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Does it really hurt ?
So there's some girls who say when you lose your virginity it hurts is it true?
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It hurts for some people.but its not unbearable. As long as your of age dont worry your body will adjust. I was scared at first but after, naah.
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It's different for each person.
For most girls, yeah it hurts.
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A woman eager to demonstrate her virginity to her intended, not only inserts colored dye, but gun powder for good measure. Worse, she uses the wrong color of ink: green! As they consummate their union, there is a blast! "Now do you believe that I was a virgin?" she demands. "Oh my God!" replies he, beholding the green splatter "You've burst my gall bladder!!"
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The ring of skin called the hymen covers a bit of the entrance to the vagina. It is a stretchable skin. Men in history would look for a show of blood on the sheets to know whether their woman was a virgin or not as in some countries that is still an issue. Problem is, not all women have a hymen that will rip or tear and bleed. There is a tight feeling yes, you might feel a twinge too. But a terrible pain...usually can be avoided if the male is considerate and patient and you use lube and he enters slowly, a tiny bit at the time, giving this elastic skin a chance to stretch, then moves in a bit further at your okay and waits for you to get used to that and so on til he is fully in. The ripping comes more often from the guy pushing in too fast. A hymen can get stretched out from just masturbating with a toy, your fingers and use of tampon. So in many woman, there is no pain with sex first time. This is why in some foreign countries today, the females who have had a lover before or those who fear they may not bleed, purchase a fake virginity kit, a water soluable tube with with fake blood that you insert in the vagina. He can't feel it but when the friction of his movement breaks it, what looks like blood comes out. There are women in the world who are virgins and put to death for not being a virgin just because they didn't bleed. So don't worry if you don't, its normal too.
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Yes, depending on your tolerance for pain will depend how Much it hurts, however. It mainly only hurts for girls though. How it works, is that there is this circle of skin (like a ring) outside your vagina (the whole) that rips a little when you lose your virginity, because of the pressure and all. I wouldn't worry too much about it. It has to happen sometime, after all.
Hope this helps~
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