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15/f. i really want to start wearing cute belts with my jeans but i don't know what kinds to buy. i don't want to wear really preppy ones. i like studded belts but i think that is just a little too punk for me. so what other kinds of belts are there?

thanks!

well i know that if you go to Vanity you can get super cute belts there like they're not exatcly preppy but then not punk its like a mixture of both and if you go to a mall and theres a place called Cosmic then they have really cute belts or maybe even American Eagle or Charlotte Russe

http://www.charlotte-russe.com/

http://www.ae.com/web/index.jsp

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ive heard some people say that you may not even relize that your hymen has been popped, is that true? or .. yeah idk and another question, does it always hurt when it gets popped by tampon,sex etc.?

yes that is very true at anytime your hymen can break..like it could happen when you're riding a bike..i dont realli think it would hurt when u insert a tampon i mean it may hurt if its your first time and i think its suppoed to hurt when u first have sex

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17/f

ok. So I lost my viriginity today. We used a condom, and he's been tested so I know he's clean. When it happened it hurt a lot, but it's normal, right? I also didn't start bleeding until about an hour after it happened. It stopped, but my stomach still hurts.

So basically here's my question:
How long will it take until sex stops hurting?

I can def. see us doing it again in the future, maybe as soon as next week. Will it still hurt? I had fun anyway with the fooling around we did, but I'd like to enjoy it as much as he has, lol.

Thanks in advance!
-L

since it was your first time having sex then yes it is normal for it to hurt coz he broke your hymen (or in other words "popped your cherry") well it really depends on the size of the penis of the guy you're having sex with like you could have sex with this guy but then you can have sex with someone who has a bigger penis and that could hurt so either way it could hurt but if you just have sex with him then it should hurt after maybe after like the 3 times you all have sex

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This girl who is 12, in my school, had sex with a 14 year old.
I don't know the details or anything, but I know she has done it like 10 other times with a 16 year old too.

She agreed to, and wanted to, but couldnt they be charged with rape or something?

I live in ohio.

well it just realli depends if that 12 year old told anyone that she'shad sex with them but i dont think they could be charged because she was the one who agreed to have sex with them but if that person was like 18 nd having sex with her then yeah they could be charged

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where do they sell cute necklaces? maybe a cute silver one, with a heart? nothing expensive, something less than $50 will do. it doesnt even have to be silver or have hearts, anything trendy and cute and short let me know and give me the store name and pictures maybe please.

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alrighty then

-Claires
-Icing
-Body Central
-Urban Behavior
-Charlotte Russe
-Areopstale
-Wet Seal
-Hot Topic
-American Eagle
-Macys
and i think thats all that i know of

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My period hasnt been on for two months. I have not had sex with a boy, never. what could be my problem. Please help

well hmmm..have u had your period for more than a year? because if ir hasnt been a year then you're gonna have irregular cycles like it'll come one month but it wont come for another 4 months then thats normal because your body hasnt gotten used to it

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When I'm masturbating I rub up and down and stuff on my clit but for some reason it hurts a little..
At the same time it feels really good and the good feeling only lasts for like 20 sec.
but I feel like I wanna stop.
I'm not sure if that's an orgasm..
I don't know what an orgasm is.
But is that normal?

yeah i think its normal for it to hurt when you rub up and down against it..but i know that if you do rub yourself then rub yourself with your ring finger coz that finger is more smoother than anyother finger...so try that

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I am so new to cellphones. I have a Razr V3 GSM, which is basically the simpler version of that newer one, which I think most people knew that because there better with cellphones then I am. I have so many questions I hope I can fit them all here without them so bare with me thanks for helping me if you decide to. Can you recieve calls when your phone is off? Like will my phone show me what calls I've missed if my phone was off? How long will my charged battery last if I keep my phone on? I was planning on having it next to my pillow all through the night so my friends could call me but now im not so sure I can do that.. how can I get pictures I take from the camera onto my computer? Is that free? Thanks again for helping me

i think i have the same type of Razr you have but im not for sure..lol but anyways
-you cant recieve calls wen your phone is off
-your phone should tell you when you miss calls
-no it wont show you wat calls you missed when your phone was off
-it really depends wat you do to your phone like if u text alot or if you are on the phone oru just leave your phone open then the battery will waste but if you really dont mess with your phone then it should keep charged for awhile
-you can always send it to your email and it really depends if u have unlimited multimedia messages

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Hi, i have had maroon ugs for a year now. I have never put them over jeans. I waswondering ho you do it so it looks good, i tried it but the jeans got all wrinkly. If someone could maybe send me a pic and some advice on how to do it, that would be great!

you could always try skinny jeans or if u dont ike them then like instead of sorta just crimpling them up in your shoes try folding them and then like folding it if that makes any sense

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i really like the hollister, abercrombie, and ae styles but they are too expensive for my budget. do you know if these stores ever have any big sales? if they do when?

thanks!

they have sales all the time like if you go in the back of American Eagle then they are gonna have like alot of clothes left over and alot of them are super super cute so just look in the back of the store and i know for sure that Abercrombie has the same thing just go in the back of the stores but im not really sure about Hollister

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what's appropriate to where with flats? i just have simple black flats and i'm not sure what will look okay with them.

well i have brown sequinned flats and i always wear them with jeans and like either a brown shirt or a white shirt so since you have black it would pretty much match with everything

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what is a purse party?

i always heard that a purse party is where someone brings in designer purses and you get a whole bunch of people and you can buy them cheaper for wat they really are

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Do you have to be a certain age to purchuse a vibrator im 14, and if so...where can i go to get one?

ughh..i think they have sex stores buti think you may have to be 18 to go in or to buy them but im not really for sure i got my sex toy from a friend for my birthday and well she got hers from free from one of her friends mom

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is it okay to like.. touch yourself and have a sex toy or something at age 13?? my 13 year old younger sister does it.. and has been since she was like 6 or 7 with like a teddy bear. ew. and she got her period at age 10! a year younger than i got mine. ew. is this er.. normal? or should i ask a doctor or something.

Yeah. I think its very normal because i know that i got my first sex toy when i turned 14 lol but yeah alot of girls these days are starting there period pretty early now-a-days so i wouldnt be worried about it

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can you get stds if you get head because my friend said you cant but i dont believe him

uhhh..i think the onli std you can get from someone giving you head is prolly herpes if they have it on there mouth or somethin

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Has anyone else besides me noticed that the age of kids starting to have sex is dropping more and more. I mean the other day my friend told me she knew an 11 year old that had sex. I was like whoah thats messed up i'm 15 and i'm still a virgin and proud of it.lol. I mean serisouly what kind of a message is this sending to other countries?

So two questions...

Do you think Americas youth is way too sex oriented? yes or no?

If so what do you think is the cause for this? ex.tv music etc....


Thamx in advance

yeah i so think it is very sex-oriented nd im 14 nd still a virgin..heck i know more 10 year olds that have kissed more than i have..lol but thats besides the point.. i think america is very sex oriented i mean come on look at wat they are teaching the youth or look at wats influencing them to have sex. nd i think the cause for this is the media. verymuch the media coz thats all wat you see on tv now-a-days u have shows that have younhg people having sex,you have magazines teaching you about sex nd then you have music talking about having sex..but then again sex sells

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I totally loooove stockings - just plain black ones but I don't wear skirts often. Is it okay to wear stockings with shorts? If so what type of shorts (like camo print, beige coloured, denim etc.). What else can you wear with stockings?
Also I've got these really cute shoes, you can see them here: http://www.funktiondesignhaus.com/portfolio/etniesGirl/trixie.html
Do you think stockings would go with these shoes? Or knee high socks? And what colour? Also what should I wear with them; like shorts, skirt etc.

Any advice would really be great!

so are you talkin about the leggings?..lol im kionda confused but the whole leggings nd skirts are cute nd well irun around outside with shorts nd leggings all the time like i usually wear them with like blue nd white striped shorts nd my leggings are white i think knee high socks would look so freakin cute with those shoes (those shoes are so adorable by the way..lol) like get white nd get a white skirt that would be super cute

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what eye makeup makes your eyes appear larger and more open?? like wear should i put the eyeliner (botttom or top lid or both), and what color eyeshadow (brown hair blue eyes) and to make my eyes appear bigger do i put mascara on the top lashes, bottom, both or none? and does the smokey look make your eyes appear larger if so how do u do it??

well people say i have huge eyes..lol..nd i put eyeliner on my bottom lid i mix my eyeshadow like i mix mine with a sorta dark brown(not to dark) with a shimmery light brown i put mascara on both of my lashes (i use the XXL stuff from maybelline) nd well ya..lol

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I need help choosing which magazine I want to order.
I'm 14/f and I want some kind of magazine that has these features:

Quizzes

Tips on Make-up and fashion

has those mini posters of celebritys

letters from fans about embarresing moments and those kind of things

inside stories of celebritys

pictures of celebritys


I was kinda thinking about J-14... but maybe another magazine... I dont know, can somebody help me and name a few good magazines that are approriate for 14 year olds? thanks!
Oh and I want them to be fun too! not just boring, like only having pictures of celebritys. something that tells me "WOW!" thanks :]

i read Cosmo thats a pretty good teen magazine

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what are some good up && down dos for homecoming??

ughh well for homecoming i curled my hair nd took a wide ribbon nd put the ribbon on as a hair band..i cant realli explain it but it looked realli cute if u wanna see the picture then you can just im me or find me on myspace www.myspace.com/m1zz_michelle

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