hey hey welcome to my site! my name is alissa but alot of people just call me lissa, i luv to play the piano (8 years) i have 2 brothers a mom and a dad, i have 2 kittens and a dog. what can i say..i love the lord. attending youth group and starting point is something that gets me through my week. i teach sunday school, babysit at the church and im a stright A student.
helping people has always been one of my strong assets.
so if anyone has any type of question, please dont hesitate to ask..im here for support, comforting and obviously.. advice.
so just drop one in my inbox anytime and i will try my best to answer your question the best i can.
Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: loochalo
Member Since: November 13, 2004
Answers: 131
Last Update: December 10, 2005
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If you have sex and the next day you get your period how high or low are your chances of being pregnant? There was no conterceptive used.Please let me know what you think. (link)
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the chances are pretty low, you get pregnant by *skipping* your period
hope i helped! merry christmas!
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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate! (link)
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make the first move! and always remember that if there is anything that worries you or anything about your relationship, COMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
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Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for. (link)
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lol, like every parent does that! their just having some fun, but dont worry about it!
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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old? (link)
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well when your 18, your an adult now so you could get sent to jail, so yes you probally will get in trouble.
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I recently had my pap smear and the results came back fine. My doctor said that the Pap smear was normal. I did not have the HPV, but this is were I'm confused, she told me to go back for another testing in 6 months because they found changes in the cells of my cervix.
Thank You So Much for any information that you can pass on to me.
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well thats really what a pap smear is, looking for changes on your cells in your cervix. when the docor says to come back in 6 months, he meant that there is cells changing in your cervix and that might indecate cancer, but not all women have cancer from their cells changing.
i hope i helped! merry christmas!
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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ya its normal! not all girls bleed!:) hope i helped! happy holidays
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hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
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well try and use a compact tampon, they work really good! then know one suspects anything! then like kept in your pocket. (i know what you mean,my friends go threw my purse to!)
hope i helped! happy holidays
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gah just got my period and im supposed to be seeing my guy this weekend what can i do to make it go away faster? (link)
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you cant really make it just *go away*
but i heard from a friend that she uses this *medicine* that helped it go away faster (but im not positive) well i hope i helped!:)
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hey um.....i tried to use a tampon b4 and it hurt....BAD. I need help am i doing it right??? HELP!! (link)
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your probally just using to big of a tampon.
well i hope i helped!:)
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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ya, you can, but i wouldn't even risk it!:) hope that i helped
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy. (link)
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just to be safe. get a condom so then you dont have to worry about anything, a good place to get a condom with out many people knowing is in like gas stations, they almost always have condom despencers. well always remember that its way better to be safe then sorry!:) hope i helped!
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whats a good place to have sex where there are no parents? (link)
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well anywhere i guess...just make sure there is no parents around
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I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?
thnx so much, i really need your help! (link)
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im sure in normal, your body is probally just getting use to producing eggs, and the tan part, well i never had that but it is probally just your body type. if this does not go away in about 3 to 4 months then i would either tell your mom or a docor! that what their there for right!
happy holidays!
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do. (link)
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you really need to tell someone! either a teacher or a parent! this is getting way out of hand! you need to tell someone before he takes away your self-confidence and dignety! i watched this happen to someone before, your never really the same once he makes you scared of him and thinks that he has concord you! you need to stand up for yourself! if its either yelling at him so everyone can hear or hiting him back! but whats most important to do is make him know that you are not scared of him!, that he can not treat you like one of his toys!, and that know one messes with you!
i really hope that i help! remember that what he is doing is wrong and you need to stand up for yourself!and tell someone!
happy holidays!
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ok i know this isn't exactly sex related, but it's close enough. today i was putting on deodorant, and accidently got some on my chest. as i was going to rub it off, i notice that my right nipple was a different texture than my left-it felt like, rougher. also, the area surrounding it felt almost numb. is this normal?? i've never noticed anything like this before, but then again i don't often feel my chest that often, so i don't know if it's normal or not. any help would be greatly appreciated!! thanks so much (link)
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you are totally normal! it could just be from your bra matiral (irrition) it may also be just your muscle in your breast. if this is making you worried then go to the docors, thats what their there for right!
hope i helped! happy holidays!
god bless!
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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well it doesent matter how long you know him, if you feel that you are really comfortable with him fingering you then just go for it! they cant tell you what to do for ever! so justbe carful from what you say on that phone!
i hope that i helped! happy hoildays!
god bless you!
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i have a serious problem.......there 3 guys who like me ......i like them all equally but there might be something more to all three of our friendships......i just don't know....please help me ...i'll rate!!!!! (link)
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well just relax for a moment..
first you need to either figure out that you just wanna be friends with all of them or which one you want to be more then just friends. i had that exact same problem! with these three guys that all were really close friends then they all asked me out. so what i did was, i wrote down all of the values about all of them
like what i would look for is:
nice, cute, smart etc
then when you figure out which qualites you would prefere to be more then friends with, then make your move. i would really want to be carful, about jelousy. that happens alot with guys that all like just one girl. the guys that you want the most, you can have a special relationship with and just make sure that you keep another *special* relationship with all of the other guys
i hope that i help!
happy holidays!
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I have a problem, I reallly like this guy, im calling him dave. Daves cute, smart,(im in GT), and nice. Since I'm in a gifted program, theres only 40 kids in a grade, so yeah. A guy likes me and I don't like him at all. I really like this guy, and I also like this guy who liked me last year, but I doubt he still does. I really need help, thnaks. (link)
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well i would probally begin with being "really good friends" and then when you decide which one you feel that you like more and your more comfortable with. OR you can always just take a break from all this confusion (i no what you mean, i went through almost exactly what your going through)and just be friends and let them come to you... but always remember to fight for what you belive in! love is full of surprises!
well i hope that i helped
if you ever wanna talk i have AIM: loochalo
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I'm getting a haircut and I'm not sure what kind to get. I have dirty blonde hair to my shoulders. Its straight and really plain. No bangs. Any ideas?!?!?! I rate good if u give me a real answer!!! thanks a bunch!!
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im a dirty blonde to and i have my hair up to my shoulders and it was just plain straight.
what i did was i got a angle cut in the front and i got whats called a whispy bang cut, (were they just cut little whispys) then i got about four or five layers. (which looks awesome!) then i got my hair cut (a couple inches off) then i got it highlighted! (bright blonde) and it looks really cute! well i hope i gave you some good ideas! happy holidays!
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i have these bumps on my back iunno how to explain them but i just started getting them i thinkits cuz i have long hair and it always rests on my back.. any suggestions to get rid of em? (link)
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well, you really should make sure that you moisturize it with lotion or something that is recomended by a derm. then i would make a docors appt. and get to checked out, just incase its like a disese of something that is serious
well good luck and i hope that i help! happy hoidays!
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