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What does it mean when a guy asks what are you up to tonight or what are yo
PLEASE HELP URGENTLY PLEASE What does it mean when a guy asks what are you up to tonight or what are you up to?
Hey, I went to a restaurant five days ago with a friend of mine. I know a guy that works at the restaurant. When I went to that restaurant I had no idea he was going to be working there at that day. I hardly speak to him and whenever I do, I always ask him to help me out or ask him for his advice. That day he saw me and asked hey, Julia how are you? and I said hey Johnathan and smiled. And I continued talking to my friend. He then asked so what are you up to tonight or what are you up to? I can't remember exactly which one it was but it was one of the what are you up to tonight and what are you up to? I have hardly seen him around and this was after a long time I had seen him but before that I had asked him to help me out with something and he tried helping me out he did not mind. So I just said to him oh just with a friend and yeah. And he was like oh okay. So I would like to know what did that mean? Did he want to do something or ask me to do something with him or was he just asking a question as we were just standing in a line and he wasn't serving he was just behind the counter and then walking around serving other customers and cleaning up dishes from the tables. So what does it mean? Was he just being customer friendly or he wanted to do something or what? How would I know if he likes me and stuff? Does he like me or what? Please help me thanks in advance for anyone who answers my question... :)
Also how can I tell he likes me? And also tell me if he was being customer friendly or what please please please I really do like him but I am scared to ask him about anything and I don't want to ask him if he was just being customer friendly ...... How can I tell him I am wanting to be with him and how can I tell if he is really into me? He hasn't asked me if I wanted to do anything with him or anything like that just that question that I had asked you all to answer me please and thanks :)
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Well let start off with this. Seems like you've been going to him for advice only. If you like him, start getting rid of that friend vibe:) flirt with him, compliment him, tell him the things you like about him. He might just as well like you back. He probably is feeling the same way about you:) he just doesn't know for sure if you like him because your only going to him for advice. So change the way you talk to him. Ask him on a date. Ask him what he likes to do and pick a date that you both would enjoy, but PLEASE do not go to the movie theatres. That's the worst first date. You can not talk or get to know him that way. Go somewhere fun. You just gotta let him know you like him. I guarantee that will allow him to show his feelings for you too. :)
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That question doesn't mean anything. It just means he's intersted in knowing what your plans are for that night.
If it was me, and I was attracted to the guy, and he asekd that, I would have been like,
'Nothing really, trying to find plans; what are you doing tonight?"
if he says nothing, than I would have been like, 'Oh, well you wanna hang out when you get off?"
guys like a girl with a load of confidence, and you making the first move to hang out will make him know that you like him enough to hang with him.
To me, I think he might have wanted to make plans, but since you said with a friend- he probably took it as, 'oh she has plan, so I won't interfere'. Next time it happens- make the next step; or switch it up.
'Ask him first, 'what are you doing tongiht?' and see if he takes the first step in hangin out.
I say, hang out first; do what I said; and than from there you can figure out if he likes you. HOnestly from what you told me, its hard to justify if he does like you.
Try hanging or talking more, and than inbox me, and I'll be happy to answer any qustions you have.
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There seem to be a lot of questions within this question... sooooooo;
1) When a guy asks "What you up too?" Doesnt
ne-ses-celery mean he totally loves you, but it does mean hes trying to start a conversation and is interested.
2) If he doesnt mind helping, then maybe he wants to be friendly- if you've met him before, he is being customer friendly, but also "friend friendly" cus being that nice to stangers only goes so far, if you get what i mean.
I think you should go over there and flirt. Flirt away-dont seem to eager, dont make it obvious but he'll get the message, and if he likes what he see's, you should be goin out in no time :D
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You sound really anxious! First of all, calm down. If this relationship is meant to happen, it will! A lot of times when guys ask you that, they want something, but sometimes they're just asking! It may be that he's into you, but I would guess that he was just in a good mood. If you want to get together with him, start showing interest. He can't read your mind! The fact that he asked you, might be because he secretly likes you, but he won't show it at work, or he's too shy to initiate something. There are many possibilities, and the only way to find out is to go back, and show him that you're interested. Don't overdo it though! Good luck! Feel free to e-mail me if you have more questions at alexisgirlie@gmail.com
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