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Hi..i'm from India M/32. I have a girlfriend.we are in a relation since 2010. She is beautiful lovely and very educated.we both wanted to marry.everything was right but 1year ago i came to know that she had an affair in her school days.i asked her and she agreed.she doesn't told me anything about it before i asked! Her ex bf's friend tell me that they had very intimate relation and had sex.when i asked my girl,she denied it and claimed that i am her first man whom she had sex 2times. But i can't trust because when we had sex she doesn't bleed. I can't trust her anymore.she hidden everything about her past.she told me that her past relation was very abusive,her ex tortured her so she breakup,she told me she wanted to tell me but she affaird to lose me.I am in dilemna. I cannot fully trust her now.and everyday we fight with the issue of her past. What to do? Please suggest me. (link)
A woman is not supposed to bleed during sex. If she bleeds, that doesn't mean she was a virgin. If she doesn't bleed, that doesn't mean she's not a virgin.

You will never be able to tell physically whether a woman is a virgin or not.

But I don't think you should be with this woman because that's all you seem to care about.

Her past is in the past, she doesn't need to tell you everything in her past. It's none of your business.

You either need to get over it or break up. She doesn't owe you anything.


Im 13 and I just can't wait for sex any more I don't know why but I just wanna loose my virginity. I promised the lord and my parents ill wait till25 but i can't wait and I'm tired of jerking off.( even though it is satisfying). (link)
Like adviceman said, masturbation is what you should be doing right now.

The reason why you so badly want to have sex is because of the hormones since you're only 13. You're going through puberty.

But having sex at 13 can just cause more problems than pleasure.

I mean trying to find someone at your age to have sex with in the first place will be difficult. If you find a girl around your age or in her teens, she has a better chance at getting pregnant. I mean at age 13, she won't be on birth control and condoms aren't always effective. So in order to have sex, the girl needs to be on birth control.
Then if you find someone older, it's just illegal so that's a no.

I mean you don't have to wait till you're 25, that's a random age to pick, but you should wait till you're older just so you don't have to deal with the consequences.

You should be prepared and more responsible in order to have sex.


I'm 15 and a female and my period is late by a couple of days and i have recently dry humped , I know I am not pregnant because you cant get pregnant by dry humping. I just wish to know if dry humping can affect my period cycle and if it doesn't affect the cycle then what is....please help I'm really worried (link)
Not that I know of.

There are tons of other reasons why you can have an irregular period. Number one can be that you're 15. You're just in the beginning so it can be irregular.
Obviously pregnancy can cause late periods, but you're not pregnant. There is is sickness, change in diet, stress, increased exercise, ect.
Or there could be something going on in your body and you should go see a doctor. If this is a big concern for you, I suggest go seeing a doctor to make sure everything is ok.


Found out he is a player and he is still playing girls and it hurts so much even though I don't talk to him or communicate with him, anytime I see him I remember everything so badly, how can I get over it and him (link)
It takes time to get over someone. So people need more time than others.

Even though it's easier said than done, forget about him. Do things that make you happy. Try new things and go out with your friends. And go meet new guys.

These things take time, and everyone goes through some sort of heartbreak.

So my advice will be to take time for yourself and do things that make you happy.


M/17
This girl that like or have crush on,I dont know what to do anymore. This past few weeks we gotten really close to each other,we texted a lot but i dont if thats enough. I mean She knows that i have a crush on her,because I confess it to her,its suppose to be an April fools prank but I lost the oppurtunity to say the "April Fools" so I yeah she knows. Of all the girls that I have a crush on Shes the different one,because I didnt even bother to know those girls more,but this girl shes really different from the others....I dont know. I miss her a lot,because its summer vacation here in the Philippines,and Im not gonne see her at school anymore because were entering college soon (we have a different schooling system here) I think Im falling for her,and this my first time to make an effort to know a girl. Oh and never had Girlfriend before so I dont know what to do...so bear with me...Should I continue this?? (link)
The only difficult part if you two did decide to date, would be that you guys are going to different colleges right?

It's not impossible for it to work, but it's also a lot of hard work. Especially for being 17 and trying to balance a relationship and school. College will be more stressful and time consuming.

So make sure you take that into consideration before jumping into this.

If you do decide you'd like to pursue her, then go for it. You never know unless you try. Maybe first try hanging out as friends and see how that goes. If she seems like she's into it, then ask her out on a real date. If she says yes, you know she is at least interested in getting to know you in a more romantic way than just friends. If she says no, then at least you know she doesn't feel that way.


Hey... Im kinda depressed from moving and losing friends. My whole life Ive moved and lost friends alot. At first I lived in a trailer. I moved into a small country house in the middle of no where. There I met my best friend. I stayed for a few years and we became closer than sisters. Much to my distress we then moved to a small city house in nashville where i became friends with Heaven and Avery who soon moved. When I was still there I befriended Alena and Elly. I moved back to the country house away from my city friends but back to my "sister." Soon afterwards I moved to tiny house in a small town where I befriended Whitney Maddie Noelia and Keondria. Within months I moved to an average sized house in a big city. I then became friend with Meredith Charlsie and Nicole. They have recently turned on me and eachother. I am now friendless.

Just to let any advice givers know I am a preteen. (link)
This is a common thing with families that have to move a lot.

There's no easy fix to the problem. Friends come and go, especially when you're young. You won't have the same friends forever.

So you need to keep your head up and keep making new friends. Each friend will impact your life and just be grateful that you've got to meet them and have them in your life for the time you had.

Losing friends suck, but it happens all the time.

So my advice is to get back out there and make new friends. It's obviously not easy, but it's possible and it'll get better.


So there's some girls who say when you lose your virginity it hurts is it true? (link)
It's different for each person.

For most girls, yeah it hurts.


How i convince a girl to do sex with me (link)
You don't.

If you ask her and she says no, then you don't ask anymore. If you continue asking, then like adviceman said, it's sexual harassment.

So you ask her. If she says no, then you leave it at that.

You need to respect her decision. Plus, you'll enjoy sex more with a girl who wants to have sex rather than having to convince someone. That's just sad and desperate.


what do i do? i am a girl my best friend is a boy and i have a crush on him, how do i tell him it without it being super awkward? (link)
It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

If you really want to tell him, just do it. I think it would be awkward if you told him in front of other people. I'd suggest telling him when it's just you two. And not in front of your friends or his friends.


Hi guys! So For a really long time (at least three years) I've been crazy worried about my weight. I'm female, 5'9, and weigh 136lbs. I almost never eat over 950 calories unless I'm out of town for the day, and I go to the gym and work off around 150-200 calories. On days I don't go to the gym, I eat around 700. Today I ate 644 calories. My mom thinks I may be giving myself low blood sugar, and my dad thinks Ive put myself into starvation mode, and I think it may be an eating disorder. The thing about this is, I have another condition that makes me pass out more often than normal, and when I eat too few calories I black out and sometimes pass out. What will happen if I continue eating like this? And is low calorie intake the same thing as under eating? I know calories is what you need to live, so does anyone have an answer? And by the way, I honestly don't think I can stop this eating habit, just in case some say eat food with higher calories. Thank you in advance! (link)
I'm not a doctor so I can't sit here and tell you whether or not you have an eating disorder.

What I can tell you is that something is definitely wrong and you do need to see a doctor. You also realize something is wrong or else you wouldn't be writing to us.

If something is out of control, most likely something is wrong. You said yourself you don't think you can stop eating like this.

From what I've studied, we should be eating around 2,000 calories, give or take for each person. Obviously not crap food, but good food.

My advice is to go see a doctor. They'll diagnose you and from there you can start working on your health.


Of course I hate false rumors. This isn't exactly a rumor.
But anyway have you ever seen someone fake being goth or sad or something for attention? Well most of my school is doing that. I'd like to say first I support homosexuals just not fake ones.
Ok so there was this girl in my elementary school and she was Emo And A Bisexual she finally was excepted.
Then after she turned Bi people who hated homos said they were. Then more and more. Then more people claimed to be Emo. Just because its a stupid craze. I know youll say I don't know them but if you were in my position. Don't tell me I don't know its fake because 99 percent of a school doesn't turn homo in a day. Its not homosexuals I disapprove of its the fakeness.
So I just have to listen to everyone say how sad or depressed they are.
I don't know if I should or how I'll tell them That your fake and stuff.
Which is unusual because anyone who knows me can tell you I don't sugarcoat things or care do call you out in something or call out a faker.

Any advice? (link)
Why call them out? It's not going to change them. It is mean to call people fake, whether they are or not. Whether it's being honest or not, it's still mean.

I don't even get the point. Let them do what they want to do. It's not your job to tell someone who is depressed and who's not. Granted, some of them might not actually be depressed but you don't know which ones are and which ones aren't. Even people who have the best lives can be clinically depressed, you just don't know everything about someone.


I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months a few days ago. I initiated it and thought I was able to get through it fine since I believe that I've never actually loved him as much as he loved me.

When I broke it to him on a Friday, he did not want to accept it and so I ignored him. I texted him on Saturday morning, urging him to say yes and agree to it since I'm hoping to find my closure too. He called me and we talked over the phone and I said very hurtful things to him. I told him about the two guys who tried to hit on me while we were still together and I admitted that I played along with them and did not make it a point to them that I was attached. (I still feel very bad about it but it was the period of time when we quarreled very often). He accepted it and said that he would still come over to my house to fight for me since he said that I didn't cheat on him. And yes, I've never cheated on him. During the phone call, I didn't know why I said all those hurtful things, but perhaps it was my own way of pushing him away. Then, he said something that ticked me off (I can't even remember what) and I hung up the phone. He tried to call several more times and I declined the call.

His mother called me afterwards and started screaming at me. And this was really the straw that broke the camel's back. After which, my mother called back to scold her and I never heard from him again. As a form of closure, I sent him an email but he has yet to reply. Right now, I'm feeling like I'd give anything to get back together with him because I know I will never find someone who will love me that much. (I know this is really selfish on my part too).

I can't text him or call him now since I think his mum will check his phone and my parents forbid me to do that since they think that this guy isn't worth it. also, I believe that if we tried to get together gaian, our parents would strongly disapprove which makes me feel like there's no way this relationship can go on.

I don't know whether I should get back together with him since the matter is not vvvv severe I feel just that we have to iron out some issues. Also, if we want to be friends I'm afraid it'll spiral into a relationship yet again but this time round it's gonna be frowned upon by both our parents and friends too :-( so I really don't know how to go about doing this?

Any help? :-(


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Just wait. Right now you don't know what you want. If you get back together with him, the same problems you had before will still be there. It's just easy to go back because it's familiar.

You guys barely broke up. So take some time to yourself before jumping right back to him.

Maybe after a few weeks apart and not talking you'll figure out if you really do want to be with him and how to fix the problems. Or maybe you'll realize you two are better off apart.

Just take time. You don't need to make the decision right away.


I apologize in advance, my ordering of events and questions is far cry from perfect. But I try to get necessary information in with the question in proximity. I hope that is an understandable action.

I "met" this girl roughly a year and a half ago, and in the beginning it was a generally good chatting, maybe mild flirting ( I still deny being a flirt, or a good one.) She would send me images of herself(With clothing, always), all the random emoticon, usually pertaining to affection, and similar things. ( Which also occurs now) I had gained feelings for her, but not anything too serious. Then at some point, a lull occurred, and we didn't talk for 5 months.

( This would be a fair time to point out, She is in Romania, and I in America. So this has never been anything physical, solely words and emotion. That sounds cheesy..)

Now, fast forwarding to say the past few weeks, we talk daily most of the time. usually it is me to initiate it, but whenever we start to talk she engages. Now, sometimes she will read what I say, but never reply. This can vary from a serious question to how are you. And after about a day(or less) I will ask what happened and she always gives me a reason, and she is never upset with me saying something again. Is this normal for someone to repeatedly not answer a message for so long?

Now, to focus on the subject a bit more, very recently she had a realization of how much I had grown to care for her. And how she never knew how much I really meant it.(She went through the brief "oh my I didn't know" stage.) In the time since we began speaking again, I had grown a much greater affinity for her, despite the not answering, and the interlacing moments of where she barely replied when she did. Does this seem logical to happen?

Now, the thing that sort of takes the cake, is she made this realization, 5 days after having a new boyfriend.(I was unaware prior.) so, all this time before, she still would show affection, or say some of the ridiculous pet names we'd give another. This raises a question: Does this mean she'd be flirtatious with other guys had we kinda gotten together?(Emotional/status manner, since the distance.) Would this be a girl I should stay interested in? - While in a not so great moment of disagreement, I had asked if she would like me to go, stop talking with her, and she had answered no, that I am special and she doesn't want to lose touch again. I like to believe there is sincerity in that, and to take comfort in it. But not all of her stories have added up. But any of those have mostly been trivial. And I suppose not every single little thing should be answered. I wonder if I am fooling myself to look past those or not.

So, after this extremely long description, I'd like to know your input. Should I keep caring and talking with this girl? Should I let so many things bother me?(Knowing the person you care for has a boyfriend that can and is probably actively putting his hands on her, among other things, is somewhat unsettling. As an example.) Or maybe should I move on?
Simultaneously, I don't want to actively be a bar in her new relationship, as much as that could potentially please me. I don't want to be that type of guy. Things like I see her more active on the social media we talk on, but whenever I say something, it's isn't quickly acknowledged, so I can make the assumption she is talking with him. So I don't want to butt in and become an annoyance while she is talking with him.(Only an assumption)
I feel overall this may be too far, or maybe I am just willing to admit it really does bother me.

Thanks in advance for input! And hopefully not excessive insult with profanity. I am sincere in my questions, and sincerely unsure what to do.

Brian 19/M
Her 17/F (link)
Don't keep talking to her if you have feelings for her. She has a boyfriend. Unless you can put your feelings aside and be just a friend, then you shouldn't continue.

It's normal to feel bothered that someone you have feelings for is with someone else.

If you want to keep her in your life, you need to move on and put your feelings aside. I don't know if you're just simply looking for a relationship from her, if you are, then just stop talking to her. If you do want a friendship and you're willing to only be a friend then there are things you have to do.
You have to realize there are boundaries. You will be only a friend to her. Being a friend means being ok with her being with someone else. If you're not ready for that, then stop.


Hi , so today I took a pregnancy test but I am so confused. So the pregnancy in order for it to be positive it should mark (+)(|) but if it's negative it should mark (-)(|). But my question is the pregnancy test marked (-) but it didn't mark the second line. In order to be positive the first line is a plus and then a straight line. And in order to be negative the first line should be horizontal (-) and then a vertical one (|). It marked negaitive as the first line horizontal (-) but it didn't mark the second line. Should I be worried? I mean the second line is the same for both positive and negative the only difference is the first lines a plus for positive and a horizontal line for negative. And I got the first negative horizontal line but no second line. Help?! (link)
Wow that's confusing to read.

Every pregnancy test is different. Some have the "+" and the "-". Some have one line as negative and two lines as positive. Some actually say "positive" and "negative" on them.

Read the directions for your test and it'll tell you what's positive and what's negative.

If you lost the box, threw it away or still don't understand it. Go buy a different brand.


Well ok I don't know what to do or think I have missed my period and have been craving really weird foods and I had sex with a guy that my friend hooked me up with and he wore a condom but it kept slipping off and I don't know if its a possibility that I might be pregnant because if my mom finds out she will send me away and I don't want that. (link)
You could possibly be pregnant. You never know in situations like these.

Go take a pregnancy test and find out for sure.

If you are, you can look at your choices of what you'd like to do.
If you aren't, and you're still planning on having sex, get on birth control.


18/f, he's 22. We both work together in a grocery store. He used to be my supervisor but he moved to be supervisor of another department so he isn't technically above me anymore. We went to the same high school so I always thought he was cute. He was the one to train me on register when I first started out and thinking back on it, even that was awkward-he would talk to me and walk me through how to do things but he was still shy then. One day I was on self check and he was restocking the impulse candy in the closed lane right next to me, a customer asked me something that I wasn't sure on the answer of so I went over and asked him and he was still awkward about it then, speaking very quietly to me so he just bypassed me and went straight to the customer and when he started talking to the customer, he was laughing and speaking at a normal level and everything, it's weird to see his personality change with whom he's around.

Now, I never really gave it much thought, I was always negative about it thinking that a guy as cute as him would never go for a girl like me. However, he was out at the bar with my brother's girlfriend the other night since they're friends and she texted me and apologized that she was tipsy and she "word vomit" to him that I think he is so cute. To which, she says, he replied "she's definitely cute" so she told him he should probably talk to me then because I'm shy and he said that he's really shy around me too.

But now it's like, we both know what the other thinks and now it's more awkward. Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? When two people know the feelings of the other, shouldn't it be easy to communicate? Nope. Not for us.

Many people know of our situation at work. He is friends with a lot of people at our work and I talk to a lot of them as well. Like, he's the hang out outside of work kind of friends with them but I'm the type of only hang out with them inside of work and I'm friends with the rest of the people that he isn't.

So, it's kind of comical to me to have everyone tell me they're going to get us to talk because nobody really understands just how shy he is around me because he isn't shy around anybody else. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not talking down on him because I'm shy around him too, if I wasn't, there really wouldn't be an issue to discuss here. I have people come up to me all the time, like oh "he was up here earlier and we talked for a good ten minutes before he was called back to do mods" or "he was just up here, he asked if you were working" - because I know he comes up a lot to help elderly customers do carry outs and that kind of thing because I see it, we make eye contact a lot as he's walking up or out the door, we just can't ever say anything. I even have the strangest supervisor (I'm not kidding, she'll just magically disappear for ten or so minutes sometimes and someone will find her in the back of the store, just feeding the goldfish, telling us that she could sense they were hungry) and she said he talks to her a lot and when she tells me that and she sees that I get irritated, she always says "yeah, well at least you know he can't talk to you because he likes you, I think a lot of girls would take him being shy because he liked them instead of just chatting like good friends" and I have to admit, that makes me feel better because a lot of girls that work with us tend to like him and think he's cute and he can talk to all of them normally.

However, lately, ever since he's gone to the bar that night with my brother's girlfriend, I've noticed he's been, I guess trying in his own way. He'll come through my self checkout when he knows I'm working which he never used to do but he still won't say anything. Or he'll come up for his returns sometimes and he'll look at me and smile when he walks by, but you guessed it, still doesn't say anything.

Yesterday, a friend of ours that used to work with us came in to buy some things and when he was finished, he stopped to talk to me and catch up and ask how everything was. When we were nearing the end of our conversation, he asked if any of his friends, that he used to hang out with when he worked with us, were working and at that time, the mute walked up and I pointed to him and they started talking. Our friend included me in the conversation too and I would laugh at both of their jokes and our friend would keep talking to me and him but he would only talk to our friend and not me. So, yes, when I say that he's shy... I mean it 1000% that he can't even talk to me in a group conversation.

So, I guess my question is: is this a lost cause? I know he isn't ever going to talk to me, it's just something I feel in my gut. And I have a feeling that I'll be too nervous for a while to say anything to him too. I've been planning on leaving my number on a sticky note and leaving it on his car one day but his one friend said he won't ever text me until he talks to me so that'd just be useless. I just don't know what to do. And please don't even tell me it's as simple as just saying hi because as I've stated numerous times, it's basically impossible for either of us to speak to each other which is what is leading me to believe how useless wasting my time on him is.

Thanks for any input! (link)
Yeah, it's not going to work until one of you get the courage to talk. And what if by that time, it's too late?

If you think this guy is worth it, then go talk to him.
Even though that's not the advice you want, it's like the only thing to do. Unless you just want to wait but it doesn't seem like you're happy with it. And you could possibly miss out on something awesome just because neither one of you had the courage.

So maybe just take baby steps. You guys already make eye contact, next time you smile. After that you can wave, after that you can say hi, then eventually start having small talk enough to where you can give him your number?

If he's not going to do something about it, then you should.


ive been pretty depressed for a while... i got my first bf in feb. 2014 and we broke up last week. also my frinds started fighting and hating eachother. i lost my only 5 frinds that i had made since 1rst grade. i started getting bad grades on my report cards and im getting made fun of for it. im just 10 years old but i cut myself and hav suicidal thoughts... please give me advice. (link)
These things are normal things that happen in life. They shouldn't make you depressed. It's normal to feel sad over losing friends and people you care about, but to get suicidal is too far.
Because what you're going through, it doesn't last. Your situations will be better and different in the future.

So this isn't about your situation. Everyone goes through break ups, everyone loses friends, everyone gets made fun of. Sadly, you shouldn't accept people making fun of you. That's something that you need to talk to an adult about.

But more importantly, you need to get help for your suicidal thoughts.
You need to talk to a teacher, a parent, and counselor. Any adult that can get you the help you need.
If anything, call the suicide hotline number.


My boyfriend said he wanted to take a break because he knows himself and knows that he might hurt me. He says he isn't ready to be exclusive right now. He said he hella likes me, that he likes me too much to hurt me. He said he liked me too much and that's why he was doing this. He called me over the phone to tell me this but we agreed to talk about it in person soon. What does this mean? Is it just bs and he doesn't like me? He's cheated on his girlfriends in the past is he not the type to commit or just not to me? Is this the end? He said he didn't want to lose me forever and still wanted to be cool with me he said he was always here for me. Is this a breakup or just a break. He offered an open relationship. He said later on wed probably be exclusive but he's not ready yet when I asked. He said he definitely still wanted me in his life. Any advice, be completely honest. (link)
I would just go with what he says.

He said he's not ready to be exclusive. That's all it means. Don't start reading into anything.

The advice I can give you is to not wait around for him. You don't know how long it will be till he is ready to be in a relationship.

He probably does still want you in his life, just doesn't want to be exclusive and see other people. I don't know him, but just based on what you've said.
By him offering an open relationship, it means still mess around but still seeing other people.

So I'd take some space to yourself and keep your head up. Don't wait for him and try to move on.


About a year ago I met the most amazing guy. We clicked immediately, and he asked me out. We dated for several months, but broke up when he had to change states for his job. We considered doing long distance, but ultimately decided against it (I could tell he didn't really want to).

We remained friends - with benefits. We've been visiting each other every few months or so. We discussed getting back together if we ever found ourselves in the same city. Then, he mentioned that although he had strong feelings for me, he didn't know if he could ever love me, and didn't want to break my heart again. He eventually confessed that he never had feelings for me; which makes very little sense to me because he really seemed like he did like me. He claims that he loves spending time with me, but that's it.

He is a very emotionally distant person. He has trouble opening up and dislikes talking about his feelings. I know he's been hurt in the past; every girl he has had real feelings for has hurt him, but he claims to "get over it" very quickly. He does not attach emotionally to anything.

He calls me his best friend. We talk daily. He encourages me to date and meet other guys, and it hurts. He talks about his future, and I'm not in it. I'm a little hurt because I'm blindsided; we seem to have the perfect recipe for a wonderful relationship. I want to be with him and he thinks he can't love me - I don't understand how someone could even come to that conclusion, especially when we are best friends and are sexually involved.

Any advice? (link)
I agree with Rahzie.

He's telling you what he wants, and even though it sucks, there's nothing you can do besides believe him.
The only other thing you can do is sit around and wait for him to maybe change his mind. But who knows when/if that will ever happen?

You like him a lot but talking to him every day and sleeping with him won't help you move on. And the best advice I can give you is to move on.

You have to respect his feelings and his wishes that he doesn't want to be with you.
I don't know why he doesn't have feelings for you, some people just spend time with someone and get involved to find out it's not the right connection. The only thing I can say is that you have to take care of yourself on your end because you can't change his end of things.


I want my best guy friend to believe that I truly like him he's 13 I'm 12, he told me to do so I must arouse him. I will not go further, but how do I give him a bonar? Please no comments about my age. Btw I'm a girl. (link)
Since when did giving a guy a boner mean that you truly like him?
Literally anything and any girl will be able to do that to him.

At his age, he's going through puberty so just talking to him, giving him a hug or a kiss can cause him to have a boner.

But this is a red flag. It has nothing to do with your age. I'm 20 and if a guy told me what your guy is telling you, I'd be done with him. At any age if a guy tells you to do something sexual to "prove" something, it is just sexual and he's using you.

Also, when you give a guy a boner, sex and other sexual activities are going to end up on his mind. So don't do this unless you're ready to actually go that far.
Because what's the point of giving him a boner and not doing anything about it?

Anyways, bottom line is that he's using you.




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