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Location: caribbean
Age: 21
Member Since: April 10, 2015
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what do i do? i am a girl my best friend is a boy and i have a crush on him, how do i tell him it without it being super awkward? (link)
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M best friend and i are inlove but scarrd to date n mess up n lose our friendship of bou 6 years. I think there is a future for us. So we gonna jst see how far it goes.be slow to tell him. If you guys are friends for long, more than likeely he'll feel the same way aboit you. My bestfriend told m first.i was embarrassed to tell him.
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So there's some girls who say when you lose your virginity it hurts is it true? (link)
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It hurts for some people.but its not unbearable. As long as your of age dont worry your body will adjust. I was scared at first but after, naah.
Hope that helps. :)
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Since my girlfriend was introduced to my younger sister, they've always had a real sisterly relationship (even though they're not related).
But over the past year and a half, it's been getting worse and worse.
Only a few noticeable things have happened during this time. My sister has lost A LOT of weight and she has become her high school's best track runner (she used to be overweight). My GF and I, on the other hand, have both put on a bit of weight (about 40 lbs in the past year and a half).
So, my sister has started wearing a lot of flashy, eye-catching clothes (makes sense) and my girlfriend has started wearing yoga pants and slippers (and I'm wearing sweats a lot too now).
But, the thing is, my sister and GF are not getting along like they used to. Sometimes, it feels like you can cut the tension in the room with a knife. Idk what to do / how to help? Please give me some advice? (link)
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Talk to them together. Sometimes someone knows something and instead of confrontation they just keep it in and cause tension.
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My boyfriend of almost 2 years, would've been two on April 11th, broke up with me about a week and a half ago. He said that he still loves me and cares about me and wants to be with me but he said he needs time to think about his feelings. He said that he has been feeling unhappy for the past couple of months and he feels like he isn't 100% into our relationship as I am and he says that it isn't fair to me. We still talk about every day and we have seen each twice since the break up and we end up having sex when we do see each other. I'm completely confused and heartbroken about the whole thing because he says he loves me but yet he is putting me through all of this pain and he said he is doing it to make "us" work. He said it is very hard to explain and I just want to know what to do. I'm tired of being confused and I'm feeling very depressed because we have talked about getting married within the next year or two. Please Help 23/f. I have dated other guys before him and one was for 2 years and that one ended very bad. I'm just so crushed and confused because I love him so much and don't want to throw away the past two years. (link)
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Is okay to feel heartbroken. B you must realize that when a y ends a relationship like that he usually leaves you thinking of eeverything you did wrong,when in reality you were the best. Go out and have some fun. Connect with your friends and family. Do your hair n wear some bright colors. dont be down in the dumps,even if ur forcing it. It will take time but you'll get there. Trust me,i sufferrd my lost of my first love for years.dont let him think he has the upper hhand. If he cant work fo you,fire him! ;)
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I'm 20 years old. Ever since I was a very young child, I've had severe problems. I would love therapy, but I am not able to afford it. I've been diagnosed with severe depression, anxiety, panic attacks, bipolar 1, and PTSD. I was (for years) on a multitude of psychiatric medications. More recently, I decided on my own, to stop my medications (safely, I consulted my psychiatrist to help me titrate down) and I got a lot better. I feel quite a bit better that I was able to make that decision, knowing that I didn't need to depend on them anymore. I've been slowly learning how to cope and deal with my struggles more on my own, but of course it's difficult. The big things I'm struggling with now are that I've never had a job due to my problems. I'm working on my GED too. I'm working with VR (vocational rehabilitation) and they've helped me make plans to get a job and help with my GED but of course it's still hard for me. I get terrified with almost everything. I'm not giving up but it's causing a lot of stress, not only on me but the people in my life that care about me. I feel ashamed of myself that I can't do things that most other people can do easily. I always feel like I'm disappointing my loved ones. I wish they didn't need to help me so much, but I don't know what I'd do without them. I'm so so grateful to have them, but I feel so horrible not being able to help them and be there for them as they have been to me. I feel like a terrible person. I'm not sure what I can do. I don't know how to conquer my anxiety and panic attacks. I am still on a small dosage of Xanax to help a little, but its still very difficult. I wish I could get some therapy to help find the true cause of my problems, but as I mentioned earlier, financially I can't afford one. Has anyone had any similar problems? Or methods to help cope through my anxiety and stress in a healthy manner? And what would you suggest to do to help mend my relationships and be able to open up to them more so we could come to more understanding of all our situations and work together to fix it? I'm sorry this is such a long entry, but please, any advice would help immensely. And I would like to sincerely say thank you in advance to anyone willing to share any advice! (link)
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Hy there.
Im 21. I know how you feel to a certain extent. Ive honestly never felt like a normal person. I used to drink and smoke and cut up myself. I would drive anyone away, but i later met my best friend in highschool who was really there for me. Sometimes everything you touch breaks and you really heed ears to just listen. I also went to a christian camp which was super fun. I cant believe how much ive changed with the guidance of god. Im happy now. Things are finally working. Find some good support and hang in there.
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