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confused about what to do
Found out he is a player and he is still playing girls and it hurts so much even though I don't talk to him or communicate with him, anytime I see him I remember everything so badly, how can I get over it and him
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It takes time to get over someone. So people need more time than others.
Even though it's easier said than done, forget about him. Do things that make you happy. Try new things and go out with your friends. And go meet new guys.
These things take time, and everyone goes through some sort of heartbreak.
So my advice will be to take time for yourself and do things that make you happy.
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The reason it still hurts is that your emotions are still attached to your memories. We can never get rid of memories but time has a way of making the strength of the emotions begin to fade little by little. I don't believe there is anything like selective amnesia to totally forget only the things you want cus if it were so, someone would be a billionaire for showing us how.
So while you are waiting for time to do its healing, keep your mind busy and engaged in doing things so you don't have time to even think about him. Its a good time to try something new you've always wanted to, something where there is a learning curve to keep you really focused.
You could spend time pampering yourself or learning how to expand your horizons, study relationships and how to understand men, observe people in public. See if you can get a second sense of which guys love their ladies and are loyal and which are the douch-bags to be avoided. This all takes time to learn too but every little bit you learn in studyig books or videos even on youtube can help prepare you for when you are ready again.
Good luck!
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