about yourself the first time. Have fun.
-Brianna
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There is a small group of about 4 families and we usually have these dinner get-togethers on weekends sometimes. They're usually pretty boring for me because all the kids are guys, and they're all about 4 years older than me (I'm 13/f by the way). It's our turn to have one this weekend, the 29th, and on the same day is my friend's pool party, one of the best parties of the year and me and my friends go every time. Of course I wouldn't mind skipping this get-together for the party, but it just happeneds to be my mom's birthday the same day, so we're atchually inviting a lot of families, some including a few of my friends. I was planning on leaving my house at 9 (they usually last from about 7-12am) and going to the party, but I don't want to leave my friends hanging, and I know it'll be boring for them if I leave. I don't think I can take them to the party because they go to different schools and they're definatly not the type who will like this kind of party (trust me). I know it sounds selfish, but I REALLY want to go to this party, I haven't done much for the past few weekends. Sorry this is so long, but Which one should I go to? (link)
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Hey talk to your mom about it. Tell her that you really want to go and your sorry that it's the same night as the other get together and her birthday. Also, tell her that you and your friends always go to these and its alot more fun than the parties you have on the weekends. I am sure she will understand!
-Brianna
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i am a 14/f and there is this boy that lives down the street from me that is a couple of years older than me and i really like him and want to get to know him better. Everytime that i am outside practicing volleyball he drives by and will wave but he never has said anything to me at all. What should i do to catch his eye? i really want to get to know him and he seems like a great guy to hang out with even if all we become is good friends. Please help me! Thanks! (link)
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Walk down the street or something and if he is outside say hi to him or start talking to him. That is all. Or, you can go tanning in your front yard. Lol, that will get his attention!
-Brianna
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okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
thanks!~ (link)
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Hey, there is nothing wrong with you. There are people that don't have boyfriends and they're like 16. Don't worry about it! You will someday.
-Brianna
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How do i bring it up to her? How do i start a casual conversation with her and mention that i'm prolly going to be going out with him in less than a week?
(you can just IM me at horsesare666es if u wish, nstead of doing the lil reply thingy..) (link)
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I'll IM you!
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Theres this one guy at mi school and his name is anthony and we talk all the time and like we can talk about like anything and there was a dance and like i broke mi ankle so i cant dance and i really wanted to dance with him... should i ask him out and how? Thanx! =O)
*inlove + confussed (link)
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Yea, if you really like him, then why not!. Good luck! =)
-Brianna
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I am African-American/Japanese and the guys that I am normally into are white skater types. Nobody I've ever really liked has liked me back, and I've been told it's because I'm too shy. Is it really because I'm too shy or is it because of race? Do guys really think about race? (link)
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It could be both. Yea, some guys are shallow about that kind of stuff. Those are what we call assholes! Just flirt with them and let them know you like them. I bet some of them do like you, you just don't think so. Or, maybe THEY are to shy to tell you. Hope I have helped!
-Brianna
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