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Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
Gender: Female
Location: Tennessee
Occupation: Full Time College Student
Age: 18
AIM: xxbbyxitsxyouxx
Member Since: October 28, 2011
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Last Update: January 29, 2015
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Sorry I didn't come back and say thanks sooner. :( THANK YOU!

Rating changed: You were right! I was too stupid to see it. THANK YOU! Old response:Tht made me feel horrible :( but thanx for trying

I didn't know you could smoke anything but tobacco? Cool! Thank you!

Thank you for your help in the matter. I have been getting a lot of mixed reviews on this question.

This is good advice, but you don't need to be rude. You really don't. And I've been doing a lot of thinking and pros and consing and it's ALL cons. And if you read the whole thing, it says that I was telling him that he's being disrespectful and stupid. And hes already cheating with some other girl. That would make me the 3rd if I let him make me the 3rd, which will NOT happen. So once again, you didn't have to be rude. And if you want to judge, at least read the whole thing. You didn't have to take it out on the fact that I said God. I don't care if you believe in God or not. I don't know what happened to you, but whoever hurt you, you allowed them to. I will not make that mistake. And I'm so glad that God pointed me in the right direction. Without him, I would have said something I'd regret. Thanks for confirming what I already knew though! You didn't answer my question in reality, but beggars can't be choosers! Thanks sweetie :)

Really a 3? I think you just felt like picking on somebody...

No I Don't Want That I Think Im Just Gonna Wait My Mom Told Me I Can Lose My Virginity At 15 Or 16 ...

Thanks :)

I said the place I apply turns me down because I am not 18. I apply, they turn me down. I'm trying at multiple places.

Thank you so much! that was really helpful, I think he is worth it too! :)

your mean and ill ask whatever and however many questions i want to!:)

thanks for the advice im gona try booty shorts. are there other panties that r comfy to?

Thanks a lot! This helped so much. I did talk to him about it, and we're just fine. I always appreciate your helpful answers. Thanks again :)

Thanks!

I gave the guy below you some taste of his own medicine and hopefully he chills a little. Thanks for your comment, but some advice to you, if a little kid beleives...let em beleive no matter what. :)

I literally feel exactly the same way that you do, thank you so much for the advice, I feel SO much better that somebody understands where I'm coming from. I definitely will inbox you if I need anything! Thank you again for the advice, it means a lot!

Thank you! I am SO sad. :(

It is REALLY hard to walk away but you and the dangernerd person made me see that there is no hope because he is full of shit. THANK YOU!

your story is INSPIRING! i don't know ANYONE else that is waiting and i am the last person i know who hasnt had sex and that is why i really wanted to, but you TOTALLY changed my mind! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!

you arent very nice all i want is something hot for my boyfrined to want to have sex with me! what r they gunna do anyway cuz they dont put 11yos in jail stupid

I'm not looking for insults thanks. I'm 21 & he's 19... We've been together for just about 3 years now.... He's my longest yet... He has given up so much just to be with me already. The sex is the only problem between us, I think the main cause is the porn he finds.

thanks :) and il be with him next year in college

I'm not mocking the show. And anyways, what is that show? :P

thank you you used to be nice sometim you just have to hear somthin more then once you turn mean against me jus cuz i asked twice!

you are not very nice. but it is the truth i guess

The question was if I should tell her, and if I ended it the RIGHT way. I know I made the wrong decision in the first place. I realize that I screwed up, and I feel terrible about it. I understand that she deserves better. I completely agree with that. But as long as she's willing to give me another chance, I won't turn it down. I won't turn it down because this will not happen again - ever. And if it does, I won't let her give me another chance. I don't really even deserve the chance she is giving me now. Yes, I told her. Yes, she is pissed - and rightfully so. But more than being pissed, she was hurt. But at least I was honest. At least I was able to stop it before it went too far. But you telling me how horrible I am is not ok. I didn't ASK to be judged, because I already KNOW I made a horrible mistake. And don't act as if you don't make mistakes. Don't act like you've never screwed up before. Maybe you haven't messed up like this, but you are not perfect. No one is perfect.

Thanks! :) I also looked it up on google. Mine comes and goes like yours does, but to help you with it (it helped me) look up acid reflux accupressure. It's perty awesome!!!

This didn't help me.. and I have put bleach on gray hair before and it worked just fine

Thank you! And I'm pretty skinny and about 5' 5"

Thank your adressing every possible path! Haha cause in indiana, age of consent is 16. It's not illegal.

I mean that wasn't really the question. He HAS cut back on seeing her and I can tell its hurting him. That's the situation il worried about.

thanx alot :)

Thank you so much! xoxoxo

Great advice ...Thanks

Thank you so much much! It is such a relief to hear this from someone who has gone through the same thing! Of I could rate higher I would! Thank you very much btw I have a cocker spaniel and two yorkies too lol. Cool(: thanks again(:

Thanks! I'm going to try to buy it tomorrow if they're not sold out because of Christmas. Hope it works!

thanks!!!!

i didn't see this is time, but luckily enough the bleeding was already ending and there wasnt any when they did it! but it's great adivce for the next time they do. Thanks for your help <3

:)

Ill message you again after!! Theres some things I forgot to include so ill let you know! Thank you!!

Thank you! <3

thanks so much. i usually range from 28 to 30 days and its been 37 so im semi-freaking out lol.

Thank you so much!

That really makes sense. For once somebody understand. Thank you

:)

Thank you so much!

Yeahh whats your info?:)

I think he might have found out I slept with my ex :/ who he hates

Thanks!

Thanks :)

thank you so much for your legitimate advice, for not telling me my boyfriends going to jail, and that I simply will not be able to live with him. Im going to see how much a job in childcare pays..and also my manager who make 9.00 an hour, lives in an apartment with her two kids, im pretty sure she gets government help, but if she can make it so can I! I wish you luck too and I am happy you took time out of your day for me

Thank you for answering(: I didn't take an ACT if anything i might need SAT's i'll get more information & talk to a advisor see what they have to say good luck in college :D

thanks and i will! ^^

Again, thank you soo much!!!

yes lol, boys will be boys! and thats so true about what you said on how they would change for the right girl. So Thanks for your help(:

Thanks:D Thats so true yet so sad:/

Thank you so much!, you really help me to feel better. I know your right and I should, so I'm defintly goin to work on breaking up with him, and like you said it will turn out good in the end(:

Thank you so much this helps me see things more clearly now and I think I know what I have to do

Thank you so much that was great advice! Really gave me hope.. its def rough but i love him so much i know its worth it. thanks again!

thanks for understanding. i guess i feel since i know theres one guy out there at least, i feel a little better. but he's going away soon so... i dont know.

you are always so comforting, thanks and i know i will heal soon and forget about him, i did ask him in a nice, calm way, he stuck to his story and its not the truth so i asked why didnt he have any effort to fix things up, he never replied and so im alright, i know i did not do anything wrong. Hey i wanna share with you a nice quote i read in fb: when people hurt you.. .think of them as sand paper---they scratch and hurt you but you end up polished and they end up useless.. nice huh! have a nice day!!

wow youre amazing!!!!!!!!!!! thank you very much i really appreciate your well thought of answers. i will be reading it over and over and i know it will help me to the road to recovery pretty soon!!!! all the best to you too!!!

Thanks so much! Im actually going to do ALL of these :')

You helped me a lot! I may take you up on the email thing so I hope you meant it!!.thank you so much!

thanks :)

I was talking about his friend, but I still hope it works thanks (:

Thank you, everything you said I knew.. I just needed to hear someone tell me these words. thank you so much. :)

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