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i have a serious problem.......there 3 guys who like me ......i like them all equally but there might be something more to all three of our friendships......i just don't know....please help me ...i'll rate!!!!!
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well just relax for a moment..
first you need to either figure out that you just wanna be friends with all of them or which one you want to be more then just friends. i had that exact same problem! with these three guys that all were really close friends then they all asked me out. so what i did was, i wrote down all of the values about all of them
like what i would look for is:
nice, cute, smart etc
then when you figure out which qualites you would prefere to be more then friends with, then make your move. i would really want to be carful, about jelousy. that happens alot with guys that all like just one girl. the guys that you want the most, you can have a special relationship with and just make sure that you keep another *special* relationship with all of the other guys
i hope that i help!
happy holidays! ]
well sit down and relax, ask yourself which friendship of them all do you value and would never want to destroy. or write on a peice of paper, three colomns and each put their names in them and under their names write what you like the most about them. which quality does each have that the others dont that you like. pick one that you know will still talk to you after youve broken up and wont be a jerk. pick one that you think will treat you the best. that or you can stay single and just figure out their bad things like jelousy if they have that and self centered, you get my point then choose ]
well only you can decide which one you like more, what do you exspect? do you want someone to say well i think you should go with the second guy. think about that. but try to hang around all of them seperatly and see which one you enjoy being with the most. then YOU can make YOUR decision.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~ ]
hey
you like three guys but like you said ther might be more to them than you think just try and figure out wat you like about each guy and the guy you like the most stuff about stik with him ]
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