When I'm masturbating I rub up and down and stuff on my clit but for some reason it hurts a little..
At the same time it feels really good and the good feeling only lasts for like 20 sec.
but I feel like I wanna stop.
I'm not sure if that's an orgasm..
I don't know what an orgasm is.
But is that normal?
Thief answered Tuesday November 28 2006, 10:32 pm: Well yea, it's an orgasm, i mean it also depends how hard your rubbing it. If you rubbing it too hard you might end up hurding yourself. Take it slow and easy that should help you out. Anyway take care [ Thief's advice column | Ask Thief A Question ]
laogurl2004 answered Tuesday November 28 2006, 4:49 pm: yeah i think its normal for it to hurt when you rub up and down against it..but i know that if you do rub yourself then rub yourself with your ring finger coz that finger is more smoother than anyother finger...so try that [ laogurl2004's advice column | Ask laogurl2004 A Question ]
karisue answered Monday November 27 2006, 10:49 pm: it is normal dear.
& trust me, when you have an orgasm, you'll know.
your clitoris is extremely sensitive, to almost any touch, so rubbing it may hurt a bit.
try rubbing lightly, or around it, it should still feel as good. [ karisue's advice column | Ask karisue A Question ]
amygwendoline answered Sunday November 26 2006, 11:08 pm: The clit is VERY sensitive, so usually whenever you RUB it CAN hurt. Umm. Maybe try taking your finger and putting it on your clit and then moving it up & down really really fast. Just by using the tip of your finger though. Hope that works. It should feel a little better rather then just rubbing, if by that you mean using your entire finger, I'm not sure.
That's definitely normal.
You'll know when you have an orgasm because it's like an AMAZING feeling like you'll just KNOW. I know what you're talking about though with the 20 sec thing, and that's like a minigasm. :] If you kept going after having that good feeling you could master an orgasm, you'd just have to try even though it feels like you wanna stop or if it hurts.
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