Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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My boyfriend and I's 1st anniversary is coming up soon and as a gift I want to come up with 365 reasons why I love him. I currently have a list of 267 reasons but I have writers block. I know there are countless reasons why I love him and I'm probably just not thinking of them. So if you could come up with creative reasons why you love someone(can be your significant other, family member, friend, etc) it may jog my brain to think of others.
These are what I currently have(I can't list them all):
You’re cute
You’re hot
You’re sexy
You’re attractive
You make me smile
You make me happy
You make me laugh
You love me for me
You try your best to make me feel better about myself
You always compliment me
You care about me
You give me back massages
You watch TV shows that you don’t like just because I like them
You’re honest
You’re loyal
You’re trustworthy
You don’t judge me
Your opinion about me never changes
You’re always there for me
You take me mini golfing
You take me to the movies
You take me to Ruby Tuesday
You take me to Dairy Queen
You share things with me
You let me keep clothes of yours you no longer want
You’re my best friend
You spend my birthday showering me with gifts and different things to do
You’re nice
You’re sweet
You watch kids movies with me
Helping me with chores
Chauffeuring me around when I need it
Being patient with me when I get annoying
The way you smell
Cute text messages you send me
Telling me randomly that you love me
Taking care of me in times of need
Your smile
Your eyes
Your hair
For being cuddly
Your big strong arms
Always hugging me even though I ask for one every 2 minutes
The way you make me smile after every kiss
For trusting me
For letting me help you
For forgiving me when I forget things
For remembering when our anniversaries are
For not pressuring me into having sex when I don’t feel like it
For just being a good guy all around
For your sense of humor
For worrying about me even when I don't worry about myself
For helping me clean up
For listening to me
Knowing you’re mine- forever
For cooking for me
How we joke about stuff
For calling me your baby
For calling me honeybee
The gifts you give me that I don’t deserve
Not forgetting my birthday
Making sure I get up to go to class
Your personality
You're respectful
You don’t pressure me to do things you know I don’t want to
Your piercings
Your facial hair
You play with my hair
You sing and play songs for me guitar
You write songs about me
You’re fine with hanging out with your friends with me around
Because you love cats and dogs as much as I do
You accept my relationship with Kona
You treat me well
You’re creative
You’re ability to make up songs on the spot
You’re my soul mate
You bring out the best in me
You’re my everything
You’re the last person I want to see before I fall asleep
You’re the first person I want to see when I wake up
You always reassure me even when you already have a million times before
You love me even despite my flaws
We can have fun doing absolutely nothing
You get me flowers
You’re always on my mind
You’re adventuresome and like to try new things
You have your own opinions
You have a variety of interests
How you randomly dance while cooking
How I feel complete when you hold me in my arms
How we make a great team
Our bodies just seem to fit perfectly together
How you let me accidentally fall asleep on you
You tell me you miss me
How you hold my hand
The way you touch me
Your voice
That you can sing
That you can play guitar
Your confidence
I can’t stay mad at you
Your lips
Your little nose
You’ll drive hours just to come see me
You immediately apologize after you hurt my feelings
Your intelligence
How you randomly kiss me on the cheek or forehead
You know exactly where I’m ticklish
You know more about me than anyone else
Your laugh
You can always cheer me up
You give me advice
Your mine
Even when I’m in a bad mood you still love me
You make me feel like I never have before
You make my heart skip a beat
You’re irresistible
You’re likeable
You’re lovable
You tell me what I say in my sleep the next day
You support me
You’re a great motivator
You encourage me
You correct me grammatically
You’re willing to try new things
You make me feel wanted
You’re my heart
You always say what I need to hear
You have taught me the true meaning of love
You tell me what you really think, even though I may not agree
Your love for me is a natural anti-depressant
You do things to specifically make me happy
You’re my movie buddy
We have our own TV shows we always watch together
You make my days better
You’re my sunshine
You’re my wittle lion king
You sleep with me
You don’t mind that I talk in my sleep
You make me feel safe
You mean the world to me
Your small gestures speak volumes about how much you care
You treasure the gifts that I give you
You’re my little spaceheater (link)
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I don't think ANYONE is going to read all of this; its ALOT.
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE your idea! I would've never thought of it;
Try looking on google? I scammed through it, and looked at a few of them; and honestly, NO ONE will be able to tell you what to write; because we don't know how amazingly you feel for him, ya know?
I can help you a little bit;
do you guys have an inside jokes? Is there a way he looks at you that drives you wild? how about a favorite place he kisses you? or a certain way he holds you? think back on the FIRST day you laid eyes on him; what ran through your head?
does he surprise you with sweet texts,f lowers, gifts, ect?
does he smell good? his hair? does he shave? does he do certain things to make you giggle?
WHAT DOES HE DO THAT MAKES YOU LVOE HIM?
After 365 days you love how in love you STILL are with him;
that would be cute?
I'm not too sure; I'd scam over google, that ALWAYS helps me remember things about my fiance'.
Good luck! He should feel pretty lucky to have someone like you to go through all this trouble!
:)
Happy Anniversary!
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There's this guy, who moved to my school not long ago. We started talking as friends and we exchanged numbers, we still continued to talk as friends until our conversations got abit more flirty, he would call me “princess” he basically made me feel really special. I started to really like him, so I told him. His repsonse was “I'm too busy for this” and when I asked him what it meant he would say “I'm just too busy for all this, I can't be bothered” so I was left confused, he told me to meet him to speak face to face but then said something came up. I left it for about 2 weeks, then I sent him another message, asking him why he had made me feel special and then just dropped me all of a sudden and how much he meant to me. He replied with “I feel the same, we should be together” I replied saying “I really want to, but I'm scared” obviously I was scared in case he led me on again, then he replied saying “that wasn't me that was my mate” I continued to send texts after texts after texts and he wouldn't reply, but he would smile like nothing happened at school when I saw him :( and he still does now. I left him too it, weeks went by and he still always glanced at me from across the room and gave me a smile, some days I would smile back and some days I would be that angry and upset on what he's done to me, I looked away. I sent him another message the other night over the interent because I've just left school and I obviously won't see him as much, I may probably bump in to him around, but I said “I probably won't see you again, or as much anymore so I thought I'd just tell you that I do have feelings for you” he didn't reply, but definitely was online. I don't know what to do, this guy means so much to me and it really hurts. How should I react if I see him again? I've not seen him since that message the other night, what happens if I bump in to him? I can't honestly confront him to his face, I just don't have the courage and it's really really hard. Please help! Thanks. (link)
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You're only making it harder for yourself. This guy doesn't want you. He clearly doesn't know what he wants. You just keep going back for more and more. You're making yourself seem very desperate. He ignores you, and you keep sending him message, after message. Trust me, guys don't like a girl who can't take a hint.
If you know that he is leading you on, than leave him alone. Obviously his intentions are completely different from yours.
If you were to bump in to him again, than ignore him. Sure your heart make sink, and you may feel like you have to throw up, but ignore him.
I've learned from past experiences, that the SECOND you stop acting like you want someone, is the SECOND they want YOU. Act like you don't care anymore, and he may come around. I'm not promising anything, because all guys are different.
He just isn't ready for a relationship.
Leave him alone, and find someone worth your precious time.
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My husband bought his mom a perfume bottle last Mother's Day and it came along with a free tote. He gave his mother the perfume, and I got the tote!!! I checked online and figure it out that the tote was free!!! I asked him about it and he said he thought about me and gave me the tote! What should I do now? He didn't even look for a present for me but giving me that free tote from his mother's present!!! (link)
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Who cares? Have you ever thought about 'ITS THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS'.
You are lucky to even get anything. Some men don't even buy their wives things on Mother's Day.
Stop being selfish, and appreciate the gift. Who cares if it was FREE. Who cares if it isn't what you wanted. Stop being so unappreciative, before you're husband leaves you.
Men don't like women who are unappreciative, or women who are selfish and always looking for more.
What should you do now?
Be happy he got you something, REGARDLESS OF PRICE; and get over it.
You may not like my advice, but truth hurts. I mean, read your question from someone elses point of view.
Plus, you aren't his mother, MOTHER'S DAY is for people who are moms; your kids should have got you a gift, not really your husband.
so stop being so butt hurt over a FREE tote; his mom got the pricey gift, because SHE is HIS mom.
Jesus.
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What do I do after a guy cums in me? cuz were trying to get pregnant!
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Nothing, once he cums in you; than you have to let nature takes it course.
After that, wait atleast 5 days, and take a pregnancy test to see if the results are what you want.
Good luck! I wish you guys the best!
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What does it mean when a guy asks what are you up to tonight or what are you up to?
Hey, I went to a restaurant five days ago with a friend of mine. I know a guy that works at the restaurant. When I went to that restaurant I had no idea he was going to be working there at that day. I hardly speak to him and whenever I do, I always ask him to help me out or ask him for his advice. That day he saw me and asked hey, Julia how are you? and I said hey Johnathan and smiled. And I continued talking to my friend. He then asked so what are you up to tonight or what are you up to? I can't remember exactly which one it was but it was one of the what are you up to tonight and what are you up to? I have hardly seen him around and this was after a long time I had seen him but before that I had asked him to help me out with something and he tried helping me out he did not mind. So I just said to him oh just with a friend and yeah. And he was like oh okay. So I would like to know what did that mean? Did he want to do something or ask me to do something with him or was he just asking a question as we were just standing in a line and he wasn't serving he was just behind the counter and then walking around serving other customers and cleaning up dishes from the tables. So what does it mean? Was he just being customer friendly or he wanted to do something or what? How would I know if he likes me and stuff? Does he like me or what? Please help me thanks in advance for anyone who answers my question... :)
Also how can I tell he likes me? And also tell me if he was being customer friendly or what please please please I really do like him but I am scared to ask him about anything and I don't want to ask him if he was just being customer friendly ...... How can I tell him I am wanting to be with him and how can I tell if he is really into me? He hasn't asked me if I wanted to do anything with him or anything like that just that question that I had asked you all to answer me please and thanks :) (link)
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Stop posting the same question. I already answered your question, and if no one else did than maybe that means no one wants too so just posting it over and over again will only get it ignored and you kicked off this site.
here is my advice i gave you, ONCE MORE...
That question doesn't mean anything. It just means he's intersted in knowing what your plans are for that night.
If it was me, and I was attracted to the guy, and he asekd that, I would have been like,
'Nothing really, trying to find plans; what are you doing tonight?"
if he says nothing, than I would have been like, 'Oh, well you wanna hang out when you get off?"
guys like a girl with a load of confidence, and you making the first move to hang out will make him know that you like him enough to hang with him.
To me, I think he might have wanted to make plans, but since you said with a friend- he probably took it as, 'oh she has plan, so I won't interfere'. Next time it happens- make the next step; or switch it up.
'Ask him first, 'what are you doing tongiht?' and see if he takes the first step in hangin out.
I say, hang out first; do what I said; and than from there you can figure out if he likes you. HOnestly from what you told me, its hard to justify if he does like you.
Try hanging or talking more, and than inbox me, and I'll be happy to answer any qustions you have.
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PLEASE HELP URGENTLY PLEASE What does it mean when a guy asks what are you up to tonight or what are you up to?
Hey, I went to a restaurant five days ago with a friend of mine. I know a guy that works at the restaurant. When I went to that restaurant I had no idea he was going to be working there at that day. I hardly speak to him and whenever I do, I always ask him to help me out or ask him for his advice. That day he saw me and asked hey, Julia how are you? and I said hey Johnathan and smiled. And I continued talking to my friend. He then asked so what are you up to tonight or what are you up to? I can't remember exactly which one it was but it was one of the what are you up to tonight and what are you up to? I have hardly seen him around and this was after a long time I had seen him but before that I had asked him to help me out with something and he tried helping me out he did not mind. So I just said to him oh just with a friend and yeah. And he was like oh okay. So I would like to know what did that mean? Did he want to do something or ask me to do something with him or was he just asking a question as we were just standing in a line and he wasn't serving he was just behind the counter and then walking around serving other customers and cleaning up dishes from the tables. So what does it mean? Was he just being customer friendly or he wanted to do something or what? How would I know if he likes me and stuff? Does he like me or what? Please help me thanks in advance for anyone who answers my question... :)
Also how can I tell he likes me? And also tell me if he was being customer friendly or what please please please I really do like him but I am scared to ask him about anything and I don't want to ask him if he was just being customer friendly ...... How can I tell him I am wanting to be with him and how can I tell if he is really into me? He hasn't asked me if I wanted to do anything with him or anything like that just that question that I had asked you all to answer me please and thanks :) (link)
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That question doesn't mean anything. It just means he's intersted in knowing what your plans are for that night.
If it was me, and I was attracted to the guy, and he asekd that, I would have been like,
'Nothing really, trying to find plans; what are you doing tonight?"
if he says nothing, than I would have been like, 'Oh, well you wanna hang out when you get off?"
guys like a girl with a load of confidence, and you making the first move to hang out will make him know that you like him enough to hang with him.
To me, I think he might have wanted to make plans, but since you said with a friend- he probably took it as, 'oh she has plan, so I won't interfere'. Next time it happens- make the next step; or switch it up.
'Ask him first, 'what are you doing tongiht?' and see if he takes the first step in hangin out.
I say, hang out first; do what I said; and than from there you can figure out if he likes you. HOnestly from what you told me, its hard to justify if he does like you.
Try hanging or talking more, and than inbox me, and I'll be happy to answer any qustions you have.
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s it weird that i just want to wear regular panties? all of my friends wear thongs like all the time now and they keep telling me i should to...but thongs look really uncomfortable i dont want anything stuck up my but im totally comfortable wearing my normal bikini panties...shud i try wearing thongs? (link)
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That is up to you. Thongs aren't for everyone. I'm 20 and I don't even like thongs. You are right, they are very uncomfortable. Have you tried booty shorts? I wear those, and find those pretty comfortable.
But it doesn't matter what your friends wear, thats their personal preference. You have your own. If you like your regular panties, than wear your panties. Its none of your friends business of what type of undies you wear!
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My stepmother and my father have been married for awhile now. She's the classic evil stepmother. She made it so we hardly see our father, he is wipped. She targeted my sister when she was my older 16 (awhile ago) when we didn't call for Mother's day the first year they were married. It was messed up but we were really polite. She emailed my sister mean messages, my sister was only kind back, she got my father to take her of of his insurance once she was 18 (when it would have been FREE to have her on until she's 26 because of the family plan and she's in college). She yelled at my father's sweet mother, threw a present at her head, is really mean to my whole father's side. There is something wrong with her I think, my mother took her emails to a therapist and she said that she is unstable and dangerous emotionally. Now I'm 18 and about to graduate. My father wants to bring her and stunned I said I would try to get her a ticket. Now she emailed my sister saying she "wants to rebuild their relationship" which has happened with my Grandmother in the past and my Grandma would apologize and then my stepmother would do something outrageous and hurtful again.
So I need to know what to do about this. My idea was to tell my Dad that if she comes she can't speak to my mother, sister, or younger brother (not my Dad's son). And that she also can't email my sister. He will probually think I'm being disrespectful but to condone his and her behavior would be the real disrespectful thing to do. Any suggestions? (link)
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Please stop reposting the same question, it is against the guidelines of this website. If you do not like the answers that was given to you when you first posted it on here, than that is your problem.
Either way it goes, you need to be honest with your father. If he doesn't like what you have to say, than chances are he will pick her over you and that'll be the last you hear from your dad.
thats, that.
good luck.
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My boyfriend have been dating for almost 10 months now, and he's amazing... so funny and respectful and sweet and selfless. He does everything for me and pours out his heart everyday for me. He cried over me once and I felt so horrible for hurting his feelings because I've never really heard a guy cry before...
Lately I've been getting so annoyed with him at things I'd usually find hilarious and cute. I am so irritated at him today that I've almost said, "I'm done" several times... but I get all teary eyed when I think of being without him. I really do love him, I just can feel that I haven't been myself lately and he's annoying me...and I feel so bad because I know he would never say anything so hurtful to me.. I told him he was irritating me so we could talk it out, and he got so upset.
I'm just sick of fighting with him over every little thing. Sure, I'm neurotic and he puts up with me, but this is just aggravating. I love him so much, but I feel like I don't deserve him and I'm so close to the point of leaving him because of how mean I am to him sometimes.
What do you think I should do? Stay or go? (link)
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Only you can answer that. Let me tell you right now from experience. I've been with my man for almost 2 years, and it hasn't been easy; but I think back and its been worth it.
After so long, approximately 6 months, the honeymoon stage disappears. Which means its normal to become irriated with one another. The more you spend with someone, the more likely it is that they will get on your nerves. Try only seeing each other a couple of times a week for maybe an hour or so? I'm not sure how much you guys see each other, but if it isn't alot, than try not to talk that much. Go a weekend without talking or seeing each other. Give yourself time to see him.
Think about the things that annoy you about him. Can it be changed? Is it little? Is it worth being with out someone you love so much??
I live with my man, and let me tell you, even before we lived together, HE GOT ON MY NERVES! Everything I thought was so cute about him, instatnly annoyed the shit out of me.
But I got over it. He still gets on my nerves, but more so when I'm about to start my period. I have my mood swings, and since we talked about it, he understands that although I can be mean to him, he knows its because I need my space, and he knows I still love him. He has also toned down a bit with the things that does annoy me.
Sit down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel, and tell him that you feel like you should leave him because you feel so so bad for being mean to him when he annoys you and see what he has to say. I'm sure you being mean to him doesn't bother him enough for you to leave him. If you feel bad about being mean, than take a day to yourself and figure out how to change your feelings and fix it.
A relationship takes two people, and I know you love him, from all the sweet things you said about him; I don't think its worth leaving something that means so much to you. It can be fixed, but only if you BOTH work on it, ya know?
If you wanna talk more, and explain what it is that annoys you, inbox me. I've been there done that, and like I said, 2 years strong.
Please don't heistate. I'm here to help, and I want to see you guys last!
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Hi I am 15 and I really ned some advice. I'm a week late with having my period and I think I might be pregnant. I'm scared of what ill be called at school and I'm afraid of what my family will think. I don't know if I should keep the baby or not... the father is 18 and I'm afraid my mom will think it was rape when it wasn't . I'm so scared I'm not ready for a littl baby :( (link)
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Some people would say, "Maybe you should have thought about that before you opened your legs. All teenagers who are 'ready' for sex, should also be ready for the responsibility that comes along with it."
Most of it is true, but hunnie, I'm not downing you at all, sweetheart. I'm really not. I've had my fair share of pregnancy scares, first thing you want to do is stay calm. The more you stress the more it'll delay your period, okay? Now, have your periods always been regular, or have they often been a little late?
If they have been regular, than take a home pregnancy test. Any brand will do; take it first thing in the morning. That type of pee is the most accurate. You can buy one at any age, and they have some for $1 and some up to $10. Although, you get what you pay for. All of them will work the same; but to give myself a bit of ease, I bought a more expensive one.
If it comes back negative, and your period is still late, than don't freak out. Have you been stress? Working out? Weight gain? Bad diet?
Those things can make your period late, along with other things.
Have you talked to your boyfriend about it?
If you are pregnant, personally, I am against abortion. Like I stated before, if you are ready for sex, than you should be ready for the consequences that come with it, like a baby. There is always adoption. Why kill an innocent baby's life because you and your boyfriend had sex and wasn't cautious about it? Its not the baby's fault, ya know?? Many people have many beliefs. I'm almost 20 years old, and even I'd be scared to tell my parents at my age; its normal. I wouldn't mention it until you knew 100% that you were pregnant. If you really want to know accuratly, than go get a blood test done at a clinic, or at your doctor. Its confidential. Your parents will not have to know about it.
If you do turn out to be NOT pregnant, than please use more caution to use condoms, and even talk to your parents about getting put on birth control. They shouldn't be mad, they should be happy that you are being mature, and responsible.
If your parents don't know that you are sexually active with your boyfriend, and you want to keep it a secret, tell them that you want the birth control just in case, one night things go too far, atleast you'll be prepared. Please remember that birth control will not prevent you from getting pregnant, but it will make the chances less likely.
I wish you the best of luck, and if you need to talk, I am here for you, and I will not judge you.
I'll be praying that you aren't pregnant, because like I said I'm 20, full time job, and going to college, and I couldn't even imagine a child right now.
Please don't heistate to talk to me, okay hunnie?
Good Luck, babygirl.
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BackGround: So I have a boyfriend of a year and a half normally get my period on time, been feeling a little under the weather, plus it's finals week in college. Anyways, my period is 2 weeks late and I just want someone to assure me I'm not pregnant. I am on birth control (take it daily at the same time), use condoms when I have sex, and took a pregnancy test that came back not pregnant. I'm just stressed and confused to why it's 2 weeks late. (link)
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You answered your own question.
"I'm just stressed and confused to why its 2 weeks late".
Stress can cause your period to be late. Take it from me, girl, my period was always on time, and after starting college, it stressed me out! My period has been off balance for months now;
If you are still stressed out about being 'pregnant', take another pregnancy test to be sure; (idk if you know this; but take it first ting in the morning)
if that still doesn't relieve you, go to a doctor and get a confidental, blood test done;
I knew I wasn't pregnant, but I took 5 HPT and they were all negative; it was 2 months, and no period; and the more i began to think i cld be pregnant the more my body made me believe I was;
so i got a blood test done, and it came back negative, and ever since than, I feel a lot more at ease.
Give it a couple of weeks, and take another; but if you stop stressing, you period should be here in NO time!
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Hello all,
To put it shortly: I am very close to the family of my boyfriend (we've been together for more than two and a half years) and I am also friends with his dad on Facebook.
With this "latest" newsfeed you also see pictures that people like and whatnot and I see his dad liking the pictures of a page called "Startup needs lubricant" (Translated from German) Which doesn't really bother me. But this group uploads pictures of young women mostly showing off their breasts and asses in lingerie, etc, or just covering their nipples with the bare minimum.
I get it, they are sexy, provocative pictures, men are men, etc.
It just bothers me that I see his dad liking most of them. These are all skinny beautiful women with the perfect bum and perfect boobs. Firstly, I'm just bothered by knowing him so well and then seeing him like all this pictures.
Secondly, I feel very inadequate as the girlfriend now, although my boyfriend loves me as I am, he says I have the perfect boobs, legs and ass for him, it is not as if I am this skinny model type person.
I'm not sure why it bothers me, but I feel as if his dad considers me to be unattractive...
Is there any explanation to this? (link)
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Why would you care? Seems to me that you're attracted to his father, and you feel jealous that he's liking all these women which aren't you.
I just don't understand why you'd care if his dad thinks you're unattractive? If your BOYFRIEND thinks you perfect the way you are, than whats the problem? Obviously, you have some issues going on within for you to care THAT much about your boyfriends father liking women who are pretty & sexy.
All in all, you need to figure out why it bothers you so much and why it makes you feel that way. No one on here can answer your questions because we aren't 100% sure as to why;
If my advice I posted above offends you, I'm sorry in advance. Thats just how I see it, and it may not be the case, but girl, you need to thinka bout why you feel that way;
Its really not normal.
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I know that a lot of people on the website are older than me and that adults don't ever beleive in this stuff and that's why they never see them but do you think faries are real? Last night I was outside looking at the stars and I saw a flash of light in a tree next to me then heard what sounded like wings flapping back and forth then it was gone. Also, a friend of mine glitter on her bed when she woke up after she put a tooth under her pillow for the tooth fairy. What do you think? (link)
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Don't listen to the user below me. This guy must have shit up his ass! Your life isn't worthless or anything, his must be to be talking crap to you, for your question!
No fairies aren't real. The glitter was her parents. The tooth fairy isn't real either. Their parents put money and glitter on her bed.
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Can anyone explain batism to me? I am baptized, but my boyfriend is not; yet he believes in God. Is it true if someone isn't baptised they will not go to "heaven?" (link)
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Not necessarily. Some people believe different things. I have been to a few different churches, and one says, that as long as you have been saved, or you believe in god, than you'll go to heaven, and some say that you'll go to hell UNLESS your babtised.
Honestly, God knows everything. He knows if you believe in him, and what not. Everyone sins, so I don't see why Baptism is such a big deal with going to His Kingdom.
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While I was on my period, i decided to stop taking my birth control & had sex WHILE i was on my period. Now i'm 20 days late, is this an imbalance because of my birth control, or could i be pregnant? help please! (link)
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From your question, you're stressing the word WHILE- like there shouldn't be a problem. Don't listen to the user below me. You can get pregnant on, or off your period. It doesn't matter when you have sex, if its unprotected, you can get pregnant.
The only reason why I know this, is because my best friend was on birth control, and she stopped taking it, and while she was on her period, she had sex, and she got pregnant.
You could be 20 days late because:
1) your birth control is out of wack.
2) you're pregnant.
3) you're stressing too much over whether or not you're pregnant.
I know, when I had sex with my fiance' unprotected, he used the 'pull out' method, and my period was 2 months late because I was stressing so so bad about being pregnant. The more you stress about being pregnant, the more you're body will start making changes, making you think you are pregnant; which can delay you're period.
You're best bet is to buy a home pregnancy test. Take it first thing in the morning (your first pee of the day, is always the most accurate-because it isn't flushed with drinking fluids and foods) follow the directions carefully, and if its negative than wait another week, and take another, if that one is negative, than chances are you aren't pregnant.
Now personally, home pregnancy tests didn't relieve me at all. I still freaked out. People say home pregnancy tests aren't accurate at all, but I beg to differ.
If you don't feel any ease, you can go to a health clinic and get a blood test done, those are 100% accurate.
I did that, and they told me my results would come in the next day; sure enough I woke up, and I was on my period! The result was negative as well.
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Tomorrow is my boyfriend and I's 9 month anniversary. He's my best friend and I have never felt this way about anyone! Sure, we're in high school and we have our share of rough times, but we get along so well. He's really sweet, funny, and he treats me so right. Before we were dating, we gave each other our FB passwords because we would hack each other and write funny stuff. We've been close since my freshman year and his sophomore year.
Today, I was on his Facebook profile. I was just looking at his pictures, and a message popped up. It was an old message from a few months ago but I guess he stopped reading it. It was a message from one of his ex girlfriends. She is fifteen... and clearly immature..because I know her and she dates a guy every week and says she loves them each week. I'm a very jealous girl...and he's a very jealous guy...so when we get jealous, hell breaks loose! Anyways, the conversation between them was September 11, 2011. A week after we officially started dating. She and him were talking.. and just to add more anger, HE PUT THE MESSAGE IN HIS (OTHER) message folder just in case I went through his messages. I never had the right to, because I trusted him... but this message was clearly hidden from me. I read through it. Just to sum it up, he said hi first, and they started talking formally, like "how are you" and "sup"...but then she said, "I have a question... do you think there's a spark still between us?" And he said, "Are you breaking up with me?" And she said, "I don't know." And so he said, "Well you kind of left me to go hang with your friends and I felt left out and hurt...I just don't want this to go on anymore if you don't care..." and she said, "Idk" and then he said, "Just tell me how you feel" and the conversation ended.
I am absolutely heartbroken. I am getting so upset over something that happened months ago because he was dating someone else while he and I were talking! We talked from July to August in a flirty manner, and we got together in September. He would always say his neighbor was at his house, and I would get a bit jealous, but I would swipe it aside because I didn't want to seem clingy. I am so sick over this conversation that I feel so nauseous. I'm wondering if I should tell him and talk and tell him I know, but I don't want to seem like a nosy person or like I don't trust him. I'm just so hurt that he would still kiss me and ask me out while he was dating someone else...and now I feel like a rebound. Things ended between them a few days later, but it still hurts. Am I being overdramatic? Should I talk to him? (link)
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You really need to talk to him. Sit down with him, calmly, and let him know you aren't mad, you just are a bit confused, and you would like for him to be honest and clear it up for you.
You know, you aren't nosey. Things like this happen all the time when you swap passwords with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Let him know you weren't snooping, but you got on, and you saw the IM pop up, and you couldn't help but look.
Let him know that you love him, and you feel kind of hurt that he was dating her while you guys were talking. Make sure you are talking calmy to him, so he doesn't jump to conclusions or get mad. Let him know that you don't want this to come between you too, and you wanna talk about it, because communication is the number one thing in a relationship along with honesty, and trust.
Everything should go by fine. If I was you, I'd probably feel sick too. I'd be hurt, and I wouldn't know what to think, or even what to do.
Just be calm, and mature about it.
If you need any help at all, please inbox me!
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19/f, I've been in with my boyfriend for a year. We used to send each other cute texts almost every night and it of course lightened but now I feel like it has stopped. We still love each other, and I brought this up to him asking if he still feels the same way about me, then sent him an old cute text and told him how we haven't exchanged any of those in a while. He reassured me that he feels the same way, and ended up sending me a cute text that night. But it has stopped again. I guess I'm the type of girl that needs reassuring? opinions? am I crazy for this? (link)
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You're not crazy. Some girls need to be showed how much their loved, just as much as being told.
I am having this same issue with my fiance. We've been together for almost 2 years. I told my fiance that at the beginning of a relationship, the guy & the girl are doing things to KEEP each other, "being sweet, doing sweet things, romantic dates, ect"; but after a while, they both (more so the man) feels like they don't have to do that type of stuff anymore, becuase the girl should already know he loves her. Which is true. but like you, I know my boyfriend loves me, but its good to be reminded, you know??
My boyfriend use to send me sweet texts every day, and it made my day SO much better; and that after 6-7 months, it just stopped.
THe thing is, after about 6 months, the honey moon stage begins to disappear. The puppy love stops, and thats when the REAL feelings come out and when you see the REAL person that you're boyfriend is.
Of course you're boyfriend still loves you the same, if he didn't, he wouldn't be with you. Guys aren't afraid of leaving a girl, like a girl would be leaving someone who they have been with for longer than 10 months. Girls are more heistante.
Idk about you, but this issue really got to me one night. (usually when I'm about to start my period, and I become very emotional) and I was just depressed. I broke down and told him, and he had no idea it bothered me this much; his explanation was "I thought you knew I loved you, I didn't know I needed to prove it"--I told him that I do know he loves me, but I'd like to be shown every once and a while. He promised he would work on it, because he doesn't want me feeling unloved, unappreciated, ect.
A guy won't notice these things, unless you point it out to them. Have a talk with you're man, and tell him why it bothers you. Communication is the best trait in a relationship. Since me & my man have had this talk, nothing has changed. He says it because he isn't the romantic type. I hated telling him this, but its a deal breaker. I told him that if he can't show me he loves me an appreciates me; than I will find someone who will. THERE ARE PLENTY OF GUYS OUT THERE, THAT DO THESE KIND OF THINGS; Ya know?
Now, another thing, I told my boyfriend that now I feel like he's only doing it because I mentioned it; I see it as, if you really love someone as much as he claims than it should just come natural, and his response was "i never think of it".
I remember one day, I asked my boyfriend (before we had this talk) to send me a sweet text, and he said, you can't just ask for it; and i said thats the sad part, if I don't ask for it, I'll never receive it; it hurts, I know it does.
But maybe you're boyfriend will have a better reaction than mine did. All you can do is try.
If you don't see an improvement, or alteast him trying in so many weeks/months; than thats how you know he isn't the romantic type. You either accept him for what he is, or figure out if you can go you're entire life with him not being sweet and appreciatinng you.
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I know it sucks, trust me. I'm in the same boat; all you really want is just a simple text, maybe some flowers, or just a little card telling you how much you mean to him; actions speak louder than words; i guess its just hard to understand why its so hard for them to just do something like that; idkk.
But I wish the best for you. I hope you have better luck with yours than I did with mine!
If you need anything, inbox me!
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My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. But I'm nervous. Other than the fact that culturally, many people won't accept a girl and a boy moving in together until they are married, there's:
- bathroom issues. Like after I go, I'm not gonna lie. It smells really bad. And also, I have a retainer. Sure its alright not to wear it for one night but I can't stop wearing it once I move in!
- I'm a virgin. Now I don't plan to like wait until marriage but really if I'm going to lose it then it will most likely be when we are living together. Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing but we are still in school so I don't want it to be like a sex fest 24/7!
- What if I fart or say something embarrassing, etc when I sleep?!
- And there were so many more inquiries/issues that I had thought about but I can't remember it right now.
What is your take on this and please explain your experiences on living with your loved one. Obviously farting is natural and by the time married couples have kids its like nothing but i just don't know! (link)
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It depends on how long you guys have been together. By the details from your question, I'm assuming it hasn't been that long. Like the user below me stated, you aren't comfortable around him; which will make things very difficult for you both when you move in together.
I'm 19, and my fiance is 18; We've been together for almost 2 years; His mom left him homeless, therefore my parents allowed him to move in with us.
Let me tell you, it isn't easy. Although we aren't faced with bills, and other finical stress; being around each other is stressful.
You really don't know someone until you live with them. And thats the truth! If you guys don't have a stable, comfortable relationship, than moving in together will mroe than likely cause you guys to split up. Let me tell you, my boy is so messy! drives me insane! he doesnt do anything but work and play games! although we live together, sometimes it feels like we barely interact with each other; but all in all, i wouldn't have it any other way!
I'm in college, and taking a psychology class, and statisic's show that couples who live together before marriage, end up getting a divorce-rather than those who live together AFTER marriage. Personally, I don't believe it, because you'd think if you can put up with each other before marriage (living together, ect) than marriage would become easier. The way my teacher explained it is, 'WHY BUY THE COW, WHEN YOU ALREADY GET THE MILK'. That to me, is a very good answer.
Personally, I'd wait until the relationship has developed, and you're more comfortable. Obviously your boyfriend loves you, or he wouldn't want you to take this big step with him (feel honored, most guys wouldn't make an offer like this! they like being alone, with no rules, ect)
If this boy really loves you girl, than the farts, the stinky bathroom, and the embarassing sleep talks, will not bother him. My fiance' farts stink so bad, and he does it the worse when he's sleeping! He talks in his sleep all the time, and sometimes I'm thinknig, "what the hell is he talking about!!!!?" haha, but after a while, you begin to ignore it, and it doesn't seem as major as your stressing about it!
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Hi guys, I'm 16 years old and I am female. I have been dating this guy for a little over 2 months and I am always In the mood to have sex with him but I am soo very self conscience about myself. I'm technically not a virgin but it was like 2 years ago. And he is double my size... Literally and I have to go on top cuz he will squish me. He's told me this, that when it happens I go on top. But how do I make myself feel more comfortable? Please please help me!! Thankyou so much! (link)
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It's a good thing you're self concious. It isn't a great idea to sleep with a guy who you've only been with for two months. You shouldn't just be having sex with anyone. It isn't a good look for you.
I can promise you that once you guys have sex, you guys won't make it another 3 or 4 months. Just saying from past experience.
You're 16, and according to your statement, you've had sex before- when you were 14.
Doesn't seem like you love this guy; you're in lust.
If you aren't comfortable around him, there isn't anything WE can tell you. Thats all on you, and how you feel for him. If you truely cared for him, than you wouldn't be self concious. How about you stop, think, and keep your legs closed for someone who you LOVE.
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I'm 17 (female) and me and my boyfriend have be really eager about sex we've fooled aroud and have had protected sex twice and recently he wanted to feel how it was with out one and I let him and wel he got Pre-cum in me and I've attempted to clean it out (even though everything says that that's next to impossible) then today he did it again but pulled out and almost came in me I try to clean it out again but, we are both alittle nervous, I know it was dumb, I don't need preaching, but the afterwards he fingered me and well there was some blood and he thought it was for sure period but i know it's due next week, any help? (link)
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Yeah you can be pregnant; although there was blood doesn't mean you are starting your period.
You could have it this month, and than not next month. The chances of you being pregnant is about 89%. Pre-cum is just as fertile as regular nut.
I mean, if you are afraid of being pregnant, maybe you should've stook to condoms.
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